It is undoubtedly one of the most valuable discoveries
arrived at by modern sociological science that each institution
varies in accordance with the social environment
in which it is found. A given institution or social form
(like the family, the state, the nation, the church) appears
under various forms in different societies, and among
peoples with a very low culture only rudiments thereof
may be expected. This point of view, applied to marriage
and the family, has led some writers to the assumption
of forms as much opposed to those usual in our societies,
as promiscuity and group marriage is opposed to individual
marriage and the family. Nevertheless, although the
variability and multiplicity of forms of marriage and
family were acknowledged, the concepts applied to them
were still the old ones, directly borrowed from our own
society and formed upon the facts found amongst ourselves.
In particular the sociologically untrained ethnographers
comprehended the phenomena of kinship only
under our own social concepts, judged them according
to our own moral standard, and described them with
words the meaning of which ought to have been defined
when applied to a new case; nevertheless these terms
have been nearly always used by ethnographers in the
same sense in which we use them amongst ourselves,
i. e. as expressing ideas of community of blood through
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procreation.[513] That this is quite erroneous will be shown
below. How far the idea of kinship changes from society
to society, what are its essential invariable features, and
what are the variable elements—these are the problems
that must be set forth.
The inadequacy of our ideas of kinship as applied to lower
societies has been often felt by those ethnographers who
wished to enter deeper into the problems of kinship
among a given people. They have found the greatest
difficulty in conveying to a European reader the meaning
of different terms of relationship. While warning the reader
to put aside our (the modern European) ideas of kinship,
they have hardly succeeded in giving any definite and clear
concept instead. The reasons for this failure are simple:
our ideas of kinship are defined by certain facts which are
not to be found in the given primitive society. In order
to define kinship so as to fit the latter, the author
ought to bring forward a series of facts, playing a part
analogous in the given society to that played by the
essential defining elements amongst us. But it is by no
means easy to know among which facts to look for such
analogous, defining elements. And here again arises the
necessity of a general definition of kinship, one which
would afford indications in what direction to search for
social facts giving a right idea of kinship in any given
society. Such a general definition would be like an
algebraic formula, having its constant and its variable
terms; if for the latter special data be inserted (in this
instance the special conditions proper to the given society),
the special value for any given case is obtained (namely
the special concept of kinship proper to the given society).
And it should also be indicated within what range the
variables should be taken; in other words, in what facts
the elements which specifically determine kinship in the
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given society must be looked for. The practical value of
such a general definition of kinship is obvious. On the
one hand it indicates the constant elements in kinship
common to all societies; on the other hand it indicates
the general character of the variable elements, and the
way in which they must be looked for and worked into
the general formula.
By the word kinship, roughly speaking, is denoted a
series of family relationships (those of parents to children,
brothers to sisters, etc.), all of which consist of a set of
extremely complex phenomena. They are made up of
the most heterogeneous elements: physiological (birth,
procreation, suckling, etc.), social (community of living,
of interests, social norms, etc.), and psychological (different
ways in which these relations are conceived, different
moral ideas, and different types of feelings). Special care
must be taken to select in all these elements the essential
ones, as an omission would be just as fatal for the
investigations as an overburdening with secondary
elements. Moreover, it would be specially valuable to
look at all these heterogeneous determining elements
from the same point of view, and view them all under one
and the same aspect. Leaving on one side the purely
physiological problem of kinship,[514] it appears necessary
to give a sociological view of kinship, i. e. to show the
social bearing of physiological facts as well as of psychological
elements. But it appears also necessary to
view the whole of the phenomena of kinship from the
psychological point of view; that is, to show how the sociological
and physiological facts of kinship are reflected
in the "collective mind" of the given society.
Besides for other reasons (adduced below) this appears
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necessary, because one of the most important scientific
uses that has been made of the different human systems
of kinship is one that presupposes a certain definite
meaning, as given to the terms of kinship in very low
societies. In Morgan's deductions a very important part
is played by the assumption that kinship is always understood
in terms of consanguinity; in particular that it was
understood thus by primitive man; that in all (even the
lowest) societies all ideas of kinship were essentially
based upon the community of blood, established in
the case of the mother by her share in bearing, in that
of the father by his part in procreation. Only by
assuming that these facts were known to the lowest,
prehistoric savages, could Morgan draw inferences from
systems of kinship terms about the forms of sexual
intercourse. If, on the other hand, the relation between
sexual intercourse and birth escaped the knowledge of
primitive men, they could not have based their idea of
kinship upon community of blood between father and
offspring; hence there could be no connection between
forms of sexual intercourse and forms of kinship as
conceived by primitive man. Whether there could be
connection between marriage, defined sociologically, and
kinship is another and more complicated problem. In
any case Morgan uses throughout his book the word
consanguinity, and he defines it as the tie of common
blood arising from the sexual act. In other words he
sets forth the problem in a simplified and incorrect form.
The question how kinship may be conceived in a given
society, especially in a low one, naturally presents itself
as a very important point of investigation.
As in the following pages there will be question more or
less exclusively of the individual relation between parents
and children, the present discussion may be fittingly
restricted to the individual parental kinship in Australia.
In the second part of this chapter facts giving some insight
into the aboriginal collective ideas of kinship are
set forth; and in the following chapter other different facts
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will be brought forward in order to complete the definition
of individual parental kinship. But in accordance with
what has been just said, it is needful to have some guiding
principle in collecting this material, and this will now be
looked for. This discussion, being only concerned with
the Australian facts, does not pretend to be complete, but
perhaps if the results are worked out so as to suit our
modern European concept of kinship as well as the Australian
one, it might, should it be correct, be applicable
also to other societies.[515] Let us now proceed to give the
general definition of kinship and in the first place to indicate
which are its constant, uniform factors found in
all societies.
Amongst the heterogeneous factors which together
make up parental kinship, the physiological facts appear
to be the most constant, for the natural process of
procreation is in all human societies the same. But the
social consequences of this process vary very widely
according to other variable elements, as will appear clearly
below in our discussion of consanguinity. Part of them
only, together with some social elements, may be taken
as the uniform, constant basis of kinship, such as must
serve for the first point of departure in an attempt to
discuss more in detail the kinship in any society. It
appears probable that this basis is given by the existence
of a group formed by a woman, her husband, and the
children whom she has borne, suckled and reared. The
existence of such a group will be considered as the necessary
and sufficient condition for individual parental kinship.
Where such a group exists we are justified in affirming that
individual parental kinship exists, although it is not
yet completely defined thereby; further facts must be
adduced in order to complete the definition. Those
further facts are precisely the variable terms in the
general formula of kinship; it remains still to indicate
their general character. But a few words must be first
said about the constant factors of kinship just mentioned.
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They consist in the existence of the individual family
group as determined by individual marriage and by
individual motherhood. Individual motherhood means
that the same woman who gave birth to a child stands to
it in a special close relation in its later life also: she suckles
it and rears it, and she is bound to him or her by the
manifold ties resulting from the community of life and
community of interests. This woman is bound on the
other hand to a man by individual marriage; and thereby
her children are bound to him also; and the mother, her
husband, and her children form the social unit called the
individual family. The existence of such a unit is to be
established by showing its different social functions, and
the different ways in which its solidarity and individuality
are marked in a given society. It is clear that the
position of the father is in this way first established
socially only, as the husband of the children's mother.
Nevertheless it must be borne in mind that thus his
relation to the children is clearly marked; and that this
is only a preliminary, so to say formal, determination of
fatherhood, which in all societies appears to be much more
materially defined by other factors, discussed hereafter.
The existence of the individual family as a social unit,
based upon the physiological facts of maternity, the social
factor of marriage and other social factors, are thus chosen
as the basis upon which we may proceed to analyze more
in detail the individual parental relation. Whether this
basis exists in all human societies and forms what was
called above the constant, invariable elements of parental
kinship, may remain an open question. This could
only be answered correctly a posteriori, on the basis
of a series of special researches in many societies.
The existence of individual motherhood, as this word
is defined here, seems to obtain in the majority of human
societies (or even in all of them). Nevertheless, as
pointed out above,[516] even this point cannot be treated
as self-evident. This applies in still higher degree to
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individual marriage, which has often been denied as
regards many societies.[517] In this place we have mainly
to keep before our eyes the Australian society and our
own society, the latter of which affords, so to say, the
heuristic principle, the clue to the understanding of the
former. As far as those two societies are concerned, our
choice appears to be the right one, and the social-physiological
basis mentioned above contains the essential
common elements of kinship in both societies.
The existence of individual marriage and its legal,
sexual and psychological aspects have been discussed and
established in the preceding chapters, as far as Australia
is concerned. A discussion on individual motherhood
will be given below. The existence of the individual
family group in Australia, based upon individual marriage
and upon individual motherhood, is the subject of the
remaining chapters of this study. So that the existence
of this physiological and social basis of kinship may be
taken as granted.
Bearing now in mind that what will be said hereafter
applies in the first place to Australia, it may be
said that in the physiological and social basis of kinship
adopted above, the minimum of conditions necessary
for the application of the idea of individual kinship
was enumerated. But this minimum is not sufficient
to determine this idea completely in any given society.
By studying only the social facts which determine the
individuality of family life within the society, we
should not exhaust all the features and essential
aspects of parental kinship in any society. The existence
of the individual family merely indicates unambiguously
that individual parental kinship exists in the
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given society. For this social unit having a deep analogy
with our own individual family, the relation between the
members of both these social units must also have some
deep resemblance. But to exaggerate this resemblance
would be as erroneous as to deny it. Besides the features
common both to our parental kinship and to that of the
Australian, there are also those which differentiate these
two relationships. They must be sought for in the differences
in the social conditions, which may even modify
the physiological basis of kinship, as for instance when
physical fatherhood is in one society established beyond
doubt by exclusive sexual appropriation, while in the
other there can be no question of it, owing to sexual
communism. The variations in the general social conditions
obviously also affect the purely sociological side of
kinship. To point this out clearly, it is enough to mention
that each relation is subject to the normative influences of
the society in the midst of which it exists, and these norms
and their sanction vary with the general social structure.
The variable elements in parental kinship must be also
looked for in the different elements of the collective mind,
connected with the parental relationship; in other words,
in the different collective ideas and feelings which have
parental kinship for their centre. Moreover, as mentioned
above, there are reasons why the knowledge of the
collective idea of kinship is sociologically important.
It may be emphasized here that we should cripple and
curtail our knowledge if we arbitrarily abstained from
inquiring what influence the collective knowledge as to
procreation, consanguinity, affinity, etc., may have upon
the social aspect of the relation in question.
The same thing may be said of another domain of
collective mentality: that is, of the feelings involved in
parental kinship. The type of feelings underlying this
relationship may vary with the society, in the same way
as these feelings vary with each individual case in any
given society. And as these feelings essentially determine
the character of parental kinship in any given society, it
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appears that the discussion of this point cannot be omitted.
Thus into the general formula of kinship there must enter
also the psychological elements: collective ideas, expressing
in a given society what is kinship, what are its
legal, moral and customary aspects; and the collective
feelings prevailing in a given society. From the interaction
of these psychological elements with different
variable social elements arise the more special, peculiar
factors which define kinship in any given society. In
other words, the variable elements in the general formula
of kinship are seen to arise chiefly from the collective
psychological interpretation and valuation of some of the
physiological and social facts underlying parental kinship.
To sum up, it may be said that parental kinship is the
personal tie obtaining between members of the parental
group or individual family, and like all other personalties
it must be further determined in each society by the
characteristic collective feelings and collective ideas which
in the given society give it its specific meaning.[518] This is
that general formula of kinship which will yield us what
we have demanded of it—that is, an indication of the
facts for which to look in any given society. As the facts
referred to in the first part of the above definition (the
establishment of the existence of the family unit) are
dealt with in the remaining chapters, it is necessary to
discuss only the second part of the definition.
The influence upon kinship of the beliefs and ideas as
to procreation appears quite plainly upon an analysis
of the concept of consanguinity, and to this we may devote
a few words.
Parental kinship is in our society conceived invariably
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and exclusively in terms of consanguinity,[519] or, speaking
more explicitly, parental kinship is conceived as established
by the tie of common blood, resulting from birth
(maternal kinship) or procreation (paternal kinship). Of
course the mere physiological fact does not establish
kinship in its full extent, with all its personal, emotional,
social and legal aspects. It is only when the physiological
facts of procreation or birth are sanctioned by society,
in other words when they are consummated in legal
marriage, that the children are full kinsmen of both their
parents. Society takes all facts which are of vital
importance for itself under its own supervision; and
consequently the important facts of propagation are
subject to the control of society, which regulates them by
a series of religious, legal, customary and conventional
norms, all of which are also necessary conditions and
essential features of full parental kinship. But this
sanction once granted, the tie of common blood is conceived
as the main source of all mutual duties and moral
and legal obligations; and from this also outflow the
feelings of love, attachment, reverence, and so forth,
which are in our society the essential features of parental
kinship. Once a man knows that a child, which he considered
his own, is in reality not begotten by him, undoubtedly
all his feelings for this child are affected, and,
under certain conditions, its legal position may be modified.
The two conditions for full parental kinship in our
society are (1) that the child be the real physiological
offspring of both presumed parents; (2) that it be legally
begotten or its birth legalized.
In our society the line of distinction between physiological
consanguinity and social consanguinity is quite
clear; the one is a mere physiological fact,[520] the other the
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social acknowledgment of this fact and all its consequences,
subject to certain norms, laid down by society.
There are two separate sets of circumstances in which
we may speak of consanguinity: (1) the existence of social
institutions, which allow us to trace the physiological
blood ties (e. g. monogamy or harem institutions), in which
case we can speak of the existence of physiological consanguinity
as obtaining between the members of the
individual family. (2) The existence of a social acknowledgment
of the facts of procreation as creating ties of
individual personal kinship, in which case we may speak
of social consanguinity. If neither of these conditions
are fulfilled, then it would be quite meaningless to speak
of consanguinity.[521]
Now let us see whether these conditions are to be found
in all human societies. That both are found in the
majority of the more highly developed societies appears
beyond doubt. But this seems not to be the case in the
lower societies. Even a superficial glance at them is
sufficient to prove it. Whereas, in some of the lowest
peoples known conjugal fidelity seems to be the rule,[522]
and consequently the physiological tie of blood between
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children and both their parents is secured, in other societies
of low culture the sexual laxity is so great that there is
no possibility at all of tracing the descent of a child from
any individual man.[523] This applies in the first place to
the majority of the Australian tribes, as is shown in the
chapter on sexual matters. In consequence, it may be
said that in many low societies, and especially in some of
the Australian tribes, there is no possibility of speaking
of physiological consanguinity as regards the father.
How does the case stand with the social importance
attributed to the facts of procreation? Here the variation
seems to be still greater. This can be very well
exemplified by the Australian material. Over the greater
part of the continent the father's share in procreation is
not known. There cannot be any social acknowledgment
of it. Consanguinity in its social sense does not exist. In
some tribes of South-East Australia, on the other hand,
the mother's share in procreation is under-rated; the
father is considered to be the only consanguineous relative;
the child is the father's offspring only, the mother being
merely its nurse. Here the consanguineous relation
between mother and child is considerably reduced in social
importance, and consanguinity as it appears to the social
mind is purely paternal. It may be said, therefore, that
paternal kinship in the Centre and the North of the continent
and maternal kinship in the South-Eastern tribes
cannot be called consanguinity (in the social sense of this
word), although in both cases very close kinship exists,
as will appear from a detailed discussion hereafter.
These examples show clearly that it would be incorrect
to treat physiological consanguinity as a constant and
indispensable constituent of parental kinship.
Besides these Australian examples[524] there may be
adduced many cases from other societies in which the ties
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of blood play no part in the collective ideas of kinship.
The Naudowessies have the curious idea that their offspring
are indebted to their father for their souls, the
invisible part of their essence, and to the mother for their
corporeal and visible part.[525] Here the father's part in
procreation was probably known, but the interpretation
thereof was not the correct physiological one, but one that
created, so to say, a spiritual connection as the bond of
paternal kinship, whereas maternal kinship was conceived
in terms of consanguinity. On the other hand, "according
to Kafir ideas a child descends chiefly, though not
exclusively, from the father"[526]—a belief analogous to that
of the South-East Australians. The same belief was held
in several higher societies (Egyptians, Hindoos, Greeks).[527]
Dargun has made a list of peoples among whom the
(social) father of the children is quite indifferent as to
whether they are really begotten by him.[528] Among the
Todas, where the determination of paternity is quite out
of the question, owing to their polyandry, fatherhood is
determined only by the performance of a conventional
ceremony (the rite of pursütpimi, or handing over to the
pregnant woman a miniature bow and arrow). This
constitutes fatherhood; the man who has performed this
ceremony is the (social) father of the child, even if it were
certain that he had not begotten it.[529] Another interesting
case was discovered by Dr. Rivers amongst the Banks
Islanders. There fatherhood is determined by the fact
of paying the midwife.
But the most noteworthy cases in regard to the present
subject are those where fatherhood in its social sense is
not consanguineous owing to the ignorance of the physiological
laws of reproduction (a state of things mentioned
already as obtaining in Central Australia). This ignorance
is of general sociological importance, because there
are well-founded reasons for believing that it was once
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universal amongst primitive mankind, as may be held
to be proved by Mr. E. S. Hartland in his thorough
treatise on Primitive Paternity. For the detailed argument
the reader must be referred to this fundamental
work.[530] Mr. Sidney Hartland has besides drawn sociological
conclusions from those facts in their bearing upon
paternal kinship. In Chapter IV of the first volume he
gives numerous examples of peoples among whom there
is no tie of consanguinity between father and son.[531]
To ascertain the influence of physiological ties of blood
on this relation in a given society it is needful to know the
way in which they present themselves to the aboriginal
mind. That is, we must know the collective ideas of
a given society on the facts of procreation. Do they
know, or do they not know, the father's part in procreation?
But this is not sufficient. Even if they know
a certain physiological fact, they may not acknowledge
its bearing upon kinship, they may attach no importance
to its social aspect. So it is with the fact of physiological
maternity in the South-East Australian tribes and
with paternity in the cases quoted by Dargun. And it
happens very often that in peoples where the causal connection
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between copulation and pregnancy is well known,
fatherhood is by no means determined by its physiological
aspect. Not only the collective knowledge of the physiological
facts, but also the collective attitude towards them,
must therefore be taken into consideration.[532] In short,
it may be said that physiological consanguinity has no
direct bearing upon social facts.
