1. Remember that the commencement
of the Christian life is to be like the
“dawning light, which increaseth more
and more to the perfect day.” Therefore
when the hope of peace and pardon dawns
in the heart, do not consider the great
business of life as accomplished, but only
as begun.
2. Keep up as great a strife and earnestness
in religion, as if you knew yourself
to be in a state of nature. When
persons are under conviction of sin, they
are advised to be earnest and violent for
the kingdom of heaven. You ought not
to be less in earnest now, if you wish not
to lose a sweet and lively sense of spiritual
things.
3. Do not cease to strive and pray for
the very same things which you sought
before you had reason to hope you were
converted. Those who have most light
and most grace, have, nevertheless, need
of more. There are very few requests
that are proper for an impenitent sinner,
that are not proper for one who professes
godliness. At any rate, the mistake will
do you no harm.
4. Evidence of piety is not so much to
be sought in high emotions of any kind,
as in real humility—self-distrust—hungering
and thirsting after righteousness,
sorrow for sin, and a continual effort, in
every day life, to regulate our thoughts,
feelings, and conduct by the word of God.
It is the nature and not the degree of our
affections, which is to be regarded in the
examination of our evidences. The best
way to know our feelings is, to see how
they influence the conduct. “By their
fruit ye shall know them.” Always look
upon those as the best comforts, which
have most of these two effects—those that
make you least and lowest and most like
a child, and those that most determine
you to deny yourself, and to spend and
be spent in the service of your Master.
5. Do not expect to find in your own
case, every thing you have heard or read
of in the experience of others. For it may
be that many things we hear and read of,
are not correct feelings, and do not afford
just grounds of confidence to any one;
and if they are correct experience, it may
be the experience of a mature Christian,
and not to be expected in the beginning
of a religious life. It must be remembered,
that as no two countenances are formed
alike, so no two hearts are fashioned alike,
or placed in exactly the same circumstances;
and it would be as vain to seek
all the varieties of Christian experience
in one person, as to seek all varieties of
human features in one face.
6. Do not expect that the evidence desired
will all come immediately and at
once. It will be most likely to come progressively,
as the result of continued effort
in obedience to the will of God.
7. Do not suppose that religion is a
principle of such self-preserving energy,
as that when once implanted in the soul
it will continue to thrive and increase
without effort. The plant of divine grace
can no more thrive without care, and diligent
and patient cultivation, than can those
rare and valued plants, that demand the
physical efforts and culture of man.
God will not sustain and bring to maturity
the work of grace, without your
own voluntary concurrence in the diligent
use of means. He will not do it any more
than he would cause the harvest to whiten
in the field of the sluggard. Indulge,
therefore, no such ideas of inability and
dependence on God, as shall impair a full
sense of perfect obligation to do whatever
can be done in working out your own
salvation. God never promises to assist
any but those who make efforts to aid
and advance themselves.
8. Entertain no such ideas of the sovereignty
of God in the bestowment of his
grace, as would awaken any doubt of his
affording needful aid, where he sees sincere
endeavours to grow in grace. If some
christians are more eminent than others,
it is simply because they make more
efforts to be so, and God aids these efforts.
So that all worldly minded and indifferent
christians continue in this state, because
they do not choose to make efforts to get
out of it. Any person can be an eminent
christian that chooses to be so. Christians
are too apt to feel as if eminence in
piety was a distinction made by the
sovereignty of God, and to suppose that
high attainments are not within the reach
of all, and that languid and inefficient piety
is the result of divine sovereignty rather
than negligence and sloth. A more false
or more pernicious opinion cannot easily be
adopted by Christians. The truth is, that
the road to eminence in gifts and graces,
and the means of obtaining them, are open
to all who seek them, and if any do not
attain them; it is owing to their own sloth
and inefficiency, and not to any deficiency
on the part of God in blessing diligent
efforts. It always pleases him to crown
with success the hand of the diligent
instead of the hand of the slothful, not
only in temporal but in spiritual things.
This thought cannot be too strongly impressed
upon the minds of those who are
just commencing the christian life. To
them peculiarly, are such promises as these
directed; “Ask, and ye shall receive, seek
and ye shall find, knock and it shall be
opened unto you. Every one that asketh
receiveth,” &c.
Do not be afraid of indulging in feelings
which may seem to be right, from
the fear of deception. On the contrary,
cherish such feelings and try to recall
them often. Go forward and do your
duty, and God will save you from deception
while thus employed.
10. There is one caution which is
peculiarly needful to those who have been
greatly interested in the subject of religion,
and that is, to take particular care of the
health.
There is such a mysterious and intimate
connection between the mind and
body, that one cannot be wearied or suffer,
without affecting the other. When the
mind is fatigued and exhausted, it affects
the body, and this again reacts on the
mind.