To define consanguinity in its social meaning, the
collective ideas held by a given society on the facts of
procreation must be considered. Consanguinity, therefore,
is the set of relations involved by the collective
ideas under which the facts of procreation are viewed
in a given society. And it must be borne in mind that
these ideas express not only the purely theoretical views
of the social mind on the facts of procreation; they
also involve different emotional elements, and especially
the social importance given to these facts by society.
Consanguinity (as a sociological concept) is therefore not
the physiological bond of common blood; it is the social
acknowledgment and interpretation of it.
It may be said, therefore, that consanguinity is not
always considered as the essence of kinship. If now we
wish to determine what are the common features of the
different ideas which in different societies define kinship,
the only answer is that the said ideas affirm in one way or
another a very close, intimate tie between offspring and
parents. These ideas may refer kinship to physiological
facts (consanguinity as found in the major part of human
societies); or they may base kinship on the performance
of a quite conventional ceremony (Todas, Banks Islanders);
or they may affirm a very close tie between parent and
child, on the base of some religious or magic belief (spiritual
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tie, transmission of soul: the Naudoweissies and some
Australian tribes, as will be seen below). It is evident,
therefore, that the general idea of kinship cannot be
construed in terms of any of these special sets of ideas.
The essential features that must be claimed for these ideas
(i. e. those ranged in the class of kinship ideas) are:
(1) that they must refer to the relation between child and
father or mother;[533] and (2) that they must affirm an
intimate bond of union of some kind between the parties
involved. As may be easily conceived, it will be difficult
in very low societies to get hold of these ideas, that is, to
obtain the exact answer to the question, "What is kinship?"
It is now impossible even to measure exactly
the difficulty of getting a precise answer to this question,
as ethnographers have never paid special attention to this
point. Nevertheless, in Australia we shall be able to get
at least some glimpses, which are of the highest theoretical
interest. And even the negative result—that the idea of
consanguinity must be considered wanting in the majority
of Australian tribes—is of considerable theoretical value.
Besides the general question, "What is considered as
the source of parental (maternal and paternal) kinship?"
we may ask questions about the various other ideas connected
with kinship. Here come in the legal, moral, and
customary ideas, by which society exercises its normative
power in reference to the said relation. Some of these are
expressed in different social functions.[534] Others may be
reached by the study of beliefs, traditions, customs and
other forms of folk-lore. The well-known customs of the
couvade are one of the typical functions of the father, in
which there is an expression of a deep connection of a
magical kind between the father and his offspring. Whatever
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explanation of these customs may be given,[535] it cannot
be denied that they are based upon the idea of a very
intimate tie between the two individuals involved, and
that this tie is conceived as being of a mystical character.
There is also a series of social rules which regulate the
social position of the offspring according to that of
its parents. This group of rules might appropriately
be called descent in the social sense of this word.[536] In
the Australian societies, e. g. the membership of different
social groups—as the local group, the totemic clan,
the phratry, the class—is determined by the membership
of one of the parents of the given individual. And many
authors speak of tribes with paternal and maternal descent.
It must be borne in mind, nevertheless, that in order to use
the word descent in a definite sense it is always necessary
to add what social group is meant. For it is possible that
membership in the local group is determined by the father,
membership of the phratry by the mother, and membership
in the clan by neither of them. The facts of descent do
not seem to play a very important rôle and are not suitable
to be chosen as the most important feature of kinship.
The facts of inheritance also have not very much influence
upon kinship (compare below, pp. 290, 291).
As it is easy to see, looking at our own ideas on parental
kinship, all the normative ideas, whether religious,
moral or legal, are in close connection with the central,
basic idea, i. e. in the case of our society, the idea of consanguinity.
And these normative ideas are brought by
the collective mind into causal connection with the central
idea of community of blood.[537] It would be the ideal of
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sociological research as regards our present subject if
we could bring in any given society all the normative ideas
into such a causal dependence upon the central idea, and
explain how they are conceived by the collective mind as
the outgrowth of this root idea; thus showing how all
the legal, moral and customary aspects converge on the
fundamental concept of kinship. Unhappily, in low
societies the imperfection of ethnographic material would
frustrate any attempt at such an enterprise. In Australia
our knowledge of these aspects—moral, legal and customary—is
very scanty. Although they are all undoubtedly
in quite a rudimentary state, careful investigation
would possibly disclose many points of extreme
interest.
One other problem must be discussed here more in
detail, owing to its great theoretical importance, viz. the
legal aspect of parental kinship. We have defined above
the meaning of the word legal.[538] In connection with what
has been said, we may affirm that the legal is only one of
the many aspects of kinship; that legal ideas, as far as
known for any given society, must be taken into account
when defining kinship, but that the latter cannot possibly
be reduced to its legal aspect only. And it is still more
incorrect[539] to represent physiological consanguinity and
legal power over the child as two mutually exclusive sets
of facts beyond which there can be no determination of
parental kinship. We find the opinion expressed by many
authors, especially with regard to Australia, that where-ever
the tie binding parent and child was not constituted
by the acknowledgment of consanguinity, that there
always it was based on legal principles such as potestas,
authority, Machtstellung, or other similar ones.
The incorrectness of taking only these two alternatives is
shown by the three following considerations: (1) Such a
view overlooks the facts discussed below, which show that
there is actual kinship based on ideas neither physiological
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nor legal. (2) This way of interpreting facts operates
with very indeterminate concepts, for we nowhere
find any explanation of how to take the general term legal
in connection with a given aboriginal society, and still
less are we told how such legal concepts as potestas,
paternal authority, etc., are to be applied to a given
aboriginal society. (3) If a definition of law or legal be
given, it would plainly be seen that it is quite erroneous
to consider any of these concepts as defining parental
kinship. This is quite clear if we use the definition of
legal given above, p. 11. But even allowing a broad
margin for the variations which may result from a varying
definition of legal, it may be safely stated that in whatever
way we might try to define this word, our definition must
always involve factors of social pressure, stress and authority.
In other words, the relation between two individuals
may be considered legal only when we imply that it is
wholly and exclusively determined by the outward regulating
control of the society and by a potential direct action
of it. And in the case we are speaking of—that is, the
relation between parent and child in low societies—there
can be hardly any question of this. As will appear in the
Australian case, this relation is left quite to itself, and it
is regulated by the spontaneous emotional attitude of
the father towards his child. No factor of any outer
pressure or constraint enters into it, at least we are not
informed of any such by the ethnographical evidence
extant. The collection and analysis of the statements on
this point given below[540] will show that there cannot be
any question of potestas, authority, proprietorship, or
anything of the kind. Neither social pressure nor economic
interest bind the parents to their children, nor does
any motive of this kind enter into this relation.
As this subject is very important, some examples of
the mode of reasoning just now criticized are set out here.
These passages are quoted from works of very distinguished
writers to show that the mistakes result from serious
[187]
defects in sociological knowledge, and not from any accidental
causes. And they are taken from passages which
either refer exclusively to the Australian aboriginal
society, or are exemplified by Australian facts.
Mr. Thomas, at the end of a passage in which he discusses
the relation between the concepts of kinship and
consanguinity says that in Australia "some relation will
almost certainly be found to exist between the father
and child; but it by no means follows that it arises from
any idea of consanguinity." So far we perfectly agree
with the reasoning of the author. But when Mr. Thomas
adds, "In other communities potestas[541] and not consanguinity[541]
is held to determine the relations of the husband
of a woman to her offspring; and it is a matter for careful
inquiry how far the same holds good in Australia, when the
fact of fatherhood is in some cases asserted to be unrecognized
by the natives,"[542] we see that he falls into the
error of acknowledging only two possibilities: potestas
or consanguinity. It is true that he speaks of consanguinity
as being modified by native ideas, and that thus
a social element is introduced into the physiological
concept of consanguinity. But we are still left to guess
how this social element is to be understood. And as
pointed out above, the relation between father and child in
the tribes in question cannot be considered as based upon
consanguinity or community of blood, whatever meaning
we give to these words. Erroneous in any case is the opposition
of kinship and potestas, as if these two concepts
were of the same order, and could be considered as two
equivalent categories excluding each other. Whereas,
as we saw, these two concepts are of quite different order
and cannot be treated as excluding or replacing each other.
Kinship is a very complicated social fact, very complex
in its sociological and psychological aspects. Potestas is a
legal category, expressing a set of attributes and rights of
the father over his children. Potestas (or any analogous
legal factor) may be a constituent element of kinship in
[188]
certain societies. It cannot possibly replace kinship
entirely.
A similar unsatisfactory reasoning, it appears to me, is
to be found contained in a passage of the small but clearly
and deeply thought out work of the eminent sociologist,
the late Prof. Dargun. He stipulates as the most important
postulate of studies in family organization the
discrimination between authority and consanguinity:
"Strenges Auseinanderhalten der Gewaltverhältnisse von
den Verwandtschaftsverhältnissen."[543] And he defines
Verwandtschaft as a purely physiological fact: "die letztere,
(Verwandtschaft) ist durch das natürliche Blutband gegeben."[544]
This is obviously an incorrect definition for
sociological use.[545] Equally unsatisfactory is the definition
given of the Gewalt (potestas): Gewalt vom natürlichen
Blutband unabhängig kann "auf sehr verschiedene historische
Wurzeln zurückführen."[546] This definition is both
negative and ambiguous, excluding elements of consanguinity
from potestas and assigning to the latter "various
historic roots." We might, therefore, expect to find everything
in this idea, but on the other hand such a definition
lacks precision and does not give either the direction in
which to look for the determining factors, or any criterion
for our recognition of the existence of personal kinship ties.
Now our definition of kinship responds to both these requirements
when applied to the Australian facts. Moreover
we find in these phrases of Dargun the alternative
condemned above between authority and consanguinity,
the latter used here in the crude physiological sense. It
may be noted that in some passages of the book in question
there are hints pointing to the fact that the author felt
the necessity of a psychological definition of paternal
kinship. So when he says, speaking of the Australians:
"Vollkommenste Vaterherrschaft, ja selbst ausgesprochene
Vaterliebe—gehen mit ebenso unbedingter Verwandtschaft—und
Stammeszugehörigkeit in mütterlicher Linie, Hand
[189]
in Hand,"[547] we see that here the author speaks of
paternal love and states that this is what determines the
relation of father and child in Australia. When he speaks
afterwards of the father as: "Beschützer und Fürsorger"[548]
of his children, we see that he mentions purely
personal factors of the relation of father to child, such as
we lay stress upon in speaking of community of life and of
interests. But still the author seems to be entangled in
his alternative between consanguinity and potestas. So
we read: "Wo zwischen dem Vater und seinen Kindern
ein wirkliches Verwandtschaftsverhältniss bestehet, dort
muss auf die faktische Zeugung durch den Hausvater
entscheidendes Gewicht gelegt werden, und umgekehrt
überall wo Gleichgültigkeit gegen dieses Zeugungsverhältniss
an den Tag tritt, ist das Gewaltverhältniss des Vaters,
noch nicht zur Blutsverwandtschaft herangereift."[549] In
this phrase there is a complete oversight of the various
actual ways in which an intimate relation between father
and child may be established, and which have nothing to
do either with consanguinity or with patria potestas.
In the new work of Prof. Frazer there are also some
pages touching on this point. Although he distinguishes
well between the physiological and social consanguinity,[550]
still in another place he says, speaking of the Central
Tribes: "Denying as they do explicitly that the child is
begotten by the father, they can only regard him as the
consort, and in a sense as the owner of the mother, and,
therefore, as the owner of her progeny, just as a man who
owns a cow owns also the calf she brings forth. In short,
it seems probable that a man's children were viewed as
his property long before they were recognized as his offspring."
[190]
It is impossible to agree with this opinion.
The word "property" can in no strict sense be applied
to the relation between father and child in Australia.
Besides the author does not even clearly indicate in what
sense he uses the word; and this word appears here only
as a metaphor. Moreover, it is obvious that this opinion
implies opposition between consanguinity and the legal
category of "proprietorship," and contrasts the words
"property" and "offspring."
In fact, as we hinted above, and as we shall have
opportunity of discussing below[551] in connection with the
evidence, there is little ground for speaking of authority,
patria potestas, "ownership" or any similar attributes of
the father as regards his children in Australia. It must
not be forgotten that these words are nearly meaningless
as long as they have not a legal sense. According to the
definition of legal we should say that two people stand to
each other in a purely legal relation when certain norms
are laid down and actively sanctioned by society, which requires
a definite mutual behaviour and attitude on the part
of each. It was pointed out above that in Australia we
have data allowing us to speak of the legal aspect of social
institutions and relations;[552] it appears improbable, though,
that there could be found any purely legal relation. At
any rate, nothing of that sort determines or forms the substance
of the relation between father and child in Australia.
If a father should kill or abandon his child, he would, for
all we know, be left quite undisturbed. Nobody compels
him to provide for its subsistence, to protect it and care
for it.[553] There are spontaneous elements that bind him
[191]
to it. And these spontaneous elements (to discover them
will be our task) determine his relation to his child.
Undoubtedly this kinship relation presents some legal
features, such as, for instance, his right to dispose of his
daughter in marriage (a right which in some tribes is
reported to belong to the mother or mother's brother).
But we know very little about it.[554] At any rate, there are
only a few occasions on which the relation in question
involves any possibility of social intervention.[555]
Nobody ever doubts, as far as I can see, the fact that
all personal ties between two individuals consist not only
of ideas, but also of feelings, and that they are influenced
no less by the feelings the two individuals mutually inspire
than by the ideas they form of each other. To
ascertain, e. g., if there be friendship between two people,
one seeks to know their feelings towards each other, as
well as what they think about each other. The relation
between a parent and a child is in our society chiefly
determined by their mutual feelings. And in a case
where these feelings are absent, this relationship—in spite
of all legal, moral, and other factors which tend to maintain
its form—is deeply affected. It may be taken for
granted that the sentimental side most essentially determines
in a given society any kind of personal relationship.
And in the same society the character of a given personal
relation—be it parental kinship or anything else—varies
with the intensity of the feeling and is essentially defined
by the latter. It may be accepted also, that in different
societies the types of feelings corresponding to given
personal relations may vary according to the society, and
[192]
may define in each one this given relation in its most
essential character. In other words, the concept of
collective feelings can be applied as well as the concept
of collective ideas.[556] By this is to be understood certain
types of feeling, which being dependent on corresponding
collective ideas possess the same essential character as the
latter: they exist in a certain society, and are transmitted
from generation to generation; they impose themselves
on the individual mind, and possess the character
of necessity; they are deeply connected with certain
social institutions; in fact they stand to them in the
relation of functional dependence (in the mathematical
sense). So, for instance, it is clear that in the hypothetical
primitive promiscuous society, in which ex hypothesi
there would be no individual relationship, the feelings
of affection for the individual offspring could not exist.
We could only speak of the "collective feeling" of
group affection. So it seems to me that the relation of
parents to children cannot be treated with any approach
to completeness without seriously taking into account
its emotional character.
But even if the foremost importance of emotional
elements and the possibility of treating them as collective
feelings were granted, there is another objection to be
met. Granted that these elements are actually quite
essential in determining family relations, it might be
objected that they are too shapeless and indeterminate
in themselves to be of any practical use in
scientific research, especially if our theories have to be
based upon ethnographic observations in which the
more tangible and the more unambiguous the facts chosen,
the less the risk of being misled. Now, are not feelings
of the most indeterminate character, the most misleading,
and the most difficult to ascertain? In fact, the theory
[193]
of feelings and emotions seems to be the least developed
in individual as well as in social psychology. Especially
it might be suggested that to pursue the investigation on
double lines is useless; feelings always find adequate
expression in ideas, in fact crystallize in them.[557] Without
trying to give a general answer to these objections,
they may be met as regards the special case under discussion.
In Australia, as a matter of fact, they do not
hold good. For our knowledge of the sentimental side
of parental kinship is much better and much more determinate
than our knowledge of any other aspect of this
relation.
It may be here indicated why our knowledge on this
point may be considered as a well-founded one. As stated
below (pp. 249, 250) the agreement between the statements
as to parental feelings is quite an exceptional one.
Comparing it with the usual discrepancy between the
reports of different observers on many other points, which
would appear much less liable to any subjectivity, this
complete agreement and the relative exactness of our
information is highly remarkable.[558] It should be noted
that on this point there is no extrinsic reason, or secondary
motive, that would make us suspect an artificial cause
of agreement. The point in question forms no part of
any theory; it affects no moral or racial susceptibilities.
And there was no special reason why so many observers
should pay attention to it, and why they all should state
the same thing: viz. extreme love and fondness towards
the children on the part of the parents. This agreement
[194]
shows that the facts which the ethnographers had under
observation were so expressive of the underlying psychology,
and they struck the writers so strongly that they
simply felt compelled to notice them. And observing
closely the facts through which those feelings of paternal
affection found their expression, it becomes evident that
these feelings are not so indeterminate as might a priori
be supposed; that, on the contrary, they find quite an
unequivocal expression in a series of facts. Let us look
more closely at these facts.
In the first place consider the facts of daily life[559]—the
behaviour of parents towards children in all the cases
where the latter want help or merit punishment. We
read that on all such occasions both parents exhibit
great kindness and extreme leniency. The children are
carefully looked after by the father as well as by the
mother; and they are very seldom punished. In one
place it is even stated that the father is more lenient than
the mother. Now is it not in agreement with all our every-day
experiences that in such facts and features of daily
life prominent and characteristic feelings find their
adequate expression? And is the accordance of opinion
among all our Australian informants on this point
not a proof that they were able to judge with great certainty
from these facts concerning the underlying feelings?—that
these outer signs were unmistakable expressions
of the inner facts? Undoubtedly our information
is too little detailed, and particulars referring to treatment
of children and other features of the aboriginal
daily life in this connection would be of the highest value.
But considering that the attention of the observers was
never specially drawn to these questions by any theoretical
writer, and comparing our information on this point
with other parts of our evidence, it must be acknowledged
that it is exceptionally good. And this reliability is doubtless
in the first place due to the fact that the subject of
observation was clear, unambiguous and well determined.