Every person ought to be aware, that
the more anxiously and intensely the
mind is interested on any subject, the
greater is the need of exercise, sleep and
frequent relaxation. Attention to religion,
does not demand that all lawful business
be suspended, and forbids the neglect of
all needful rest and exercise; but be very
cautious here, lest you mistake negligence
in religion, for a necessary attention to the
health.
11. Do not expect to be made very
happy by religion, unless you become
eminent christians. A half way christian
can neither enjoy the pleasures of the
world nor the pleasures of religion; for
his conscience will not let him seek the
one, and he is too indolent to obtain the
other. The christian may be the happiest
man on earth, but he must be a faithful,
active, and devoted christian. None are
disappointed in finding religion a source
of unfailing peace and joy, but those who
refuse to drink deep of the wells of salvation;
unless we except those who, from
some derangement of the nervous system,
or failure of health, do not enjoy the clear
and undisturbed exercise of their faculties.
A healthy mind in a healthy body,
may always be made happy by religion.
12. Do not look at the practice and example
of other christians, in forming the
standard of piety at which you aim. The
allowance of this thing, has probably had
a more disastrous influence on the church
and on the world, than all other causes
that could be named. Generally, when
persons commence a christian life, their
consciences are susceptible and tender.
They are strict and watchful in the performance
of duty, and are pained even by
a slight neglect. They have been wont
to feel, that becoming religious implies a
great change; that “old things must pass
away and all things become new.” But
when they begin to look around among
their christian friends, and turn to them
for aid, and those who have had experience
and have made advances in christian
life, they find that they seem to look
upon duties and deficiencies in a very
different manner. They seem to neglect
many things which the young christian
has felt to be very important; and to
practice many things which he had supposed
inconsistent with religion. Then
commences the disastrous effect. The
young christian begins to feel that he
need not be more particular than those to
whom he has ever looked up with deference
and respect. He begins to imagine
that he has been rather too strict and
particular. He begins to take a retrograde
course, and though his conscience
and the bible often check and reprove, yet
after a few inefficient struggles, he lowers
his standard and walks as others do.
Look into your bible and see how christians
ought to live. See how the bible
says those who are christians must live,
and then if you find your christian friends
living in a different way, instead of having
cause for feeling that you may do so
too, you have only cause to fear that
they are deceiving themselves with the
belief that they are christians, when they
are not. Remember that the farther your
christian friends depart from the standard
of christian character laid down in the
bible, the less reason have you to hope
that they are christians. And do not
hesitate on this subject because you find
many professed christians, who are indifferent
and lax in their practice and example.
Remember that Christ has said,
“Many shall say unto me in that day,
Lord, Lord,” thus claiming to be his disciples,
to whom he will say, “I never
knew you.” Do not let professed christians
tempt you to fall into the society of
such unhappy castaways.
13. Do not be periodical christians.
There are some who profess religion, who
never seem to feel any interest on the
subject, except when every one else does.
It is true, there are special seasons of revived
religion in the hearts of all christians,
but if it is only at such times that
progress is made in divine life, and interest
is manifested in the salvation of souls,
there is great reason to fear that what is
called religion is nothing but sympathy
with the feelings of others.
14. Do not let the adversaries of the
cross have occasion to reproach religion
on your account. How holily should the
children of God, the redeemed and the
beloved of the Son of God, behave themselves.
Therefore, “walk as children of
the light, and of the day,” and “adorn
the doctrine of God your Saviour;” and
especially, abound in what are called the
Christian virtues, and make you like the
Lamb of God: be meek and lowly of
heart, and full of pure, heavenly, and
humble love to all; abound in deeds of
love to others, and self-denial for others;
and let there be in you a disposition to
account others better than yourself.
15. Be sure that there exists a marked
difference between your appearance and
conduct, and that of those who are not
christians. Remember that Christ has
required this of you, and that even the
world expects it.
16. Do not suppose you can recommend
religion, by appearing interested in every
thing that interests those who have no
better portion than this world.—Remember
that your deportment, your conversation;
your interest in dress, in company and
amusements; the manner in which you
perform your religious duties, are all carefully
noted and weighed by those around
you, who do not love religion; and if
they do not see a marked difference between
you and themselves, they either
conclude there is nothing in religion, or
else that you are a hypocrite. Worldlings
expect that you will be very different from
them, and despise you in their hearts if
you are not. If you wish to recommend
religion, let the world see it acted out according
to the beautiful pattern laid down
in the bible, and do not suppose that you
can improve this pattern by any addition
or subtraction of your own. On one
subject there are some who need instruction.
There is a class of christians who
appear taciturn, unsocial, and even sad.
This appearance is altogether inconsistent
with the spirit of religion. Christians
ought to appear cheerful and happy; to
appear to receive with pleasure and gratitude
all the lawful enjoyments bestowed
by their Heavenly Father. Such a gloomy
deportment as has been described, does
not do honour to religion, and causes those
whom we wish to win to the ways of
pleasantness and peace, to feel that religion
is a melancholy, unsocial, and forbidding
subject.