[195]
We are, moreover, in possession of a few reports of
actual occurrences in which the great love displayed
by the parents for their children is shown in its full
strength and under the stress of special circumstances. In
a battle that took place between some aborigines and
settlers, the former were put to flight. They had to
cross a river, but in doing so they left a child behind
them. It was seized by a Maori who was at the station,
and it was shown to the blacks standing on the other
bank of the river. The father of the child recognized
it at once. He seemed almost frantic, held out his arms
eagerly towards the child, making at the same time signs
for it to be given to him. The Maori pretended to be
willing to give it and made signs to the black to cross the
river again. And the black swam across the river to
rescue his child. Thus he did not hesitate to risk his
life in order to save his child; in the end he was treacherously
murdered by the Maori.[560] Another touching story
is told by Rob. Dawson concerning a mother's grief
after the loss of her son. He says that the woman was
utterly transformed by the blow. "Before the catastrophe
she was a remarkably fine woman, being tall and
athletic beyond any other in the settlement; now, she
was a truly wretched and forlorn spectacle, apparently
wasted down by watching and sorrow. I have seen
this poor creature often since our first meeting, at their
different camps near us, and she has still the same
wretched appearance."[561] These tales show that parental
feelings could be as deep and pathetic among the
Australian blacks as in any cultured society. We read
another story in Howitt,[562] who tells us that when he
was living one day in his camp in the Dieri country the
father of a lad, who was visiting Howitt's camp the day
before, came in a state of utmost alarm and terror. The
lad, his son, was missing, and they could not find
him. The father was terrified and, suspecting that the
[196]
white men had concealed the lad and might carry him
away, he looked through Howitt's luggage. It may be
noted that this occurred among the Dieri, where it is
said that individual paternity does not obtain. Nevertheless
it was not a group of fathers that came worrying
and striving to find the boy; neither was it a group of
fathers that risked their lives for the child, nor a group
of mothers that was grieving to death for their child.
In the few anecdotes reported below with the other statements
we see also how strongly paternal affection is
marked. So in the story of the old man quite infatuated
with his son and disconsolate after his death, and in the
story of another man eager to rescue his boy, and the
old man in Curr's story, who allowed his boy to do
anything he liked.[563]
Such stories and anecdotes could be easily multiplied
from the ethnographical material extant. They all corroborate
our proposition, viz. that the sentimental side
of the parental relation expresses itself quite clearly
and tangibly in ever so many facts of different order,
and that it would be easy for a well-informed observer
to give a fairly exact account of the feelings in terms of
facts. These facts, as said above, are in the first place
the facts of daily life, which are quite unmistakable in
their meaning and easily expressed in an accurate manner.
The proof of it is that we have now relatively abundant
data, although no methodical research was devoted to
these facts. Then there are different occasions on which
the limit of affection, the maximum and minimum of
their range in a given society, is established. Such are
the foregoing stories. I think we can safely conclude that
the emotional side is on the one hand quite essential,
and important enough to take the first place in our considerations.[564]
On the other hand it can be accurately
[197]
described in terms of objective data for the purpose
of being chosen as the chief characteristic of the parental
relation. It must be added that not a single other side
or aspect of this relation appears to fulfil these conditions
in the same degree. As will subsequently appear, our
knowledge about the aboriginal ideas on parental relationship
are not so ample by far as our knowledge about
their feelings in that connection.
The foregoing discussion has been mainly concerned
with the collective ideas which define parental kinship,
and the different sets of social facts in which these ideas
find their expression have been enumerated. It also
dealt with collective feelings, and the different facts in
which these are to be looked for were surveyed. We
must now emphasize the fact that just as we may say
that the different ideas determining kinship converge
towards one central concept, or rather flow out of one
common central idea of kinship, so there is also an intimate
connection between the ideas determining kinship
and the feelings bound up with it. This becomes obvious
if our own social conditions be considered. As mentioned
above, a father in our society loves his child in a great
measure because he knows that it is his own offspring.
In societies in which the idea of consanguinity (in the
social sense) does not exist, such a connection between
feelings of paternal love and knowledge of a physiological
procreation would be impossible. And it would be of
the highest sociological interest to trace what form such
connections assume. An attempt at such a study would
be possible in our own society and in other higher
[198]
societies, although there would be serious difficulties
enough. But there would hardly be sufficient material to
attempt it in any lower society, and there is absolutely
no possibility of doing this for Australia.
A brief summary of the foregoing argument may now
be given. It was stated at the beginning that parental
kinship corresponds to a very complex and manifold
set of phenomena; moreover in various societies this
relationship is determined by various elements. The
problem is to find in all this complexity the structural
features, the really essential facts, the knowledge of which
in any given society would enable us to give a scientifically
valid description of kinship. In other words, the
problem is to give a general formula defining kinship,
which would state its constant elements and give heed
to the essential varying elements therein; that formula
being on the one hand not too narrow for application
to the various human societies, it would be on the
other hand not too vague to afford quite definite
results when applied to any special case. A final solution
of this problem cannot be arrived at a priori, but
only by way of induction, after the facts in the different
human societies have been studied. And in order to
attempt such a preliminary study of the Australian facts,
the foregoing remarks have been given; they aim at a
general definition of the kind just described in the form
of a tentative or preliminary sketch. Consequently in
the first place the attempt was made to ascertain what
could be taken as the constant elements in individual
parental kinship. What appeared to be nearly universal
in this connection is the fact that infants and small
children are always specially attached, and stand in a
specific close relation to a man and a woman.[565] The
woman is invariably their own mother, who gave them
birth; the man is the woman's husband. The existence of
this group, which may be called the individual family,
is the basis upon which kinship may be determined; it is
[199]
the condition under which it is possible to speak of
individual parental kinship in any given society.
But it was shown that the knowledge of these facts is
not sufficient to yield a precise idea of maternal and paternal
kinship, and that many of its manifold aspects of
foremost sociological interest would remain unknown
if the inquiry were broken off at this point. These latter
aspects depend upon factors which are by no means
constant in all societies, but have a very wide range of
variation depending on the general social conditions. A
discussion of the concept of consanguinity has shown
that the variations go so far as to affect the main question
of paternal kinship: "Who is the father (in the social
sense) of a child, and how is he determined?"
In order to indicate in which direction the varying
general conditions of society must be investigated so as
to yield all that is essential for the sociological knowledge
of kinship, it was found most convenient to range the
facts in two main lines of inquiry: (1) The different
sets of facts which express the central collective idea
of what fatherhood is; and the various other collective
ideas—legal, customary, moral—of a normative character
referring to the relation in question. The social facts in
which these ideas must be looked for are: Beliefs, traditions,
customs referring to the relation in question (as for
instance the couvade type), and functions of kindred
such as legal duties and obligations between parent and
child. (2) The facts in which the expression of the
collective feelings characteristic of the relation in question
is to be found. The facts of daily life, as well as the
dramatic expression of feelings, come in here. The emotional
character of the parental kinship relation is of
the highest importance in determining the social feature
of this relation, and for the comprehension of its social
working.
These points of view will be applied hereafter to the
discussion of the Australian parental kinship. But in
order to illustrate here their theoretical bearing, a short
[200]
discussion will be given of some of the ways in which the
concept of kinship has been applied to low societies by
sociologists. Morgan's way of dealing with the meaning
of kinship must be first mentioned.[566] He assumes
without further discussion that kinship was conceived
always and in all societies, even the lowest ones, in terms
of consanguinity.[567] Our discussion of consanguinity shows
how great a mistake it was on the part of Morgan
to impute to the primitive mind a whole series of ideas
which absolutely and necessarily must have been foreign
to it. As was said above, primitive mankind was certainly
wholly ignorant of the process of procreation, and
the relation of the sexes cannot possibly have been the
source of kinship ideas. How great a part this assumption
plays in Morgan's deductions it is easy to perceive.[568]
And he was led to it by omitting to discuss and analyze
the concept of kinship, and by applying to low societies
our own social concept of it.
J. F. MacLennan uses also the kinship concept as
identical with that of blood relationship.[569] But it must
be emphatically stated that MacLennan recognizes both
[201]
the importance of feelings in relation to kinship[570] and
the fact that consanguinity was not known to primitive
man,[571] although he unfortunately does not develop these
two important ideas.
The same use of the concept of kinship (Verwandtschaft)
was pointed out above as a mistake of Dargun's.
The ideas on kinship of Prof. Frazer and Mr. Thomas
were also dealt with above, where it was found that they
were not adapted to the complexity of the facts.
Mr. Sidney Hartland rightly sees that kinship is not
necessarily identical with consanguinity in our sense.
But he wrongly restricts kinship to a specific kind of ideas
about community of blood. "Though kinship, however, is
not equivalent to blood relationship in our sense of the
term, it is founded on the idea of common blood which
all within the kin possess, and to which all outside the
kin are strangers. A feeling of solidarity runs through
the entire kin, so that it may be said without hyperbole
that the kin is regarded as one entire life, one body
whereof each unit is more than metaphorically a member,
a limb. The same blood runs through them all, and
'the blood is the life.'"[572] This definition, illustrated
as it is by many examples, is one more instance showing
that the idea underlying kinship may be different from
the idea of consanguinity in our sense, i. e. consanguinity
of blood through procreation. But the affirmation
that kinship is always based on some idea of common
blood, seems to be not in accord with the facts. Moreover
this passage, which is the only one designed to define
kinship, is quite inadequate to the importance of the
[202]
subject, especially in a treatise devoted to primitive
paternity, and the result is that in this admirable work
the purely sociological side presents some obscurities.
The following remark: "Kindred with the father is
first and foremost juridical—a social convention"[573] is
also incorrect in the light of the foregoing discussion of
the legal aspect of kinship.
Dr. Rivers defines: "Kin and Kinship.—These terms
should be limited to the relationship ... which can
be demonstrated genealogically." This is quite a
formalistic definition and does not at all meet the
full facts of the case. Moreover it seems that in
this way we define the unknown by what is still more
indeterminate. For to draw up a genealogy we must
first know who are the individuals between whom the
line of descent is to be drawn; in other words we must
know how fatherhood is defined in a given society.
Among the Todas, Dr. Rivers had to ascertain in what
way the father of a given child is determined, before he
could proceed to draw up the genealogies.[574] In any case
the problem of kinship requires in the actual state of
[203]
things not only a purely formal definition, but a detailed
analysis. Much more important as regards the present
problem is the way in which Dr. Rivers has described
the kinship of the Torres Straits Islanders.[575] In introducing
the study of the functions of kin he points
to a series of important facts which determine some
social aspect of kinship and afford an insight into some
of the collective ideas concerning this relation. It must
be borne in mind, however, that the set of functions
described by Dr. Rivers gives us only a partial knowledge
of the social aspect of kinship. The every-day functions
corresponding to treatment, behaviour, feeding and so
forth, which characterize the intimate or home aspect of
the kinship relation, ought not to be omitted. They correspond,
according to our analysis, to feelings which make
an essential part of the relation in question. The social
functions of kin collected by Dr. Rivers, expressing certain
duties and privileges of the kinsmen involved, correspond
to certain customary norms. A complete collection
of all legal norms and all moral rules would be an essential
addition. That such moral rules do exist among the
Torres Straits Islanders appears certain from the precepts
given at initiation to youths.[576]
Messrs. Fison and Howitt in their treatise on Australian
kinship[577] do not give anywhere a clear definition of the
concept in question. The only place where something like
definition is given is page 121, where kinship is said to be
"membership in the same tribal division," and where there
is an acknowledgment that beyond "kinship" there still
lies "personal relationship" between the parent and
child. This is true, but this is only the first distinction
upon which the actual discussion of the problem ought
to be based. That the want of such a discussion is a
serious defect in the book is obvious.
[204]
The important distinction between kinship (parenté)
and consanguinity, which is one of the chief results of the
foregoing pages, has been made already by Prof. Durkheim.[578]
Nevertheless the exclusive stress that M. Durkheim
lays upon the legal aspect of kinship would not
seem adapted to the complexity of the facts. "La
parenté est essentiellement constitué par des obligations
juridiques et morales que la société impose à certains
individus." This is not enough. There are certain ideas
which affirm a strong bond between parent and child,
and undoubtedly these ideas, although neither of legal
nor moral character, exercise a strong influence on the
relation in question. Possibly the difference could be
reduced to the broader sense in which Prof. Durkheim
uses the words legal and moral; as his remarks are
necessarily short, being contained in a review, it is difficult
exactly to ascertain their sense. We have tried to show
that, especially in reference to low societies, both these
terms must be used with caution, and that a definite sense
must be given to them. Besides, I do not share Prof.
Durkheim's view that by substituting the word "kinship"
for the word "consanguinity" all Morgan's deductions
could be rectified.[579] The constitution of the family is
something quite different from and much more complicated
than the sexual aspect of marriage, and it cannot
be at once seen whether the nomenclature of kinship
(systems of kinship terms) could be shown to be rooted
in the former with the same ease as it can be shown in
the latter case. This would require a special study.
M. A. van Gennep also clearly establishes the distinction
between parenté sociale and parenté physique.[580]
According to our terminology the latter would correspond
to physiological consanguinity, while the former would be
identical with what we called parental kinship. We see
that this distinction is quite in agreement with our
theory. Only we called social consanguinity a special
[205]
case of kinship, where the collective ideas on procreation
play the essential rôle. Obviously these ideas may be
more or less physiologically correct or erroneous. But
where they are completely absent (as in Australia) we
prefer not to use the suggestive term consanguinity, and
to distinguish these cases from the former we use the
term kinship. M. A. van Gennep remarks further that the
Central Australians do not know the real cause of procreation
in spite of some illusory appearances (we shall
deal with this question in detail below and solve it quite
in agreement with the author in question); he shows the
wide extension of this negative belief in the Australian
continent, and speaking of the South Australian tribes,
points out that the most important aspect is that they
prove the independence of kinship and consanguinity.[581]
The same distinction between consanguinity and kinship
is also made by Prof. Westermarck in his discussion of the
classificatory system of relationship, and Prof. Westermarck
has already brought the important objection
against Morgan, viz. that the latter has "given no
evidence for the truth of his assumption that the classificatory
system" is a system of blood ties,[582] an objection
which has appeared also to us as fundamental. Unfortunately,
Prof. Westermarck has not given any
exhaustive discussion of the concept of kinship.
Finally, I wish to mention a passage by Sir Laurence
Gomme, which contains suggestive remarks nearly
identical with some views set forth in this chapter. "It
is of no use translating a native term as 'father,' if father
did not mean to the savage what it means to us. It
might mean something so very different. With us fatherhood
connotes a definite individual with all sorts of social,
economical and political associations, but what does it
mean to the savage? It may mean physical fatherhood
and nothing more, and physical fatherhood may be a fact
[206]
of the veriest insignificance. It may mean social fatherhood
... and thus becomes" (in some cases), "much
more than we can understand by the term father."[583]
It may also be pointed out for the sake of completeness
that in the great majority of human societies parental
kinship assumes the form of consanguinity; the ideas that
underlie kinship are generally gathered round the facts
of procreation. These facts are connected with such deep
and powerful instincts and feelings that in the majority
of cases they naturally shape and influence the ideas of
maternity and paternity. But the few exceptions to
this rule which we meet with in very primitive societies
are of the highest theoretical interest, both from the
evolutionist's and psychologist's point of view. The final
remark I would like to make here is on the well-known
fact that physiological maternity is much more easily
[207]
ascertainable than physiological paternity. Paternal
kinship, therefore, will much more frequently differ from
what we called consanguinity than maternal kinship.
But some of the Australian examples and our previous
general considerations should make us cautious in laying
down a priori any assertion of the purely physiological
character of maternity.
The foregoing remarks on kinship, and the sketch of a
general definition of kinship given above, of course bear
upon the whole of the present investigations, since
parental kinship being one of the relationships involved
in the individual family, all that refers to this latter unit
relates more or less immediately to parental kinship.
In the other chapters we attempt to discuss the existence
of the individual family, and of those of its features which
appear to be universal, and which have, therefore, been
adopted as the basis of parental kinship. The general
features of the Australian individual family are given in
the concluding chapter, and a comparison of the results
presented there with the foregoing general definition of
kinship[584] will be sufficient to satisfy the first point of this
definition, i. e. to prove the existence of individual
parental kinship in Australia and to describe its constant
elements. In the following chapter (Chap. VII.) attention
will be paid to the functions of kin, which correspond to
the collective feelings of parents to children. Here we
shall discuss the data taken from Australian folk-lore,
which bear upon the parental kinship, and shall thus
satisfy that part of our definition in which it was laid down
that the ideas of kinship must be investigated.
The survey may commence with the Central tribes,
[208]
the folk-lore of which we know best, owing to the excellent
information given by Messrs. Spencer and Gillen, subsequently
confirmed in its main lines by the joint publication
of Herr Strehlow and Frhr. von Leonhardi. In these works
we possess a very detailed description of the aboriginal
views on conception and birth, which are connected with
their totemic beliefs. These views will not be reproduced
here in extenso, and the reader is referred to the
sources and the special works.[585] The reader is therefore,
[209]
supposed to be acquainted with the aboriginal views on
conception, and only the ideas which in these theories
refer directly to our subject, i. e. those underlying
parental kinship, will be dealt with here.
Roughly speaking it may be said that these totemic
beliefs and theories of conception prevent the aboriginal
mind from forming the idea of physiological paternity
and even probably weaken the social importance of
maternity. For the only cause of pregnancy is that a
"spirit-child" entered the body of a woman. "The
natives one and all in these tribes believe that the child is
the direct result of the entrance into the mother of an
ancestral spirit individual. They have no idea of procreation
as being directly associated with sexual intercourse,
and firmly believe that children can be born
without this taking place. There are, for example, in
the Arunta country certain stones which are supposed
to be charged with spirit children, who can, by magic,
be made to enter the bodies of women, or will do so on
their own accord."[586] Accordingly no tie of blood can be
supposed to exist between the father and his child; there
is no room for any ideas of physiological paternity; in
other words, using our terminology, social consanguinity
between father and child does not exist.[587] This is the
[210]
most general conclusion that can be drawn from the
beliefs quoted. But in connection with this question
there are still some details, some controversial points into
which we must enter in order to dissipate any doubts as
to the correctness of our general conclusions just mentioned,
as well as of some subsequent reasonings.