All professors of religion should endeavour
to have such views of God, his love,
his providence, his care; and should so
live, as to be cheerful and happy, and to
appear so.
On the contrary, there is a class of professed
christians, who indulge in frequent
trifling and levity. This is quite as inconsistent
and injurious as the former,
and if any thing it is more so. Let the
christian at least, learn to make a distinction
between cheerfulness and levity.
Remember we are commanded to avoid
foolish talking and jesting, and that it
is possible to be happy, cheerful, affable,
and kind without any trifling or levity.
17. Remember that your evidence of
possessing religion ceases when any thing
else has the first place in your thoughts
and interests.
Religion should not lessen our love for
our friends, or our real enjoyments; but
the desire to please God in all our ways
should be the prevailing feeling of the
mind. Our Saviour says, we cannot have
two masters; God and his service must
be first in our thoughts and affections, or
else the world and its pleasures are first.
If then we would find whose servants
we are, we must find who has the first
place in our thoughts and affections.
18. Never for one day omit to read the
bible with prayer. This is a most important
direction. It is of the utmost
importance that you should never for
once break over this habit. Prayer and
the bible are your anchor and your
shield, which will hold you firmly in
the path of duty, and protect you from
temptation. You had better give up one
meal every day, if it is necessary, in order
to secure time for this duty. You had
better give up any thing else. Nothing
is a duty, if the performance of it will
interfere with this duty. Remember this
is the bread of your life, and the water of
your salvation; and that you cannot live
in health a single day, without their
strengthening and invigorating influence.
19. Be regulated by a principle of duty
in little things. This is the way that
common christians are to cause their light
to shine. Few christians can expect to
do any great things to show their love
for the Saviour, but all can “deny themselves,
and thus daily take the cross and
follow him.” Religion should govern the
temper and the tongue; should save us
from indolence, from vanity, from pride,
from foolishness, from levity, from moroseness,
from selfishness, and all the little
every day foibles to which we are exposed.
Religion should exemplify its gentleness
in your kind and affable manners; its
purity and propriety in your conversation;
its benevolence in your conduct, and its
consistency and heavenly tendency, in all
your ways.
20. It is a most excellent method to go
to some sincere and candid friend, and
inquire what are your own defects in
temper, character, and every day deportment,
and when you have discovered
these, make it the object of your prayers
and efforts to correct them.
21. One thing ought to be strictly regulated
by principle, and that is the employment
of time. Always feel that you
are doing wrong when your time is passing
unprofitably. Have some regularity
of method on this subject. Endeavour to
ascertain how much time should be devoted
to your friends and to relaxation, and
to let the remainder be all of it employed
in the most useful manner you can devise.
Never be satisfied with the manner in
which you are spending your time, if you
can think of any possible way in which
it might be more usefully employed.
Remember that time is the precious talent
for which you must account to God;
and if you find yourselves indulging in
listless inactivity, or tempted to engage in
employments of no practical use, remember
your account to God. Be in a habit
of inquiring when you commence any
employment, “Is there any thing I can
do, more useful than this?” And do not
be satisfied till you have settled the question,
that you are doing all the good you
can.
22. Attempt by your efforts and example,
to raise the standard of piety and activity.
If all who are now commencing
the Christian life, should make this an
object, and not fall into the temptation
which professed christians so often set
before the lambs of the flock, the church
would indeed soon rise before the world,
“fair as the moon, clear as the sun, and
terrible as an army with banners.”
Resolve to be an example to those who
ought to be an example to you, and take
the bible, and the bible only, for your
guide in forming christian character.
23. Be active in promoting all benevolent
objects. Make it an object to prepare
to lead with propriety in all social devotional
duties. At this period, when
prayer and effort must unite in hastening
the great day of the Lord, let every young
christian learn to guide the devotions
of others, as well as to lift up his own
private supplication. There is nothing
which so much promotes the “brotherly
love,” required in the bible, and nothing
which so much promotes union of effort
and interest, as social prayer: and every
one who commences religious life, should
aim to be prepared to perform such duties
with propriety; and should stimulate
others to engage in them.
24. Do not hesitate in the performance
of all the external duties of a christian,
because you do not find satisfactory evidence
that your feelings are right.
Religious duty consists of two parts—feeling
and action,—and because we find
great deficiency in one respect, we surely
ought not to neglect the whole. It is as
unreasonable, as it would be, not to attempt
to feel right till every external
duty was perfectly performed.
If we are dissatisfied with our evidence,
let us go on and do every thing that a
christian should do, as the most hopeful
way to produce right feelings. We surely
cannot hope to bring our hearts right by
neglecting our outward duties.