(1) There seems to be some incertitude as to the complete
absence among the natives of any knowledge regarding
the physiology of procreation. We read in Strehlow,[588]
"Übrigens wissen die alten Männer, wie mir versichert
wurde, dass die cohabitatio als Grund der Kinderkonzeption
anzusehen sei, sagen aber davon den jüngeren
Männern und Frauen nichts." This phrase might evoke
some doubts as to whether we should attribute so much
importance to the alleged ignorance.[589] But according to
subsequent information in the same publication,[590] we
must not attach to this phrase too much weight. Possibly
the knowledge of the old men comes from alien sources;
at any rate we see from the explanation given below by
Frhr. von Leonhardi that this phrase does not rest on any
concrete facts, or any well-founded information. From
the point of view of collective ideas it must always be
remembered that it is in the social institutions of a given
people and in the whole of their beliefs that we must look
for the foundation and confirmation of a given creed. It
would be a superfluous digression to point out how deeply
the totemic theory of conception is connected with all the
other beliefs and the whole social life of the Australian
aborigines—as this has been done by so many students
[211]
of the subject, and pre-eminently by Prof. Frazer in his
recent work on Totemism and Exogamy. Some doubts
might also arise from the fact that the natives apparently
know the real process of propagation in the case of the
animals. There is undoubtedly some difficulty here;
and additional information on this point would be most
valuable. Nevertheless the case is not quite hopeless:
if we assume that this correct physiological knowledge is
of a relatively late origin, it is quite natural that it would
arise first in relation to the animal world, because the
ideas about man, being the most important and elaborate,
would be the most conservative. Anyhow this point
requires further elucidation.[591]
(2) We must insist upon another point, which might at
first sight cast some shadow of suspicion even on the
foregoing one. We read in Spencer and Gillen[592] that
sexual intercourse "prepares the mother for the reception
and birth also of an already formed spirit-child who
inhabits one of the local totem centres." And this belief
of "preparation," although at first denied by Strehlow,[593]
was substantiated by him after a more careful investigation
and emphatically affirmed.[594] Although there might
seem to be at first sight some room for doubt, whether
this belief does not create some connection between
copulation and pregnancy, and so a bridge for the formation
of ideas of paternity, a moment's reflection dissipates
these doubts. For in this belief there is absolutely
nothing that would point to any individual male as the
father of the child. We do not know whether, according
to the native beliefs, there must be this preparation for
each incarnation, or whether it means only that a female
cannot conceive without being deflorated. Considering
the emphasis with which, according to Spencer and Gillen,
[212]
the natives deny any causal connection between copulation
and birth, the second supposition seems to be the
more probable. But even if the first supposition were the
right one, it does not imply any knowledge that a given
man has contributed to the body or soul of the child.
The latter, already formed (although diminutive in form)
enters the womb of a woman. We see therefore that
our general conclusion of page 209 is by no means
contradicted by this detail in the aboriginal beliefs.
(3) In the third place I would like to deal with the
question whether the totemic beliefs concerning conception
contain the idea of any reincarnation of ancestors,
as this point will be subsequently of importance to us.
And on this important question there is controversy too.
Spencer and Gillen emphatically state: "In the whole of
this wide area, the belief that every living member of the
tribe is the reincarnation of a spirit ancestor is universal.
This belief is just as firmly held by the Urabunna people,
who count descent in the female line, as in the Arunta
and Warramunga, who count descent in the male line."[595]
On the other hand, the belief in reincarnation is expressly
and explicitly denied by Strehlow and Leonhardi:
[213]
"Den Glauben an eine immer wiederkehrende
Reincarnation dieses altjirangamitjina (= alcheringa of
Spencer and Gillen), den Spencer and Gillen gefunden
haben wollen, hat Herr Strehlow nicht feststellen können."[596]
In another passage of the same work the
expression of Spencer and Gillen, "in every tribe without
exception there exists a firm belief in the reincarnation
of ancestors," is simply designated as misleading ("irreführend")
by the editor (Frhr. v. Leonhardi).[597]
We seem here to be again at a loss. For behind the
mere assertions of both parties there is a considerable
amount of fact which seems to corroborate each of them.
Spencer and Gillen do not give us bare statements. Such
concrete and detailed accounts of beliefs as those quoted
below[598] are very cogent. We see by them that Spencer
and Gillen's assertion concerning the existence of reincarnation
is the general expression of a series of positive
facts; as there cannot be any doubt as to the authenticity
of the latter, the general assertion of our authors is convincing!
But if we inquire more precisely into the
nature of this reincarnation we find certain "contradictions"
and "inconsistencies" in these beliefs, and we can
quite safely agree with Frhr. von Leonhardi that if we
"take the expression exactly to the letter"[599] we are
compelled to deny the existence of any ideas of reincarnation.
The only objection is that any attempt
to give "strict" or "exact" sense to aboriginal ideas is
completely misplaced. The aborigines are not able to
think exactly, and their beliefs do not possess any "exact
meaning." And if an attempt be made to interpret them
in this way, we shall always fail to understand them and
to trace their social bearing. We must accept those
beliefs as they stand in their quaint concreteness, full
of contradictions and inconsistencies, and endeavour
[214]
to mould our ideas upon the given folkloristic material,
of which an adequate knowledge is indispensable for
sociological purposes and gives us a very deep insight into
the mechanism of different social groups. So, for instance,
the aboriginal beliefs of reincarnation will be found
to be of some importance as regards the idea of kinship.
But let us return to our analysis of this aboriginal idea
of reincarnation. To define the word exactly the expression
of Baron Leonhardi may be accepted; reincarnation
means "that the given totemic ancestor himself continually
undergoes rebirth." In other words the belief
in reincarnation logically defined consists in a strict
identification of a given man with a given ancestor.
From this it is obvious that one would look in vain for
such a belief amongst the Australian savages, who do not
know anything of logic, and can neither affirm identity
nor perceive contradictions.[600] Instead of identifying
two things, they feel only a strong but mystical bond of
union between them. In this sense the new-born child
is obviously a reincarnation of a given ancestor. For it is
"identical" with the spirit-child or ratapa of which it is
the incarnation, and this again is "identical" with a
given Alcheringa: obviously using the word "identity"
in the sense indicated above, i. e. that there is some
mystical tie between the Alcheringa and the spirit-child
which has emanated from him or her.[601] That this tie exists,
we know from the data,[602] from those given by Strehlow as
[215]
well as from those of Spencer and Gillen.[603] And consequently
it may be said that the Central Australians regard
each man as the reincarnation of a given ancestor; this
being, of course, understood with the restriction here laid
down. Thus, any doubt as to this point—namely that
all human beings are reincarnations of Alcheringa ancestors—may
easily be set at rest.
There still remains, however, the question, much
more important to us, whether there be amongst these
tribes the belief in the reincarnation of human ancestors.
Strehlow's information seems absolutely to deny any
idea of repeated reincarnation;[604] a man after death
goes to the ltjarilkna-ala, where after a certain time
his ghost undergoes perfect and final destruction.[605] A
man who has lived his life never returns. I confess that
to assume amongst savages the existence of such a neatly
defined and categorically-formulated belief in absolute
destruction or annihilation seems to me rather suspicious;
and there is perhaps some misunderstanding of a rather
theoretical character on the part of the Rev. C. Strehlow.
Moreover, we are informed by this latter author that
besides this belief in annihilation there are ideas according
to which the souls of "good" men go to heaven to
Altjira,[606] and the souls of the "bad" people are eaten up
by the atna ntjkantja.[607] Consequently not all souls perish
after death, and reincarnation is from this standpoint
[216]
not impossible. And even if there were some belief as to
this annihilation, it might perfectly well be connected
by the natives with the ideas of reincarnation. The
primitive mind, as has often been urged, does not perceive
contradictions. It is not to negative instances that we
must look for an answer, but always to positive ones: if
we do find indications of a belief, we are then sure that it
exists, even if it were in contradiction with ever so many
others. If we do not find it, we can say nothing, and
especially we are not justified in proving its absence by
showing that it stands in contradiction with any of the
beliefs ascertained.
Now Spencer and Gillen adduce in several places concrete
instances of beliefs which prove beyond doubt
that the idea of the reincarnation of human beings actually
exists in the Central tribes. As this point is of some
importance in our present study, these instances must
be brought forward. One of them is the belief that
infants, who either die or are killed, soon undergo reincarnation.
Such a belief exists among the Arunta,[608]
among the Kaitish and Unmatjera.[609] And again, in another
place, such a belief is reported to exist in all the tribes
examined by Messrs. Spencer and Gillen.[610] That this
belief is deeply rooted is shown by the fact that it
serves as an excuse for the practice of infanticide; for
the natives believe that the same child will soon
undergo rebirth from the same mother. It might,
nevertheless, be objected that here rebirth is undergone
only by persons who died in infancy; and that this has
little connection with the reincarnation of ancestors
dead long ago. But, first, this belief is the proof of
the existence of reincarnation ideas in general, and
moreover there are better instances still. There has been
found amongst the Urabunna the belief that a person
at each reincarnation changes sex, class and totem.[611]
The same belief in the alternation of sexes at each successive
[217]
reincarnation is held amongst the Warramunga.[612]
The knowledge of these concrete and detailed beliefs
enables us to affirm without hesitation that the general
idea of the reincarnation of human beings exists among the
Central Australian tribes.[613] A mere assertion on the part
of our informants might leave some doubts; but if they
adduce these beliefs in detail, the doubts can be only as
to their trustworthiness; and this is out of the question
in the present case. There are yet other facts confirming
the assumption we are dealing with. Messrs. Spencer
and Gillen give a detailed account of the wanderings and
doings of the ghost after death.[614] They say expressly
that the ghost after a time goes to a certain place, where
it awaits reincarnation. A similar belief in a land where
the souls of the dead await reincarnation has been found
in the Adelaide tribes.[615] So that, dividing the problem
of reincarnation into two questions—Is there among the
Central Australians (1) a belief in a reincarnation of the
Alcheringa ancestors? (2) a belief in the reincarnation of
human ancestors?—both must be answered in the
affirmative.
To sum up our somewhat extensive discussion of the
totemic beliefs of conception, we may say that the collective
ideas of the Central and North Central Australian[616]
aborigines ignore expressly and explicitly any connection
of blood between a father and his child, and probably
greatly reduce the importance of the maternal blood tie;
that even allowing for the greatest amount of physiological
knowledge amongst these aborigines, there cannot be
any question of paternal consanguinity. We have seen
further that in all these Central and North Central tribes
[218]
(and possibly in many others too) there is an idea of
reincarnation, not only of the Alcheringa, but also of the
human ancestors; the word reincarnation being used in
the sense indicated above, page 214.
So far the results regarding parental, and especially
paternal, kinship are purely negative; there is between
father and child no consanguinity.[617] But is there no
kinship? According to the theory of kinship sketched
above, individual parental kinship must be accepted as
existing in the Central no less than in all the other
Australian tribes, for the reasons already specified. And,
as was said above, and will be discussed again, it is even
possible on the basis of the evidence extant to give an
account of the emotional character of this relation. The
greatest difficulty is to know what idea the aborigines
themselves form concerning it; in other words, how is
fatherhood determined in the collective psychology of
the natives? Some indications at least of what we
look for may be found.
If we examine the different items of the folk-lore,
traditions, beliefs and customs of the Arunta, we can at
first sight hardly discover any ideas that bear upon our
subject. Fortunately, in the case of some of the Northern
tribes, we are in possession of information which appears
highly suggestive in regard to our problem. The Gnanji
and Umbaia tribes of the Northern territory share the
belief in totemic conception with all the more Southern
tribes. But amongst them the child is always of the
same totem as its father, wherever conception may have
taken place. These tribes have a theory to reconcile
these two beliefs that apparently are incompatible, viz.
descent of totem in paternal line and birth by incarnation
of a spirit-child.[618] They believe that spirits of the
husband's totem follow the wife wherever the married
couple may go, and that one of these spirit individuals
enters the woman's body whenever it pleases; no spirit-child
[219]
of any other totem could enter her. The infant is
therefore always of the husband's totem, and it is the
reincarnation of this individual spirit which has chosen
to follow the man and his wife on their wanderings. In
this belief there are, undoubtedly, contained ideas of a
strong tie of sympathy, affinity or kinship between the
father and his future child. In the first place the spirit-child,
which undergoes reincarnation, belongs to the
totem of the husband; but that does not as yet create
any individual relation between the father and the child,
although it constitutes a bond of totemic kinship between
them.
Nevertheless it must be remembered that the individual
spirit-child, which sometimes has even to follow the
married couple on their wanderings, chooses its mother
on account of her husband and not in all probability on
her own; for it is not of her totem, and it is improbable
that the natives assume ties of preference between two
beings of different clans, if there are at hand two members
of the same clan—the father and the reincarnated child.
Now this act of choosing, this special preference of a certain
woman on account of her husband, clearly points to
a very close tie between father and child. Unfortunately,
the writers who report the beliefs in question have not
investigated the side we have discussed, and as all hypothetical
inferences are dangerous in sociology, we must
consider this belief to be highly suggestive but nothing
more. Nevertheless, setting one against another the two
facts—the social existence of a close tie between father
and child on the one hand (as we can affirm it on the
ground of the emotional character of this relationship),
and the existence of a belief that the reincarnated spirit-child
is of the father's totem, and is, so to say, attached
to him in his roaming life—it is difficult not to suspect
some inner connection between them. Now, if our supposition
is right, and if this belief has its social influence
in defining fatherhood, it may be said that in the Gnanji
and Umbaia tribes the essence of fatherhood is seen in
[220]
the fact that a given man has determined a given spirit-child
to take up its abode in his wife's body, and that the
close tie of kinship lies in this mutual affinity or attraction
exercised by the man on the spirit-child. This is hypothetical,
but we may note another statement of Spencer
and Gillen's which appears to bear upon our subject and
corroborates our first hypothetical assumption.
We read that in the three coastal tribes of the Northern
territory—Binbinga, Anula and Mara—the natives are
very clear upon the point that the spirit-children know
which are the right lubra for them respectively to enter,
and each one deliberately chooses his or her own mother.[619]
Now descent in these tribes is strictly paternal both as
regards totems and classes.[620] This means that the father
determines the class and totem of his child. We must
assume, therefore, that the spirit-child chooses its mother
chiefly in regard to her husband, i. e. its future father.
It may, therefore, be once more repeated here that such
an act of preference involves the idea of a very close tie
between the spirit-child and the father; whether this
idea is a real kinship idea, that is, whether it has its positive
influence upon the different functions of the relationship
in question, is not mentioned by our informants,
and it would be quite vain to speculate upon the subject.
But again, putting the two items—i. e. the belief in
question and the existence of a close tie of kinship—side
by side, it is difficult to deny that a connection between
them appears very probable.
A similar social part appears also to be played by the
most general belief connected with the question of birth—the
belief in reincarnation. The question whether these
beliefs may be assumed in the Arunta has been discussed
at length, and an affirmative conclusion has been arrived
[221]
at. Moreover, it has been seen that this belief appears
to be almost universal in Australia, and that it is reported
by many writers. There seems to be some reason for
assuming that this belief may possibly have some bearing
on the aboriginal ideas of kinship. As the child is
an incarnation not only of a spirit individual, and consequently
of an Alcheringa ancestor, but also in the majority
of cases of a series of human ancestors, it comes into this
world with an already formed personality, and it stands
in a definite relation to an Alcheringa ancestor; to a Nanja
place and to a given Churinga; it has its place in a totemic
group and in a class. We may, therefore, reasonably
assume that among other attributes the child brings its
individual kinship, derived from some vague ideas about
a former life, with it into the world. In other words,
the child is probably supposed already at its birth
to stand in a definite kinship relation (dating from a
mutual previous existence) towards its individual parents.
In fact, if the child comes into the world as a member
of other social groups, it may be taken as very probable
that it comes as the individual kinsman of its
father and mother. Father, mother and child have
already lived in the past; they may already have stood
in a very close relationship; perhaps they have even
been members of the same individual family.
This supposition may appear at first sight highly
hypothetical; plausible perhaps, but nothing more; yet
there are other facts which in considerable measure
support it. There is the belief that the spirit part of a
child which is killed, or dies in infancy, comes to life
again by and by, and undergoes incarnation in the same
woman.[621] In this belief we see that the ties of individual
kinship, once established, do not give way after death,
and that they determine the rebirth of the child. This
belief may be a special case of a more general one, viz.
that rebirth in all cases is determined by ties of individual
kinship established in a former life. There is yet another
[222]
series of beliefs leading more directly to the same conclusion.
I mean the well-known fact that white men
were considered to be returned dead relatives, and
treated accordingly. We know that there were several
cases in which the life of a man was saved by this belief.
The best known is the case of Buckley, a run-away
convict, who lived about thirty years among the natives.
He was treated with the greatest kindness and tenderness
by his "relatives."[622] The same tokens of affection are
related to have been shown to a settler in the vicinity
of Perth by his "parents," who merely to see him
would travel more than sixty leagues through a country
which was in parts dangerous.[623] In another place we are
informed that a white convict identified with a dead
relative was presented with a piece of land which
"belonged to him by right." Similar statements are
numerous.[624] In order to establish the relevancy of these
facts to our problem, it may be remarked that the most
important features of the beliefs in question are (1) that
[223]
white men are identified with a given dead individual,
(2) that they get then ipso facto a definite place in the
tribe, in the local group, and—what is most important
as regards the present question—in the individual family.
The belief that people after death become white may
account for the identification of white men with the dead.
But the fact that in ever so many cases a white man was
identified with a certain individual, and became thereby
entitled to a social position, implies some additional
beliefs. One of these beliefs is the idea of rebirth or
reincarnation that we have established above in another
way. The other collective idea, which must be assumed
in order to explain the ease and readiness with which
feelings of affection as well as worldly goods were
bestowed upon these alleged relatives, is that in the
ordinary form in which dead men return to this life,
i. e. in reincarnation by birth, each individual brings
with him, or her, full social position, including individual
relationship. And this is the point at issue in the present
discussion. The fact that white men were recognized as
dead relatives compels us to assume that children—who
were considered as reborn men—were also accepted as
relatives. If the natives had not their mind turned that
way, if they were not used to identify every new member
of their society with some ancestor of their own, could
they do it so easily in the case of white men, who were so
different from them, and could not present any striking
physical similarity? Of course this inference is not a
cogent one. But putting side by side all the facts we
have gathered: the belief in reincarnation of the dead;
the easy recognition of dead relatives in white men; and
the promptitude with which, in some cases, the latter
were given their places in society, their hunting-grounds,
their parents, relatives, and so on—all this allows us to
affirm with a high degree of probability that a new-born
child was looked upon as a reincarnated member
of the tribe, and that an intimate kinship between
him and his parents was considered to be established
[224]
on the ground of kinship in a previous life. Is not
the parental affection which was bestowed on some
of the white men one of the most astonishing traits
in the evidence in question? Of course white men
were considered to be immediate reincarnations, or
rather a return of the dead in ghost condition; whereas
rebirth was a much longer process, and was, perhaps,
considered as reincarnation of a long-dead ancestor.
Consequently the ties of kinship between a white man
and his "relatives" were the repetition of an actual
relation which had already existed for the native in his
life. Whereas if a reborn child is considered, as we here
assume, to be a "previous" kinsman, this kinship is
based upon a relation obtaining in some former existence.
But it may be urged that if we deal with aboriginal
collective psychology no very clear ideas can be expected.
The only thing that we assumed here was that
the ideas of rebirth, combined with some other specific
Australian beliefs, suggest very strongly that children
might have been both held, and felt to be, kindred, on
the ground that they come with some sort of ready-made
personality; and on the ground that, as E. S. Hartland
argues, rebirth is the result of some spontaneous action
of the creature to be reborn. I think that if we ask
for the source of the widespread belief in white men being
returned ghosts, and especially for the readiness and
ease with which they were accepted into the family
and into the tribe—we must presuppose some beliefs
and institutions to account for it, and the explanation
proposed above seems to me very plausible.[625] But the
[225]
best example of the ideas of kinship of the magic order
is to be found among the tribes studied and described
by W. E. Roth.
Before we proceed to the North Queensland tribes,
there may be mentioned some customs of the couvade
type, referring to the Central tribes. These customs, as
has been said above, express an intimate connection
of a mystic character between father and child. They
also involve a considerable amount of paternal affection
and care for the welfare of the offspring, as they expose
the father to various inconveniences, privations and hardships
for the benefit of the child. Thus we read that
among the Central tribes the father has to observe certain
taboos and restrictions during the pregnancy of his
wife, otherwise she would have a difficult confinement.[626]
This only shows a connection between the behaviour
of the man and the act of birth. But we read in another
place that the non-observance of certain hunting taboos
by the man during the pregnancy of his wife would
have baleful consequences for the offspring.[627] We
are informed, also, of a few functions of parental kin
expressed in different customs which accentuate the
intimacy of this relation. Thus the mother plays some
part in the initiation ceremonies,[628] as well as in mourning
and funerals. Concerning the important social functions
of the father, I may quote what Mr. R. H. Mathews
writes about the Central tribes: "The privilege of working
incantations, making rain, performing initiatory ceremonies,
and other important functions, descends from the
men of the tribe to the sons."[629] Moreover all the ceremonies
in common with totems "are likewise handed
down through the men."[630] We see from this that
many important social functions descend from father
to son. Messrs. Spencer and Gillen report that the
position of the Alatunja is hereditary amongst the
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Arunta.[631] And similarly the position of the headman is
hereditary amongst the Northern tribes.[632] All these facts
serve on the one hand socially to define individual
kinship, and on the other to show that there exist
certain ideas of a mystic bond between father and child.
How far these ideas, as expressed in the customs of the
couvade type, harmonize with the ideas dealt with above,
it is quite impossible to know. It may be said that in
both respects we have hints showing the existence of
ideas on kinship, but that we can by no means go beyond
mere supposition when we try to reconstruct these ideas
and to find some mutual connection. Let us now pass
to the other tribes.
The belief in a supernatural cause of pregnancy is
spread not only all over the Central and North Central
area, i. e. among all the tribes included in the researches
of Spencer and Gillen.[633] The same ignorance of physiological
fatherhood is found in the whole of the Northern
territory, in Queensland, and probably in West Australia.
We read that among the tribes of the North-West territory
of South Australia (Port Darwin and Daly River) "conception
is not regarded as a direct result of cohabitation."[634]
And we read in Dr. Frazer's new work: "The view is
shared by all the tribes of Central and Northern Australia.
In point of fact, I am informed by the Bishop of North
Queensland (Dr. Frodsham) that the opinion is held by
all the tribes with which he is acquainted both in North
Queensland and in Central Australia, including the
Arunta; not only are the natives in their savage states
ignorant of the true cause of conception, but they do not
readily believe it even after their admission into mission
stations, and their incredulity has to be reckoned with in
the efforts of the clergy to introduce a higher standard
of sexual morality among them."[635] This is a very strong
[227]
proof of the depth of these beliefs, and of the absolute
ignorance of the natives on this point.[636] In the South-Eastern
region this belief is to be found as far as the Northern
part of New South Wales. We have statements of
Mrs. Parker[637] which, although not very clear, seem at
least to imply a great amount of magical beliefs as to
procreation, if not complete ignorance of the physiological
part borne by the father. With regard to the Western
tribes, Mrs. Bates writes in a letter to Mr. Lang[638]: "They
did not believe that procreation had anything to do with
conception."
That in spite of this absence of any kind of consanguinity,
especially in the father's case, there exists
in the Queensland tribes an individual kinship relation
between both parents and their children, is clear from
the statements collected on page 245, and from the
conclusion on page 249, to which the reader may be
referred, as well as to the theoretical conclusion on page
198. Looking at the rich and interesting collection of
folk-lore of these tribes given by Mr. W. E. Roth, it
will be possible to find the way in which fatherhood is
determined by the animistic ideas of the aborigines.
As just said, among the North-West Central Queensland
tribes, the causal nexus between conception and copulation
is not known. We read in Roth that, according to
aboriginal ideas, there are several ways in which a child
may enter a woman's body: it may be inserted into her
in a dream; she may be told by a man that she will be
pregnant and so on. But in whatever mode the child
has come, "the recognized husband accepts it as his
own without demur."[639] This phrase seems to point to
the fact that a man has certain ways of recognizing a
[228]
child as his own, and ideas under which he conceives
this tie.
In fact we read that man possesses several "souls" or
vital principles. One of them, ngai, leaves the body soon
after death; if the deceased was a male his ngai "passes
into his children, both boys and girls equally." The ngai
of a female goes to her sister or passes away. Nobody
has a ngai before his father dies, but receives his father's
ngai after the latter's death.[640] This is an important
connection, which by itself might very well serve to establish
the most intimate tie of kinship. The child is
supposed to be its father's spirit's heir. It shares in his
most personal and individual element. Is this spiritual
communion not something quite as strong and deep as
any community of blood?
In another tribe of this area there is a similar belief
concerning the choi (another "soul"). The aborigines of
Pennefather River believe that babies are made out of
swamp mud and then inserted into the wombs of women
by a being called Anjea. Now it is particularly important
for us to note that Anjea animates the baby with a piece
of its father's spirit if it is a boy, and with a piece of its
father's sister's spirit if it is a girl. For each new baby
Anjea provides a new piece of spirit. But he does not
take these pieces from the spirit of the living father or
his sister. He has a special source from which to take it;
he takes it from the father's or father's sister's afterbirth.
When a child is born a portion of its spirit stays in its
afterbirth. Hence the grandmother takes the afterbirth
and buries it in the sand, and marks the place by thrusting
sticks into the ground. So when Anjea comes along
and sees it, he knows where to look for the father's (or
father's sister's) spirit, which he wants in order to animate
the new baby. And in this way all babies are animated
by a spiritual part of their father or paternal aunts.[641]
[229]
Both these examples illustrate perfectly well the
general definition of kinship ideas we have given above.
Here the relation between father and child is established
in the native ideas by a purely spiritual connection. But
obviously this connection is a very important one. The
deep tie between a man and his child is here explicitly
indicated and not inferred by us, as in the foregoing cases,
in which we could only state that the beliefs and facts
point to such a tie. In the present case the father's
spirit is the material from which the child's soul is to be
built up. It is not his bodily germ that procreates the
child, but his spiritual germ. What does it matter that
the mother gives birth to the child? The latter is animated
by the father's (or father's sister's) spirit, and this
spiritual connection is of course as strong a bond of
kinship as can possibly be imagined.
There is in the second of these examples a complication
produced by the fact that a female child is not
animated by her father's, but by her father's sister's,
spirit. But this complication is more apparent than real.
We must always remember that the aborigines do not
think in clearly defined ideas, and that there is always a
question rather of some broad emotional connection than
of a tie logically apprehended. And here the connection
between the female children and their father is broadly
marked by the spiritual tie between his sister and the
children. It may be said that "spiritual propagation"
follows the male line exclusively, for all children are
animated by a spirit taken from their father or his sister.
We have still a few examples to quote where there
appears to be involved a tie between father and child
established on other grounds than the sexual act. In
some of the North Queensland tribes (Cairns district)
"the acceptance of food from a man by a woman was not
merely regarded as a marriage ceremony, but as the
actual cause of conception."[642] A similar belief obtains
[230]
among the Larrekiya and Wogait of Port Darwin. "The
old men say that there is an evil spirit who takes babies
from a big fire and places them in the wombs of women,
who must then give birth to them. When in the ordinary
course of events a man is out hunting and kills game or
gathers vegetable food, he gives it to his wife, who must
eat it, believing that the food will cause her to conceive
and bring forth a child. When the child is born, it may
on no account partake of the particular food which produced
conception until it has got its first teeth."[643] In
these cases we might look also for some material from
which the ideas of individual paternity might have been
evolved, but this is a supposition merely, which obviously
is much less well founded than our inferences referring to
the Central and North Central tribes.
Let us turn to another portion of the continent, to the
South-Eastern tribes, where the natives have to a certain
extent inverse ideas on procreation. They seem to know
that conception is due to copulation. But they exaggerate
the father's part. The children are begotten "by
him exclusively; the mother receives only the germ and
nurtures it; the aborigines ... never for a moment
feel any doubt ... that the children originate solely
from the male parent, and only owe their infantine nurture
to their mother."[644] This theory is not a logical and consistent
one, but none of the aboriginal views possess these
qualities! But this theory of procreation is quite clear
and categorical in acknowledging exclusively what seems
to the native mind important for the formation of consanguineous
ties in the act of procreation. Let us adduce
the examples in detail, as they are very instructive. The
Wirdajuri nation[645] believe that the child "emanates from
the father solely, being only nurtured by its mother."
There is a strong tie of kinship between the child and the
father; the latter nevertheless has not the right to dispose
[231]
of his daughter in marriage; that is done by the mother
and the mother's brother. We see here that curiously
enough strong paternal consanguinity coincides with
weakening of the patria potestas (provided the information
be accurate on both points). For disposal of the
daughter is one of the chief features of a parent's authority
over the child. Among the Wolgal the child belongs to
the father, and he only "gives it to his wife to take care
of for him."[646] This is probably an interpretation of the
facts of procreation. In this tribe the father disposes
of his daughter; in fact "he could do what he liked"
with her on the ground of his exclusive right to the child.
Here, apparently, the ideas on kinship enhance the
paternal authority. A strong proof of this unilateral
paternal consanguinity is given yet more in detail in the
case of the Kulin tribes. There, according to a native
expression, "the child comes from the man, the woman
only takes care of it."[647] And when once an old man
wished to emphasize his right and authority over his son
he said: "Listen to me! I am here, and there you
stand with my body."[648] This is clearly a claim to
kinship on the basis of consanguinity. It is interesting
to note that in the examples just quoted this consanguineous
kinship seems to give some claims to authority.
Analogously amongst the Yuin the child belonged to his
father "because his wife merely takes care of his children
for him."[649]
Withal this information leaves us in the dark about
the detailed working of these ideas. Especially we are
not quite clear whether the assertions of "being of the
same body," of "belonging to him," etc., do actually
refer to the act of procreation, whether they form an
interpretation of this act, or whether they have quite a
different basis; although it seems from the expressions
quoted above that the first alternative is the right one.
On the other hand, when we read that the mother only
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nurtures the child, that she merely takes care of it and so
on, does it mean that the aboriginal mind decrees or
interprets that during pregnancy the mother is a kind of
nurse only, that she is the soil in which the father has
deposited the seed? And as the relation between the
plant and the seed is closer than that between the plant
and the soil, so the relation between father and child is
nearer than that between mother and child? All this is
left to hypothesis, strongly supported by the statements,
but unfortunately not affirmed by them in a clear and
unambiguous way. We are not at all sure whether all
these ideas, instead of being theories of the act of impregnation,
have not some mystic, legendary basis like the
beliefs of the Queenslander dealt with above.
A survey of different points of Australian folk-lore has
been made in order to find some kinship ideas corresponding
to the definition given on page 183. From all
the results obtained, the most certain and best founded
one is the negative fact that the majority of the Australian
tribes are wholly ignorant of the physiological process of
procreation. This result, although at first sight a negative
one, leads, when viewed in the proper light, to sociological
conclusions of some importance. In regard to the discussion
on consanguinity (given pp. 176 sqq.), it follows from
this fact that we cannot speak of paternal consanguinity
among these tribes in the social sense of this word,[650] and
that the individual tie of kinship, which does nevertheless
exist between father and child, must be conceived of by the
natives in some different way. This conclusion is also
very important, for it obviously tears asunder the intimate
connection between the sexual side of marriage and kinship,
a connection that has often been assumed hitherto.
The lack of sexual exclusiveness found in Australia does
not affect the structure of the individual family, of which
kinship is the index. Waiving the question whether
this holds good for primitive mankind in general, it may
[233]
be assumed as quite a final result for the majority of
Australian tribes.
The positive ideas of kinship enumerated in this survey
fulfil the two conditions set up on page 183; they refer
to the individual relation between father and child,[651] and
they affirm a close tie between the two. But in order to
prove that such ideas are sociologically relevant ideas of
kinship, it must yet be shown that they possess some
social functions; that is to say, that they play an essential
part in the collective formulation of the various norms
regulating individual parental kinship. Now it was not
possible to find any data on this point, so this gap remains
unfilled, and therefore the results arrived at here
must be considered as incomplete. It was necessary to
introduce the conjectural assumption that all the facts
known which give sociological evidence of individual
parental kinship stand in close connection with the beliefs
in question. Nevertheless, this assumption is neither
arbitrary nor scientifically barren, as far as I see. It
may first be remarked that the complete absence in our
ethnographic information of any attempt to connect the
data of folk-lore and the facts of sociology is not astonishing
at all, as it is the consequence of one of the shortcomings
in social science at the present day. This lack is due to
reasons connected with the ethnographer and not with
the material. The intimate relation which must exist
between social beliefs and social functions was quite a
sufficient justification for the introduction of this assumption.
Moreover, this assumption, although hypothetical,
lies quite within the limits of verification. A conjectural
assumption referring to facts which lie necessarily outside
the reach of observation, incurs much more the
risk of scientific barrenness. But this cannot be the case
with new points of view, the enunciation of which imposes
itself as an inevitable logical inference, and which, being
capable of verification, may serve as a fertile working
hypothesis.
Consideration may first here be given to the cares
and benefits a child receives from its mother during the
first few years of its infancy. These facts constitute a
very strong bond of union between the child and its nurse.
Suckling is a physiological tie between the child and the
mother, and next to the fact of birth it marks very strongly
the individuality of this relation. Group motherhood
has therefore never been a very popular idea and has
never found a favourable reception amongst sociologists.
We saw above, however, that it is very probable that the
facts of birth may lack any social significance in the
native mind. If it be further possible to imagine in
the same tribe suckling performed, according to Dr.
Rivers's suggestion,[652] not by the actual mother, but by a
group of kindred women, group motherhood would be
quite comprehensible in such tribes.
In Australia, however, suckling seems to be strictly
individual. This might indeed be inferred in the first
place from the aboriginal mode of living. Communism
in suckling and rearing a small child would involve
a complete communism in life; and we know that
unless two women are wives of the same man, they are
to a great extent isolated in daily life. It is also highly
improbable that in the two or three families which are
roaming together there would be always a woman at
hand who could help the other in these cares.
There are several other reasons which still more strongly
[235]
support our view. The best argument may be deduced
from the statements referring to infanticide. It is
practised amongst all Australian natives. One of the
chief reasons given for it is that the mother cannot possibly
suckle and carry two children at one time, especially as
children are not weaned before their third to fifth year.
If there were a custom of common suckling and nursing
a child, and another woman who would replace the mother
in her functions could be easily found, the practice of
infanticide could scarcely be attributed to the above-mentioned
reasons. Let us adduce a few statements.
Statements.—Infanticide is carried on among the Lower
Darling natives to prevent the toils and troubles of carrying
and caring for too many children. The mother's brother
decides if the child should be killed or not.[653]
Amongst the Encounter Bay natives "no mother will
venture to bring up more than two children, because she
considers that the attention which she would have to devote
to them would interfere with what she regards as the duty
to her husband in searching for roots, etc."[654]
Amongst the Adelaide tribes "female infants at birth are
not infrequently put to death for the sake of more valuable
boys who are still being suckled."[655]
As justification of infanticide "women plead that they
cannot suckle and carry two children together."[656] It is
clear from this statement that the impossibility of suckling
more than one child at a time is given as justification for
infanticide by the natives themselves; and that it is not only
an inference of the observer.
Infanticide was practised among the Port Lincoln tribes.
"In extenuation of this horrible practice the women allege
that they cannot suckle and carry two babies at once."[657] This
statement also quite unmistakably points to the fact that
children were suckled and attended by their own mother.
Bennett writes that among the New South Wales natives
women practice infanticide in order to avoid too much trouble
in carrying their infants about.[658]
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Another statement, maintaining still more strongly the view
that only the mother suckled her child, is that of Collins.[659]
He says that he knew two instances in which infants were
killed by the father at their mother's grave, the reason alleged
being that as no one else could be found to suckle the child
and to rear it it must have died a worse death. Collins
supposes that this is a general custom.
Gason states that among the Dieri nearly thirty per cent.
of the children were destroyed by their mothers at birth to
avoid the cares and trouble of rearing.[660]
"The Arunta native does not hesitate to kill a child—always
directly it is born—if there be an older one still in
need of nourishment from the mother; and suckling is continued
up to the age of three years and even older."[661] And
again: "The child is killed ... when the mother is ...
unable to rear it owing to there being a young child whom
she is still feeding."[662]
Among the Kabi and Wakka: "The motive for infanticide
with these tribes could not be to save food in times of dearth,
for the food supply was constant and plentiful. It would
be mainly, if not entirely, that mothers might escape the
irksomeness of nursing and caring for infants and of carrying
them on their frequent journeys."[663]
Mrs. D. M. Bates writes that when a mother died at childbirth
the infant was put to death.[664] We are not informed
what reasons the natives gave for this practice; but most
probably they are the same as those mentioned by Collins.