Go forward then, and take a stand as
an active christian, and if your hearts
are not right with God, you may be sure
you are in less danger in taking this
course than in neglecting it.
25. Under special difficulties, or when
in great need of, or great longings after,
any particular mercy, for yourself or
others, set apart a day for secret prayer
and fasting by yourself alone; and let
the day be spent, not only in petitions
for the mercies you desire, but in searching
your heart, and in looking over your past
life, and confessing your sins before God,
not as is wont to be done in public prayer,
but by a very particular rehearsal, before
God, of the sins of your past life, from
your childhood hitherto, before and after
conversion, with the circumstances and
aggravations attending them, spreading
all the abominations of your heart, very
particularly, and fully as possible, before
him.
26. Remember that the principal duty
of a christian, as it respects others, is to
excite them to the immediate performance
of their religious duty.
Our Lord Jesus Christ appears to have
intended that through the instrumentality
of Christians, the perishing may be saved.
There is no christian but can find some
one mind at least, over which he can have
some influence; and if we can do any
thing to save others from eternal death,
nothing should for a moment prevent our
attempting it.
But to perform our duty faithfully in
this respect, requires both discretion, and
some knowledge derived from the experience
of others. The following hints,
therefore, are added as the result of long
experience and observation, and as a sort
of guide to those who may be anxious to
save a soul from death.
Let your first object be to persuade
your friend to give an earnest and immediate
attention to the subject. Serious
remarks upon religion, do not produce
much effect, unless some direct object is
had in view.
Urge the immediate duty of giving the
affections of the heart to God. Show
them that if they will only love God, they
will then feel their guilt in refusing to
obey him, and will greatly desire to live
for his glory. If they will only love their
God and Saviour, they will feel that they
can trust in the merits of his atoning
blood. Do not, for a moment, allow them
to feel that performing the outward duties
of religion, is doing any thing to recommend
them to God, but is only a means
of making them feel more deeply their
immediate obligation to give the affections
of their hearts to him, and of realizing
the reasonableness of his holy law which
requires it. Speak to them as if you really
felt that there was no need of any
delay, but that they could immediately
perform what God requires; and in order
to do this, endeavour to have a deep
and realizing sense of this truth yourself.
If they complain of their inability, or of
the difficulty they find in performing their
duty, show them that it is because they
have so long forgotten and neglected God,
that though it has really become difficult, it
is a difficulty they have made for themselves,
and which is an addition to their
guilt. Show them that whatever the difficulty
is, they can overcome it; for God
never requires of his creatures, what they
cannot perform, and his standing unalterable
law is, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy
God with all thy heart.” Remember always
that the more clearly, constantly, and
forcibly the truth is presented to any mind
that will attend to it, the more hope there
is that it will be obeyed.
One caution however, needs to be added,
and that is, that when it becomes apparent
that the mind will not be brought
to attend to the subject; when you find
that the efforts become wearisome and
unpleasant, always cease for a while, and
wait for another time, or else you will do
more harm than good. Persevering after
this will only affect their minds with
disgust and aversion towards a subject to
which they have resolved they will not
attend.
Another caution is also important.
Always speak kindly and affectionately
to friends upon this subject; and if you
find all your efforts vain, though you
cease to urge neglected duty, still continue
to express the same kindness and interest
for them. Do not give them occasion
to feel that, because they will not take
your advice, you have cast them off as
reprobates, and no longer desire their society.
We may still continue to love the
amiable natural traits of our friends, even
though we find that they refuse to have
them crowned and beautified by religion.
Let all your efforts for the good of others
be accompanied by earnest and constant
prayer.
Lastly, do not be discouraged because
you find that you are very deficient in
any of the particulars specified.
Remember, that Christian life is a warfare,
and that it is only at the end that
we are to come off conquerors and more
than conquerors. Remember, that He
whom you are striving to serve and please,
is not a hard master. Though you have
been inexcusable in fostering habits of
neglect, and all the difficulties you find
are of your own making, yet he can be
“touched with the feeling of your infirmities.”
When he sees that you really
are afflicted because you are so constantly
tempted to forget him, he pities you “as
a father pitieth his children;” and so long
as you see the means he has appointed to
keep you from sin, and wait upon him
for strength and guidance, he will never
leave nor forsake you. When you feel
your own strength and resolution failing,
go to him who hath said, “my grace is
sufficient for thee, and my strength shall
be made perfect in weakness.” Call upon
him, “and he will be very gracious unto
the voice of thy cry; when he shall hear
it, he will answer thee. And thine ears
shall hear a word behind thee, saying,
this is the way, walk ye therein, when ye
turn to the right and when ye turn to
the left.” Remember also, that the conflict
is short; the race will speedily be
accomplished—soon your deficiencies and
guilt shall pain you no more—soon you
shall “see him as he is,” and “awake in
his likeness and be satisfied therewith.”