All this evidence makes it nearly impossible to suppose
that suckling, carrying the baby and caring for it, was
the task of a group of women. For then it would not be
necessary to kill the infant at the death of its mother, or
to kill it when there was another one to be suckled, as the
toils could easily be shared by the other women of the
group. The assumption we are now able to draw,
namely that the mother always suckles and nurses her
own child, is of great importance.[665]
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Amongst the Australian aborigines suckling establishes
undoubtedly much stronger bonds between mother and
child than amongst civilized races, for it lasts much longer.
As we saw and shall see in a few statements, the child is
never weaned before its third year, and sometimes suckling
lasts much longer. Between a bigger child and its mother
this constant dependence upon each other must necessarily
create a strong bond of union. The child must be
continually with its mother. During infancy it is carried
by her in a pouch or bag on the shoulders. Afterwards
it accompanies her on all her wanderings and in all her
work. A great addition to her work is the continuous
care she must display towards it. This will be exemplified
in our statements referring to the economic division of
labour. To sum up, we may say that natural necessities
of nurture and of the earliest cares, combined with the
aboriginal mode of living, make the child absolutely
dependent on the personal, individual help it receives
from its mother, and creates therefore an intimate relation
between the two.
This is not so much in evidence as regards the relationship
between the father and child. But here it must be
remembered that owing to the character of the native
mode of living the man lives in close contact and to a
great extent in isolation with his wife, and consequently
also with his wife's children. Some of our statements
show that he shares to a certain extent in the cares and
labours connected with carrying children, feeding them,
etc.; he seems to have a great affection towards them and
never to treat them with severity. So that we may infer
that the general character of his feelings is of the same
description as that of the mother's, i. e. one of parental
love and attachment.
An attempt will be made to illustrate by a series of
statements all these characteristics of domestic life as
far as they embrace the relations of parents to children.
The chief points of inquiry will be: Is there between
parents and children any kind of affection? What is
the general character of the treatment of children by
parents? Are rudiments of education given by father or
mother to their offspring? In what way does the position
of the father differ from that of the mother—is there any
special trait of severity? In what consists the paternal
authority and how does it show itself? Is there any
strong difference made between male and female children?
Statements.—"In infancy the young Kurnai is an object
of love and pride to its father and mother. From observation
of various tribes in far distant parts of Australia, I can assert
confidently that love for their children is a marked feature
in the aboriginal character. I cannot recollect having ever
seen a parent beat or cruelly use a child; and a short road to
the good-will of parents is, as amongst us, by noticing and
admiring their children." The greatest grief is exhibited at the
death of a child by all the relatives in a camp. These observations
refer as well to the Kurnai and the other South-Eastern
tribes, as to the Dieri, of whom the author gives an illustrative
story.[666] The boy lives with his parents and "is very much
under the control of his mother."—This statement is very
valuable. It gives us the opinion of perhaps our best
Australian observer on the psychology of parental feelings; it
refers to all the tribes known to Howitt, i. e. to a very extensive
area. And it states in plain terms that the feelings of love and
affection for children which form the chief characteristic of
parental relations are to be found with an intensity which is
as strong as that prevailing in our society. In another place
the same author quotes an instance "of a mother watching
her sick child and refusing all food, and when it died she was
inconsolable."[667]
Curr says that among the Bangerang the father had absolute
authority over his children.[668] In another place he says
that the father had to decide in case of infanticide and in
every more important occasion of the child's life.[669] But we
[239]
read: "Parents were much attached to their children and
rarely punished or corrected them." Not only did they not
control them (although occasionally a child was beaten in a fit
of anger),[670] but "they were habitually indulged in every way;
and as a consequence, in case of the boys at least, grew up as
self-willed, thorough little tyrants as can well be imagined."[671]
In his general book on Australia the same author gives us
some more information on family life. The father makes
small weapons as toys for his sons. The children are seldom
chastised and they are very independent. The real training
of the boys begins when they leave their parents' camp and
undergo the series of initiations.[672] These statements point
also unmistakably to feelings of attachment and love, which
are, as we tried to prove above, the very essence of family ties.
The father seems to care as much as the mother for his children's
education, and he is very kind and lenient to them.
As a crude and pathetic example of maternal love there is
the case reported by Angas, of a mother carrying for ten years
the corpse of her dead child.[673] Similar cases are reported by
Howitt about the Kurnai.[674]
We find many statements referring to this subject in
the compilation of Br. Smyth. I mention them only
shortly, as the author was never directly acquainted with
the aboriginal life, and we value him only when he quotes
some little-known authorities, or gives actual facts gathered
for him by his correspondents. He speaks of the heavy
task of a woman having to carry her babe, besides all
the other work and trouble of a journey.[675] The father
occasionally nurses the baby too and is very fond of it.[676]
The child is suckled for three years; it is carried in an
opossum rug during infancy and attended to solely by its
mother.[677] A description of the way in which an opossum
rug is dried is given.[678] In another passage the same author
speaks again of the general kindness, affection and indulgence
of parents to children, as of a well-known fact. He adds
besides that the parents were very judicious in the treatment
of their children.[679]
[240]
"As a general rule, both fathers and mothers are very
kind to their children and very rarely indeed strike them;
and I have been often amused at seeing a rebellious urchin, of
perhaps eight or nine years of age, take up his mimic spears,
run a few yards away and then hurl them with all his force
at his mother." "They are very fond of their children, and
will at any time venture their lives for them."[680] And
the author tells of an occurrence in corroboration.[681] Here,
again, we hear of kindness, leniency and real affection. The
instance of a native losing his life in trying to save his child
is very convincing.
The children that escape infanticide enjoy great affection
from their parents.[682]
Of the Lower Darling River tribes it is stated that the
children are not only very leniently treated by their parents,
but that they are not spoilt at all. "One word from the
parent generally is sufficient to check a child when doing
wrong, and the greatest respect is shown to parents by their
children."[683] The loss of a child would be lamented by the whole
camp; the mother and near relatives would especially mourn.[684]
A description of the mode of carrying children by their mother
is also given by the same author.[685] In this statement we
may remark that the children are said not to be spoilt; this
does not agree quite with some of our other statements. But
this information agrees with all others in respect of the
affection and lenient treatment the children enjoy.
According to Mitchell children are carried by the mother
in skin bags on the shoulder. She carries also toys for her
children.[686] As we have said above, the close connection
in life between child and mother must have been of importance
in making the tie between them especially close.
The existence of toys, mentioned already in J. M. Davis'
statement, characterizes the tender care bestowed on the
young folk by their parents.
"The child is brought up with great care.... Should
it cry, it is passed from one person to another and caressed
and soothed, and the father will frequently nurse it for several
hours together. When the child commences to walk, the
father gives it a name."[687] They are long suckled—sometimes
[241]
up to five or six years of age. A boy "when weaned, accompanies
his father upon short excursions, upon which
occasion the father takes every opportunity to instruct his
son. For instance, if they arrive at a place concerning which
they have any tradition, it is told to the child if old enough
to understand it. Or he shows him how to procure this or
that animal, or other article of food, in the easiest way."[688]
We see here that the tie between father and child is a very
close one. The father nurses the child when it is small, and
educates it when it is bigger. Affection, care and kind treatment
are stated here as everywhere else. And again we
read: "If the father dies before a child is born, the child
is put to death by the mother."[689] This marks again how
important is the father's part in bringing up a child.
Wyatt says of the Adelaide tribe that "they display strong
affection towards each other," which is shown especially in
a "great fondness for children."[690]
We read about the Port Lincoln tribes: "Both sexes are
very fond of their children."[691]
Howitt, speaking of infanticide among the Murring tribe,
adds: "Yet they are very fond of their offspring, and very
indulgent to those they keep, rarely striking them, and a
mother would give all the food she had to her children, going
hungry herself."[692] In several statements on infanticide
it is said that no difference was made between boys and girls.[693]
Here again we have a strong assertion of parental love, and
of the kind treatment the children enjoy.
Among the Murrumbidgee tribes "it is well known that as
their children become older they [the parents] evince much
attachment towards them."[694] A well-known tragic instance of
parental love is reported about the New South Wales natives by
the same author. "They display an extraordinary degree of
affection for their dead offspring, evidenced by an act that
almost exceeds credibility, had it not so often been witnessed
among the tribes in the interior of the colony. I allude to
the fact of deceased children, from the earliest age to even
six or seven years, being placed in a bag made of kangaroo
skin, and slung upon the back of the mother.... They
carry them thus for ten or twelve months, sleeping upon the
mass of mortal remains, which serves them for a pillow,
apparently unmindful of the horrid fœtor which emanates
from such a putrefying substance."[695]
[242]
G. S. Lang in his account of the Australian blacks speaks of
great leniency of treatment, and quotes several examples.[696]
An exceptional statement is given by a member of the
United States expedition. "As far as our observation went,
the women appear to take little care of their children."[697] But
we gather from the whole account that the authors had no
good opportunities of making observations on the natives,
if they had any at all. Probably the natives they saw were
in a state of deterioration, hanging round towns, etc.
We read in the old account of J. Turnbull about the natives
of New South Wales, that all children who escape infanticide
are "nursed with an anxious affection, very creditable to
these savages. The infant no sooner begins to use his
limbs than he is instructed in throwing the spear; a bulrush
or other reed being put into his hand for this purpose."[698]
In his memoirs, Hodgson says that aboriginal children
are very kindly and tenderly treated by their parents.[699]
The following statements, referring to New South Wales
blacks, give a good testimonial to their parental feelings.
"An old mammy, who was much about the farm of another
of my friends, was a perfect picture of maternal sorrow,"
after the death of her son. "If you spoke of her son, she was
dissolved in tears, and answered in whispers." "The women
appear to be always kind to their children, carrying the young
ones on their backs."[700]
"They are remarkably fond of their children," says
R. Dawson. In another place the author speaks of a great
liberality towards children, displayed in distributing food.
He speaks also of the adoption of orphans. "When the parents
die, the children are adopted by the unmarried men and
women and taken the greatest care of"; and "children of
both sexes who had lost their parents were uniformly adopted
by those who had no families, and sometimes by those who
had."[701]
As a matter of illustration I may adduce what Dr. J. Fraser
says on that subject in his compilation on the New South Wales
tribes. The aborigines love their children and treat them
very kindly. The father makes for the boy a toy spear to
practise throwing it and the girl gets a small stick to learn
how to dig with it. The parents teach them to do all these
things, and they "take as much delight in this business as we
do in teaching our children their alphabet. The son is soon
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able to go out with his father on hunting expeditions," imbibes
all sorts of woodcraft and learns to know his tauri (hunting
district).[702] We may add that the book of Dr. Fraser, although
only a compilation, seems to be a very reliable one, and he
probably had much personal information from settlers,
missionaries, etc.
We have already seen from the first statement of Howitt
that parental love obtained among the Dieri. Gason affirms
that parental love for children and the love of these for their
parents is one of their greatest virtues.[703] We read also that
"the children are never beaten, and should any woman
violate this law she is in turn beaten by her husband."[704]
This statement would astonish us at first sight, as we usually
expect severity from the father. But when we remember
that the mother had probably all the drudgery and work
with the children we can understand that she might easily
lose her temper, and then the father took the children's
part. It is characteristic that the father's authority was
directed rather to protect the children from a probably
merited punishment than to punish and correct them.
Amongst the Urabunna, where, as we are informed, "individual
marriage does not exist either in name or in practice,"[705] all children
of "men who are at the same level in the generation and
belong to the same class and totem are regarded as the common
children of these men." Still there exists "a closer tie between
a man and the children of the woman who habitually live in
camp with him."[706] This statement is the only one which
tries to deny individual fatherhood and states the existence of
group fatherhood. But as we do not know what sense should
be given to the words "closer tie" and to the phrase "are regarded
as the common children" we must drop this statement as
quite meaningless. We know already that the relations of a
father to his child have several very characteristic features;
the father fondles his child; is especially attached to it; he
often carries it on the march (as these same authors state in
another place, see below); he has certain economic duties towards
his family; he lives in the same wurley with his children.
Not a single word is said about any of these things, and only
quite general assertions are made. We may repeat here,
with Mr. Thomas, that if the authors knew more concrete
facts about this question they ought to have communicated
them. If they told us everything they knew about the
subject, then their inferences are false. This statement
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loses its force for the reason especially that we know how
close the personal tie between the Dieri parents and their
children was, and that it was quite individual. And the
Dieri had the same Pirrauru institution which induces
Messrs. Spencer and Gillen to inform us that there was no
individual fatherhood or marriage, amongst the Urabunna.
There is, therefore, much reason to mistrust this statement.[707]
Children are treated with extreme leniency among the
Central Australian tribes. "If the children are unruly the
mothers try to quiet them with fair words, or may scold
them a little, or even slap them gently, but never take any
extreme means." Mothers often quarrel and even fight with
each other defending their own offspring. "When a child
sickens, the mother takes it in her lap, and does not leave the
spot, the father sitting by."[708] All this shows a deep parental
affection towards the children. And that it is limited to
individual parents is confirmed by the following phrase:
"Orphans fare the worst, and usually the nearest relative
looks after them, but does not assume a parent's position.
Such children receive blows and have to provide for themselves
as best they can."[709] Although I avoid the problem of
relationship terms, as lying outside the narrow limits of the
present study, that deals exclusively with facts of family
life, I quote the following statement of the same author
as especially instructive. "Kata signifies father of the
class; Kata iltja sexual father." The affix iltja indicates the
individual relationship and the affix lirra class reference.
"Ordinarily they leave out the words iltja and lirra and do
not use them, because they all know, among themselves, who
is personally related, and who is not. They are only used
casually when conversing with strangers, to whom they wish
to explain their family relationship."[710]
We read of the Arunta: "To their children they are, we
may say uniformly, with very rare exceptions, kind and
considerate, carrying them, the men as well as the women
taking part in this, when they get tired on the march, and
always seeing that they get a good share of any food."[711]
Here it is stated explicitly that the cares are shared by father
and mother. In another place the authors, speaking of the
burial ceremonies, say that the display of grief and sorrow
is not so much due to real feeling, as to tribal custom and fear
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of offending the dead one's spirit. And they add, "At the same
time, he (the native) is certainly capable of genuine grief and
of real affection for his children."[712] The foregoing statement
appears to be very emphatic. Parental love is apparently
quoted as a genuine feeling conspicuous par excellence and
therefore to be opposed to any other more or less fictitious
display. The intimate connection between the mother and
her child appears also from some details in the initiation
ceremonies.[713]
In the Kabi and Wakka tribes, "the wife was the
regular nurse of the infants, but the husband occasionally
took a turn."[714] "Children were over-indulged."[715]
"The mother is always fond of her child, and I have often
admired her patience with it. She constantly carries it with
her, at first in a basket, but later on ... on her shoulder.
Thus she carries it with her till it is several years old. If
the child cries she may perhaps get angry, but she will never
allow herself to strike it. The children are never chastised
either by the father or the mother." But they are nevertheless
as a rule "obliging and kind." "The black children
are not ... as bad as one might suppose, considering their
education, in which their wills are never resisted."[716] "The
woman is often obliged to carry her little child on her shoulders
during the whole day, only setting it down when she has to
dig in the ground or climb trees."[717] The mother, in one
instance, was much excited when a white man struck her
naughty child. The same author says that the tie between
mother and child is closer than that between father and child.
The children "are fonder of their mother than of their father."
(This seems quite "natural" to us as we observe it as a rule
in our society.) Sometimes the father cares much for his
child too; "he frequently carries it, takes it in his lap, searches
... its hair, plays with it, and makes little boomerangs,
which he teaches it to throw. He ... prefers boys to girls."
"Boys are not permitted to go hunting with their fathers
before they are nine years old."[718]
Amongst the Georgina blacks the child's education is
carried on chiefly by the mother. She teaches the boys respect
for the tribal elders.[719]
The way of carrying a child among the Queensland blacks
is described by E. Palmer.[720]
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Among the North Central Queensland aborigines the
mother carries her child in a koolamon or on a sheet of bark,
slung to her side; later on her shoulders.[721] She is accustomed
to lullaby it to sleep by a sort of droning humming sound.[722] She
suckles it until it reaches the age of three to five years.[723] "A
father could do what he pleased with his children, but neither
parent would ever strike a boy; if beaten the latter was supposed
to lose courage." The mother taught the girls, and
could beat them if necessary.[724] The father taught the boys
climbing trees and making arms and implements.[725]
In North-West Australia (Pilbarra district) children are
reared affectionately and never chastised. They often listen
to stories on native traditions.[726]
Ph. Chauncy, speaking of the West Australian blacks,
says that love between children and parents was very strong,
and that it was one of the principal virtues of the aborigines.
He gives an example of a native who after five years, seeing
again his son, a grown-up lad, displayed a good deal of affection
and tenderness.[727]
The mode in which women carry their children in West
Australia is described by Moore.[728]
Oldfield says: "Sometimes the love of their offspring
(male) is excessive." As an example he describes an old
man "who had a son, a lad of about nine years of age, of
whom he was excessively fond, always tenderly embracing
him and recommending him to the care of others when he
went on any expedition." When he returned from the
chase "he invariably first of all fondly kissed the boy before
proceeding to cook," and all the best parts of the meal
"were bestowed on the child." The child was consequently
quite spoilt and tyrannized over his father, who was quite
obedient to him.[729]
"Elles aiment d'ailleurs éperdument leurs fils et aussi
celles de leurs filles qui ont échappé à la mort. S'il arrive
que quelqu'un de leurs enfants s'éveille en sursaut ou se
fasse du mal, ses gémissements sont couverts par ceux de
la mère, qui ne se donne aucun repos jusqu'à ce qu'elle ait
trouvé le moyen de guérison, quelque fatigue qu'il doive lui en
couter. Elles nourrissent avec soin leurs petits enfants et les
veulent toujours propres et bien tenus, autant que leur permet
leur position. Elles les allaitent pendant plus de quatre ans;
aussi n'est-il pas rare de voir de petits garçons jouer et faire
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des armes avec leurs petits ghicis, et puis courir se restaurer
au sein de leur mère, qui souvent allaite ainsi deux enfants
à la fois. J'ai vu des enfants de six ans prendre encore le
sein, et les mères non seulement s'y prêter, mais les caresser
et se priver des meilleurs morceaux pour les leur donner."[730]
I quote this statement in extenso, as it includes a good deal
of what we know in general of this subject. We see that
a mother might suckle two children at a time, but if it were
too difficult for her, the child is killed. Salvado speaks also of
adoption by another woman as an alternative (comp. above,
Dawson's and Shultze's statements); but adoption seems rather
to be an exceptional escape from infanticide.[731] In another place,
the same author speaks of a "véritable tendresse maternelle"
showing itself towards a child recently dead. Often did he
observe that a mother who had just lost a child would rise
in the night and go for miles through the woods, calling her
child by its name, speaking to it, and giving many tokens of
her tender feelings.[732] This instance gives us a good insight
into a class of feelings that the general, popular mind would
hardly ascribe to savages.[733] Salvado says that they make
a great difference between a boy and girl, in the joy which
they display at a child's birth. Not only the mothers (as we
saw above), but also the fathers show great fondness for their
children. Salvado blames the "déférence des pères pour
les enfants." Whatever a child might do, it is never chastised.
If a small boy wishes to obtain something from his
parents, he cries, bites and beats them, until he succeeds in
his purpose. The only punishment ever inflicted on their
children is "une fâcherie plus ou moins remarquée par eux, et
cela encore après leur avoir accordé tout ce qu'ils demandent."
The father prepares for his son small arms and teaches him
how to use them. He displays the greatest tenderness
towards him and is extremely fond of him.[734] And the author
gives as the reason why the aborigines would not send their
children to white men for education, the parental attachment
to their offspring.[735] The father disposes of his daughters
in marriage.[736]
Among the natives of King George Sound the mothers
display a great love for their children, often crying after
the death of one of them.[737]
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About the same tribes it is recorded: "Of their children they
appear to be fond, and rarely chastise them; but their treatment
of the women is not always gentle."[738] Here the difference
between the usual good treatment that children uniformly
enjoy from their parents, and the unsettled character
of marital treatment is clearly expressed.
Our best information on many points comes rather from
anecdotes and reports of real occurrences than from bare statements.
Some stories illustrate very well the present question.
So, for instance, the following, which proves beyond any
doubt that paternal affection among the Australian aborigines
might amount to a passion.[739] Old Davie was a native of great
personal strength and skill, strong will, and great courage.
He was not especially clever, but was apparently kind to
children and to his wives. His inoffensive exterior, however,
hid a truly demoniac character; he was quite egotistical, "he
had never had any strong liking for anything else," but had
only one peculiar passion: "his special craving was for
murder." He had ever so many lives on his conscience.
When he grew old, he became the father of a rather nice
boy. He got deeply and passionately attached to his son,
called the Jumbuk-man. "To watch the gradual expansion
of Jumbuk-man's faculties; to see him balance himself
with his feet astride and throw his spear at his sister's
back; to observe him tomahawk the sleeping dogs, maltreat
any birds or insects he could lay hands on, bite his mother;
to hear him lisp foul words, and give himself up to the charming
ways of savage infancy, became henceforth the chief delight
of his father." Here we see a neat, condensed picture of
what might be called educational training under the father's
eyes. After a few years of life the boy died; the death of
the boy was a terrible blow "to Old Davie. He had been his
special delight ... and (he) bore his loss in a very unstoical
way. He sat on the ground, streams of tears
welling from his eyes." The end of the story (Old Davie's
murder of a young woman in revenge for "sorcery" done by
her tribe) does not touch our subject.
As an interesting and good illustration of parental authority
may be adduced the story of how a Bangerang girl was
made to join her promised husband. She was, apparently,
quite unwilling to do it; consequently her father tried to
persuade her. After his patience had been exhausted he
tried to compel her; having at last resource to his club. This
and the unanimous and rather strong persuasions of both
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parents made her follow the prescribed course.[740] This story
shows that the father had not a great amount of authority
over his daughter. He had to persuade her for several
hours and she brought him by her stubbornness to a fit of
anger, which finally settled the matter.
Another story clearly exemplifying paternal affection, is
told by Grey.[741] For some small trespass Capt. Grey got hold
of a young boy, the son of an influential native. The father
tried to liberate him. "The natives are always ardently
attached to their children, and this the boy's father now
evinced in the strongest manner. He tried by persuasion,
begging and even threats to induce the white man to give
him back his child. He fairly wept upon his child's neck."
When this had no result, and the boy was imprisoned, he
made all possible efforts to plead for him. The paternal
love is clearly conspicuous in the whole tale.
Our forty-one statements agree fairly well on many
points, but especially on the principal question, namely
on the existence of very close personal and individual
bonds of union between parents and children.[742] As so
much stress has been laid on the emotional element in
these bonds, it may be shown now how far the evidence
confirms the views expressed above.[743] Speaking in concrete
terms, the evidence affirms beyond any doubt the
existence of strong feelings of affection and attachment
between parents and children. Thirty-five of our forty-one
statements explicitly affirm the existence of such
feelings. In many places this is expressed in a very clear
and emphatic manner. We read that the children are the
"pride and love" of their parents; that affection for
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their children is a "marked feature" of the aboriginal
character (Howitt). Deep affection is quoted as their
chief virtue (Gason); and as the most sincere and strongest
feeling (Spencer and Gillen); and so forth. Instances
might easily be multiplied. The only negative instance
is the completely unreliable statement of Wilkes. This
exceptional agreement of all authors and the uniform
emphasis that they lay upon their statements is in itself
a very strong proof not only that this assertion is true,
but that these facts strongly impressed themselves upon
the observers.[744] On this point our best authorities entirely
agree with the remaining observers. Such an agreement
on the point of a general judgment, which is necessarily
an induction from a considerable number of observations,
can only mean that the latter were not liable to misinterpretation;
that they plainly expressed their deeper
psychological meaning. These observations seem at
first sight very difficult to be made correctly, for they
are of a rather subtle character, referring to impalpable
psychological facts. And yet all authors interpreted
them correctly, of which fact such an agreement is the
best proof. The expression of the feelings in question
amongst savages must obviously differ very little from
our ways of showing feelings. The complete agreement
of the statements points, therefore, to the unmistakable
clearness and strength in which the native feelings show
themselves, in all the details of family life as well as in
some more important facts.[745]
But even if unwilling to trust to the emphasis of our
informants' general affirmations and to the agreement
between them, we find many concrete details and examples,
mentioned by the authors, which convince us
that the conclusions they have drawn from observation
were correct. Howitt says that to secure the good-will of
the parents the most direct way is to admire their children;
a fact which is characteristic of parental infatuation in our
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own society. When the children are ill the parents watch
over and look after them most carefully (Schultze, Salvado,
Meyer, Howitt); they make toys for their children
(Mitchell, Curr, Fraser); and they look very carefully
after their food (Spencer and Gillen, Dawson). On
the death of a child the parents display great sorrow
(Browne, Henderson, Curr in the story of old Davie).[746] And
the horrid custom of carrying a dead babe on their wanderings
is also a token of deep affection (Angas, Bennett,
Howitt). After long absence the parents display great
joy and tenderness (Chauncy). And although adoption
is reported in some tribes (R. Dawson, Schultze, Salvado),
nevertheless there is not always the same degree of love
and affection towards adopted children as towards the
offspring. And the former are often illtreated (Schultze).
Such examples could easily be multiplied. And they show
in how many quite unmistakable facts the main features
of the parental feelings for children found their expression.
These feelings as a rule consisted of love, pride, affection
and attachment.
All this seems to hold good for the father, as well as for
the mother. In the majority of statements both the
parents are mentioned indiscriminately. Some of them
say expressly that they refer to the father also (Meyer,
Wilhelmi, Moore Davis, Br. Smyth, Fraser, Gason,
Mathew, Spencer and Gillen, Mrs. Parker, Salvado).
Nevertheless we must assume that owing to the closer
tie in daily life the relationship between mother and
child was a yet more intimate one (Lumholtz, Salvado).
There seems to have been but little difference made
between male and female children. We read in a few
places (Schürmann, Spencer and Gillen) that boys were
more welcome than girls, and that infanticide was more
frequently carried out amongst the latter. But this is contradicted
elsewhere,[747] where we read that in several tribes no
difference in infanticide was made between boys and girls.
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Parallel with great affection towards the children ran
considerable leniency of treatment. In about eighteen
of our statements (i. e. in all of those in which there is
anything said about treatment besides affection) we read
that the natives treat their children with kindness, absolute
leniency and indulgence, never chastise them, and
give them their own way in everything. It is well to
notice that these two things—real love on the one hand and
leniency of treatment on the other—must be treated as
two independent phenomena. Affection may be perfectly
well combined with severity and rigour; and a want of
punishment need not be necessarily based upon love; it
may result just as well from carelessness. But this latter
does not seem to be the case; we know that the parents
are not careless about their children; that on the contrary
they take the greatest trouble about them and look carefully
after all the necessities of their life. Here the
leniency of treatment seems to be exclusively due to
excessive fondness for their children and the resulting
weakness shown towards them. In other societies the
reason of the same phenomenon is often (especially in
the case of male children) the wish not to frighten the boy
and not to make him a coward, in which belief magical
elements may also play a rôle. (Compare Steinmetz, article
in Z.f.S. i.) A suggestion of such a reason is contained in
only one of our statements (Roth in Trans. R.S.Q.) In
general it may be said that the way in which the aborigines
treat their children is a symptom of their great parental
love.[748] Only in two places (Spencer and Gillen, Lumholtz)
is it said that in fits of anger and impatience the natives
chastise their children, and even this seems to be quite
exceptional. Very interesting is Gason's statement, according
to which it seems that the father was even more
lenient than the mother; and this seems quite natural,
for the mother had much more opportunity to get angry
with the child.
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It is characteristic that even those authors who write
in strong terms of the bad treatment which the husband
shows towards his wife (compare the statements above)
say nothing of the kind as to the treatment of the children
by their fathers. On the contrary, we read in several
places of the tyranny of the young boy, under which often
his mother and sisters and sometimes even his father had
to suffer (Curr in several places, especially in the story of
Old Davie; J. Moore Davies, Oldfield, Salvado). But
two other writers (Lumholtz and Bonney) inform us that
in spite of the entire lack of severity the children are
not naughty at all, as might have been expected.
It may be safely concluded that the evidence gives a
quite true picture of the parental feelings. The latter
may be considered as elements which essentially characterize
the relation of parents to children. And it may be
said that in Australia the parents are most devoted and
loving to their children. The importance of this conclusion
in regard to our ideas of parental kinship in
Australia has been argued sufficiently above.[749]
The facts stated in this conclusion seem to have an
important bearing upon the relation between husband
and wife. This point is completely ignored by the first-hand
observers, who never troubled to inquire deeper
into the mutual dependence of such most important
sociological facts, viz. of the relationship between parents
and children on the one hand and between husband
and wife on the other. There are no statements on this
point, and consequently one is obliged to draw the inference
for oneself. But the bearing of the parental
relationship upon the conjugal relations is so obvious
and the mutual dependence of marriage and family so
clear, that the following inference seems not at all hypothetical
and arbitrary. If both parents are strongly
attached to their children, if their feelings are so outspoken,
these must constitute a strong binding tie between
them. It is hardly possible to think that a man could be
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merely a brutal master and tyrant to his wife if they both
had the same feelings for the same object. But it is still
less possible to admit that a man and a woman would on
the first occasion, or even without any reason, part and
form new unions if they were both attached so strongly
to the same person—an attachment which, as in so many
examples, sometimes amounted to a real passion.
Turning to the other question, to be answered from our
evidence—the question of paternal authority or potestas—let
us first fix the meaning of the word. To the word
authority (potestas) a legal sense can be given. Then it
expresses the sum of the rights that legally are allotted
to the father over his children. So in Rome potestas
meant the absolute power of life, death and liberty that
the father legally possessed over the persons of his children.[750]
Every legal relation presupposes a possibility of interference
or enforcement on the part of some social authority,
and it assumes a set of fixed norms sanctioned in some
way by society. Now we do not possess any knowledge
of any such possibility in the case of the parental relationship,
or of any norms that are laid down in any form by
the Australian aboriginal society for the said relationship.
The terms authority or potestas, therefore, cannot be used
in their strict sense or indeed in any sense at all if we imply
a legal meaning to them. We are more justified in applying
them to the Australian natives, if we use them as
an expression of the mere fact that the father could
do anything he liked with his children, that he had
an absolute power over them. But even here we should
be careful in ascribing the exclusive power to the
father. In the only cases where the question of a
decision as to the child's lot arises, i. e. in the cases
of infanticide and giving the girl away in marriage,
there are contradictory instances ascribing the power
of decision to some one else. So, for instance, in the
Mukjarawaint tribe the father was not allowed to decide
whether his child was to be killed or not at birth; it was
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the grandparents' affair. Curr affirms, on the other hand,
that infanticide depended exclusively upon the father.
In some tribes it was not the father's privilege to give
his daughter in marriage. Nevertheless, as was shown
above in Chapter II, as a rule it was the father who
disposed of his daughter.
Although our information on these points is scanty,
these few hints seem to prove that there were some infringements
of the father's liberty from outside. How
far they were legal is difficult to ascertain. At any rate
we see that the father's authority was rather limited by
legal factors than enhanced. But even if this be an
exceptional instance, and if as a rule nobody could interfere
with the father in whatever he was pleased to do with
his children—a supposition which seems fairly to agree
with the general authority of the husband and the isolation
of families—it must still be remembered that the father
as a matter of fact never made use of his unrestricted
authority. In the first place, as will be plainly shown
below, the father's contact with and exclusive influence
over his children ceased at the moment they reached
puberty. Our question is therefore limited to the period
before reaching puberty (in the boys perhaps even sooner,
from about seven to ten years; see below), and eo ipso
loses a great deal of its contents. A small child living
with its parents alone in the wilderness is naturally
entirely in their hands and at their mercy. But it would
be a fallacy to lay any stress on that point. As our
statements show, the child is protected against any ill-treatment,
or even against any severity from either of its
parents, by their own feelings much better than it could
be by any legal measures. And the fact remains that
the father's potestas or authority (or whatever any kind
of coercive power may be called) is by no means a characteristic
feature of his relation to his children, for according
to aboriginal custom and psychology, any element of that
kind is absolutely absent from their family life.
In other words we may say that our information on the
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regulation of paternal authority in the few cases where it
can come into play is very scanty. Probably there are
no rules, or only a few,[751] and the father is more or less free
to dispose of his child. But I mentioned some contradictory
instances, and I would not lay any stress on that
assertion. What appears to be quite clear is that paternal
authority does not play any important part in family life;
for the parental relation is a régime of love, and not of
coercion. And considering that we know very little
about the father's authority and only feel sure that it is
insignificant, it cannot be reasonably chosen as a determining
factor of the paternal relation.
From the lack of any chastisement we may infer that
the education given by the parents to their children was a
very insignificant one, for it is impossible to conceive of
any serious education without coercive treatment, especially
at that low stage of culture. But as the children are
continually with their mother and very often with their
father, the parental influence must be of great importance
in the questions of the arts of life and of all the knowledge
necessary in tribal affairs. We read in several places of
the control and educative influence exercised by the
mother on her children (Kurnai, Euahlayi, Georgina
Blacks, Herbert River tribes, North-West Australian tribes
according to Withnell, Salvado). The father makes toys
for his children and teaches the boys how to throw the
spear, use the boomerang, and so on (Curr on Australians
in general; Encounter Bay; Turnbull; Salvado; compare
also Dr. Fraser's statement).
Here it must be remembered that education depends
still more on another set of facts, namely on the facts of
initiation and the secret society formed by all initiated
men. The boy's education begins with the moment
when he leaves his parents, joins the young men's camp,
and begins to undergo a series of initiations. At any
rate he begins then to be educated in quite a new order of
[257]
ideas, initiated into the tribal mysteries, etc. And apparently
he has then to submit to a severe régime, besides
going through the ordeal of initiation itself. It seems,
therefore, that the education received by the children
in their parents' camp, where they are probably more
under the influence of their mother and perhaps of other
women who happen to be in the same encampment, that
this education is definitive only for the females, who can
learn from their mothers all they will want in their future
life. For the boys this first education is of secondary
importance. All they have learned of the tribal traditions
and beliefs—their whole knowledge of the world—is
destroyed at the initiation and replaced by a new one.
We see, therefore, that the relations between parents and
children are limited to a relatively short period; for the
girls marry at about ten years of age, and the boys at the
same age leave their parental camp and begin a new life.
These facts are so important, as characterizing the aboriginal
family life, that we must dwell upon them more in
detail.
The relation of children to their parents undergoes an
essential change at the time when the former arrive at
puberty. At this time they are removed from their
parents' immediate presence and control. The girls
marry very early, that is they are very early removed
from their parents' camp to that of their husband. Boys
have to undergo the initiation ceremonies at about the age
when the girls marry, and according to all we know never
return any more to their parents' camp. The fact of the
early marriage of Australian aboriginal females is well
known. The age at which it takes place is stated to be
from eight to fourteen years of age; but generally the
age of about ten to twelve is alleged.[752]
[258]
Very important is also the point which Curr emphasizes,
viz. that no girl above about sixteen or widow under
about forty-five is left unmarried.[753] So that, according to
this statement, practically all women who are marriageable
would be married. But this is perhaps in contradiction
to a couple of statements we shall meet below, which
affirm the existence of a camp of unmarried females. So
that this point seems to present some ambiguity. At
any rate it seems quite certain that unmarried females
are not left long in this state.
We know very little as to how far the relations between a
girl and her parents cease when she leaves them. Marriage
seems to be as a general rule patrilocal; the wife leaves
her parents' camp and removes to her husband's. The
only exception to this rule will be quoted below (see p. 266).
With that, a great part of the parents' influence and
contact seem to be necessarily interrupted; for we saw
in the discussion on the mode of living that the families
camp either separately or in very small groups. And
therefore a wife living in her husband's camp would
probably not live in the same local group with her parents.
And in some cases, where as in the Bangerang the local
divisions seem to have been more numerous, or as in the
Kurnai the population seems to have been more dense
(the local groups living nearer each other), local exogamy
prevailed and the girl naturally went away.[754]
Moreover, the mother-in-law taboo obtained well-nigh
in all tribes, so that the husband was cut off from contact
[259]
with his parents-in-law; therefore his wife was to some
extent also handicapped in her relations with them.
That when the married couple were in the same local
group with the wife's parents there were some binding
elements and forms of close intercourse between both
parties appears in the description given below of the
economics of the household. But in all probability the
authority of the parents over the girl and the real intimacy
of their relations ceased at the moment she was given
over to her husband.[755]
There is another point connected with marriage and
age. We saw that girls marry very early, at the age of
about twelve years. The men on the other side do not
marry so early. We do not possess very copious information
on this point. It is certain that boys were not
allowed to marry before they passed the initiation ceremonies.
Now these began at puberty, and were extended
probably over several years. So it appears, at least,
from all the more exact and detailed descriptions we
possess of these ceremonies.[756] And it seems that the males
had to pass through a whole series of ceremonies before
they were allowed to marry. We read in Salvado (p. 277)
that it was a crime, severely punished, often by death, for
a man to marry below the age of thirty. And he adds
that they had a marvellous skill in ascertaining age by
means of a series of ceremonies through which every male
had to pass. The same is stated by Curr (A.R., i. p. 107),
viz. that the men seldom marry under thirty. According
to some statements from the South-Eastern area boys
appear to be allowed to marry younger.
From these few data it appears that males married much
later and that consequently there must have been some
disparity of age. But this disparity was much greater,
owing to the circumstance that the young girls were as a
rule allotted to old men, and the boys whenever they were
[260]
allowed to marry got old lubras as wives. We have a
whole series of statements affirming this and reporting
the difference of age to be usually about thirty years, if
the female was younger; and at any rate stating that
there was seldom a couple in which both partners were
young. These statements refer to tribes scattered all over
the continent, so that disparity of age in marriage seems
to be quite a universal feature in Australia.
We may point to the circumstance that this disparity
of age stands in connection with the very prevalent
form of betrothal, viz. the promising of a girl in
infancy usually to a mature man. Other modes of obtaining
wives, as exchange of a daughter for a wife, and
levirate, stand also in connection with the disparity of
age.
Statements.—We read in Curr: "The Australian male almost
invariably obtains his wife or wives either as a survivor of a
married brother, or in exchange for his sisters, or later on in life
for his daughters." An old widow often falls to the lot of some
young bachelor.[757] On the other hand young girls are allotted
to old men. "One often sees a child of eight the wife of a
man of fifty." And we read further: "The marriage rules
of the blacks result in very ill-assorted unions as regards
age; for it is usual to see old men with mere girls as wives
and men in the prime of life married to old widows. As a
rule women are not obtained by the men unless they are at
least thirty years of age. Women have very frequently two
husbands during their lifetime, the first older and the second
younger than themselves."[758] "I never heard of a female
over sixteen years of age, who, prior to the breakdown of
aboriginal customs after the coming of the Whites, had not
a husband."[759]
Speaking again on marriage among the Bangerang, Curr
says: "As a rule, girls would be about twelve or fourteen
years of age, and their husbands-elect some five-and-thirty
years older, and already the lords of one or two spouses."
"In this way it happened that one seldom saw a couple in
which both the parties were young."[760] And further on we
read, "Few men under thirty have lubras." But in the age
[261]
between fifty and sixty men usually possess two or three
wives. The difference between the spouses is usually twenty
years; sometimes much more.[761]
We find the disparity of age in marriage mentioned by
Howitt in several places. So we learn that old men were
often betrothed to young girls among the Wolgal.[762] We
read that in Australia old men secure the young females
for themselves.[763] And that young men obtain for wives some
old repudiated wife of one of the old men.[764] Among the
Geawe Gal "girls were affianced to men much older than
themselves."[765] Speaking of the Dieri and other South Central
tribes he says that old wives of old men are handed over to
young boys.[766]
Howitt informs us also that no man might marry before
duly initiated; and then the old men of the tribe had to give
their consent.[767] Obviously, therefore, the age at which men
could get married was much later than that in which females
were given away.
Eyre found in the tribes with which he was in contact
that women of between thirty and forty years of age were often
cast off and given to young boys.[768] Young girls were often
allotted to old men.[769]
Disparity of age is stated also by Angas. Old men get
often the youngest and comeliest women; whilst the old and
haggard females were left for the young men.[770]
Among the Encounter Bay tribes the girls "are given in
marriage at a very early age (ten or twelve years)." And as
it is very often the father who exchanges his daughter for a
wife, it is evident that a great disparity of age must
prevail.[771]
Mrs. Parker says that among the Euahlayi baby girls were
often betrothed to "some old chap" who might have even
already as many as two or three wives.[772] Whereas quite a
young man was often allotted to an old woman. Age is not
a disqualification for a woman to marry.[773]
In the Central tribes, owing to the Tualcha Mura institution,[774]
"men very frequently have wives much younger than themselves,
as the husband and the mother of a wife obtained in
this way are usually of approximately the same age."[775] And
[262]
it may be remembered that this is the "most usual method
of obtaining a wife."[776]
We are informed that among the tribes near Victoria
River Downs[777] a man may marry at about thirty years of
age, and the older he grows the younger girls he gets. Girls
are married on reaching puberty; and usually to old men;
whereas young men often receive old women.
In the Kabi and Wakka tribes "the elder men had sometimes
a plurality of wives, while the young men had for a
long time after reaching manhood to remain, perforce, single.
I never knew a man to have more than two wives at the one
time, and generally one sufficed. There was no minimum of
age for the marriage of girls, and so it occasionally happened
that a child of twelve became the wife of a man of sixty.
I knew a case in point."[778]
"Il est défendu a un Australien ... de se marier avant
au moins vingt-huit à trente ans, et la mort est le châtiment
de tout infracteur de la loi."[779]
In the tribes of King George Sound the old men seem
partly to monopolize the young females.[780]
As we have mentioned above, boys leave their parents'
camp to undergo the initiation ceremonies. These latter
seem to obtain in all tribes, with a few insignificant exceptions
such as the Bidwelli mentioned by Howitt.
This is a quite well-known fact. But what is their mode
of living during this, in some tribes, rather prolonged period
and afterwards, before they marry? They do not live
in their parents' camp; and they have not yet their
individual settlement. They appear in the great majority
of cases to club together, have their own encampment,
roam and hunt on their own account, and in general to
live a life apart.
Statements.—Howitt, speaking of the camping rules among
the Kurnai, says that a "'brogan' (a man initiated at the
same time, a comrade, or tribal brother, see Nat. Tr., p. 737),
although calling the man's wife 'wife' and she calling him
[263]
'husband,' would have to camp with the young men, if any
were there, or else by himself."[781] And again: "The young
men (brewit) and the married men who have not their wives
with them, always encamp together at some distance from
the camps of the married men."[782] "The young man, or
brewit, after his initiation, may be said to have commenced
a life independent, to some extent, of his parents."[783] "He
lived with the other young men, and with those who were
initiated with him, and accordingly his brothers."[784]
We read of the Wolgal tribe: "A married man would
never stay in the young men's camp when travelling, unless
he were without his wife, when he would be considered as
being single. The married people and the single young men
camp entirely apart."[785] Howitt mentions further the young
men's camp in connection with animal food division amongst
the Ngarigo (Maneroo blacks).[786] That the bachelors' camp
was a rule is confirmed by Howitt's statement that amongst
the Mukjarawaint there was no young men's camp.[787] The
unmarried men seem to have lived with their grandparents.[788]
Curr, speaking of the laying out of a native camp in the
Bangerang tribe, says: "the fire of the bachelors ..."
is "rather further off and somewhat isolated from the
rest."[789] The same author says: "Over the girls his (the
father's) authority ceased when they became wives, and
after his twelfth year or so the boy was very little subject
to the father."[790] "When eight or ten years of age he was
sent to sleep in the bachelors' camp, when there was one
at hand, with the young men and boys of various ages,
his parents still supplying him with food. In his new
home, though no violence was used, its inmates being all his
relatives, the child gradually became to some extent the fag"
of all older and stronger. In short this was the real school
he had to pass through, the most important moment of which
formed the initiation, when he became kogomoolga.[791] "The
bachelors, in their camp, cooked each for himself"[792] (at
least the older ones; as for the quite young, the family provided,
according to what we were told above). "The
bachelors had one (hut) in common."[793] Curr also emphasizes
[264]
the importance of the training enjoyed by the youths in the
bachelors' camp for the general tribal order.[794]
J. Dawson says that one partition of a big wuurn "is appropriated
to the parents and children, one to the young unmarried
women and widows, and one to the bachelors and
widowers. While travelling or occupying temporary habitations,
each of these parties must erect separate wuurns."[795]
Here the young boys and young unmarried girls lived with
their family, but in separate compartments of the hut. We
are not informed if, when travelling, they formed a separate
group in the encampment.
"Young, unmarried men frequently muster in parties of
six or eight, and make a hut for themselves."[796] In cases
when a larger number of natives are assembled it is required
by custom that "all boys and uninitiated young men sleep at
some distance from the huts of adults."[797]
"Until his fourteenth or fifteenth year he (the boy) is mostly
engaged in catching fish and birds, because already, for some
years, he has been obliged to seek for food on his own account.
Thus he early becomes, in a great measure, independent; and
there is nobody who can control him, the authority of his
parents depending only upon the superstitions which they
have instilled into him from infancy."[798]
A vague but suggestive piece of information as regards our
point is given on the Turra tribe, by the Rev. J. Kühn: Two
or three months after initiation the lad is allowed to marry.
But some of the married men undergo a further operation and
become "Willeru"; "after this they are not permitted to go
to their wives for two years."[799] Do they live in a separate
camp during these two years? It is probable, but the
statement is not clear enough to be useful for us.
We read about the Port Lincoln tribes: "If there be any
young unmarried men, they sleep apart in a hut of their
own."[800] This statement throws some light on the preceding
one: there we had no mention of any separate camp. But
as both these tribes lived quite close and must have had
similar institutions, we may safely assume that the seclusion
from wives which is reported in the foregoing passage was
combined with an independent mode of living, i. e. with a
bachelors' camp.
[265]
Teichelmann and Schürmann report that there was a
separate hut in which women dwelt during their period.[801]
We read in the description of the United States expedition
to New South Wales that the youths have to avoid women
from initiation till marriage and that they have their separate
encampment.[802]
In the Euahlayi tribe boys go after their seventh year to
the Weedeghal, bachelors' camp.[803]
Among the Central tribes (Krichauff Ranges) there is a
separate men's camp and a camp for women, where these latter
are confined during certain periods of their life.[804]
We read that among the natives of Finke River (Central
Australia) "separate places are assigned for the unmarried
men and for the single females respectively."[805] The same
author reports that the natives are fond of visits. "The
meeting-place is usually the Tmara-nkanja for the men, i. e.
the bachelors' camp."[806]
In the Arunta tribe the boys "go out with the women as
they searched for vegetable food and the smaller animals,"
up to the first initiation ceremony. Afterwards "they begin
to accompany the men in their search for larger" game.
At this first initiation they change also their mode of living;
"in the future they must not play with the women
and girls, nor must they camp with them as they have
hitherto done, but henceforth they must go to the camp of
the men, which is known as the Ungunja."[807] Among the
Arunta there is a "special part of the main camp where the
men assemble and near to which the women may not go."[808]
It must exist only when a greater number of natives are
assembled,[809] for normally the people roam scattered over the
country. But during these latter periods the unmarried
men lead probably an existence of their own, as they cannot
live with families (compare above mode of living). This
information about the bachelors' camp in the Arunta is not
quite clear, as we see. But all we read points to its existence.
We find the bachelors' camp (Lagerplatz der jungen Männer;
tmarankintja) mentioned by the Rev. E. Strehlow, in connection
with the totemic ceremonies amongst the Arunta.[810]
[266]
We read about the tribes near Port Darwin: "Children
live with their parents until puberty, when girls become
members of their husband's households, residing sometimes
with him, and at other times at the parental camp."[811] I
may add here, that this is the only example where matrilocal
marriage is mentioned in Australia. Everywhere else
we find it stated that the girl removes to her husband's camp.[812]
We read farther that the boys are taken, after their initiation,
"in charge by those whose duty it is to train" them. "They
lived in a large wurley, which would accommodate all the boys.
As a fact ... no boys between seventeen and nineteen are
seen at Port Darwin."[813] Here we are told that there was
one big hut in which all the boys lived; but this seems rather
to be an exception.
Roth says that children of about seven years of age leave
their parents' camp and go to stay with their grandparents.[814]
We are not informed whether there exists a bachelors' camp
in the North-West Central Queensland tribes; but this
statement does not deny it, for boys are apparently not at
once initiated after leaving their parental camp. Another
statement of the same author about the natives of Koombana
Bay (Queensland), affirms it explicitly: "The younger
single males at a certain stage (puberty and onwards) always
had a fire to themselves."[815] And again: "The grown-up
lads sleep together, apart from the others."[816]
Grey says that strangers visiting a tribe, if unmarried or
without their wives, "sleep at the fire of the young men."[817]
Bishop Salvado, according to whose information the
South-West Australian natives live in small tribes of six
to nine persons, says that when a family disposes itself to
sleep "les garçons qui out passé l'âge de sept ans dorment
seuls autour du feu commun."[818]
It is stated in two statements above (Dawson and Schultze),
that there were camps of unmarried females as well as of
single men. We may add here two other statements about such
camps.[819] In the Maryborough tribes there were camps of
unmarried girls, in connection with which there was some
sexual licence. Similarly in the North-West Central Queensland
tribes,[820] studied by Roth, single girls lived in groups,
under the control of an old man. Such phenomena would
account for the licence of unmarried females, which we
[267]
find sometimes reported. But they do not seem to have a
very large extension in the Australian aboriginal society.
We see in the first place from this evidence[821] that boys
were actually removed from their parents' care and that
they acquired a complete independence of their parents
on reaching puberty. This is especially mentioned in
several of our statements (Kurnai, Bangerang, Lower
Murray River tribes, Encounter Bay tribes, Port Darwin
tribes). It appears also to result ipso facto from the
circumstance that the boys lived in quite a different
part of the encampment, and so could not be under the
control of their parents. It appears from Curr's and
Parkhouse's statements that they even lived in a separate
locality. And confronting our evidence concerning the
bachelors' camp with what we know about the aboriginal
mode of living, it appears also highly probable that if the
boys' camp numbered from six to eight inmates (compare
Eyre's statement) they must have roamed about in a
separate group. We read that in two cases the boys
joined their grandparents (Howitt about the Mukjarawaint
tribe and Roth). Only the statement of Dawson
suggests that boys remained with their parents, and even
that, as we saw, does not follow very clearly from this
statement.
We are informed in several places about the mode of
living of the lads in their separate camp. They seem to
have partly provided their own food and cooked it (Curr).
They slept in one big hut (Parkhouse) or round a common
fire (Salvado and others). In general they seem to have
formed a distinct, separate social unit. This time, spent
in the bachelors' camp, was the real time of training (see
Curr's statement. Compare Hutton Webster, loc. cit.,
chap. iv. pp. 49-51). They came under the influence
of a new authority—the authority of the tribal elders.
And, especially during the actual time of initiation, all the
[268]
wisdom and morality they had to learn was imparted to
the young people by the old men of the tribe. Probably
there also they formed new acquaintances and relationships
besides the family ones in which they were
brought up. The institution of bachelors' camp is
general among all the Australian tribes. Our evidence
is not detailed enough to allow us to trace geographical
differences in any particular feature. We may mention
here, by the way, that the bachelors' camp of Australia
was a form of the widespread institution of the men's-house.[822]
In sum, all these factors give great weight to the facts
here discussed; viz. to those of the early marriage of
girls and the initiation of boys. We see that these facts
take away from the Australian family its patriarchal
character. The father's authority is exercised over
his children merely during their early childhood, i. e.
during a period when there is in a general way very little
room for the display of any serious authority. Still more,
as there was no serious and real training during this time,
all education, as far as it was given at all by the father,
assumed more the form of play, as we saw above (p. 256);
and, as we saw, during that period great leniency towards
the offspring was the chief feature of the father's behaviour.[823]
When a serious and often harsh training took
place, it was not the father's individual authority that
enforced it, but the tribal elders'. So we see that our
former result is hereby confirmed, viz. that there is no
foundation for designing the father's relation to his child as
based upon authority or any idea of proprietorship. That
applies to a girl as well as to a boy. But in the case
of the former we might attribute some meaning to the
[269]
word property, although it would be rather straining the
sense of the word.
It was seen that on reaching a certain age the children
leave their parents' camp and are removed from their
control; still the personal, individual bond of kinship is
not broken. And although it does not find its expression
in facts of daily life, for the children and the parents live
apart, yet there are some facts which unmistakably
reveal the existence of a strong lifelong affection and
attachment between parents and children.
These facts are: real sorrow displayed at the death
or funeral of a near relative, and especially that displayed
by parents at the death of their children; joy and tenderness
shown to children whenever met for the first time
after a long absence. Here also must be placed the
numerous occurrences in which love was displayed for
white men who were recognized as dead relatives.
In these cases their supposed parents always displayed
the greatest amount of tenderness towards them, and
often underwent considerable sacrifices for the sake of
helping or even seeing their "children." The close connection
between grandchildren and grandparents shows
also that there was a near individual tie between the
parents of the children and their parents. Let us
adduce some statements.
Statements.—Curr remarks shortly but clearly: "Parental
affection always endured," after the children left their parents
and became practically independent of them.[824]
A story showing strong filial attachment is told by R.
Dawson. Relating an anecdote, he concludes: "The manner in
which Youee told the story was exceedingly interesting; his
lamentations, that 'white pellow' should treat his father
so, and the mild complaining tone in which they were made,
thoroughly portrayed his filial attachment to his father, of
[270]
whom he said several times, turning to him with a tone and
manner that could not be mistaken, 'Murry good wool
man! Murry good wool man, massa.'"[825]
A characteristic story, proving paternal affection, is told
by Bonney. An old man was once cut with a tomahawk by
his son, a big, strong man who had fits of madness. "The
old man returned to the camp and with tears in his eyes told
me what had happened, and begged me to assist him to bring
back his mad son before he had perished in the bush."[826]
We have also a few statements about the relations between
grandparents and grandchildren. We are informed that
among the Mukjarawaint the grandparents had the exclusive
right to decide whether the child should be killed directly
after birth or allowed to live. In the former case the grandparents
had the privilege of eating the child.[827] We read of
the important rôle the grandmother played in the North
Queensland tribes at the naming of the child,[828] and amongst
the Euahlayi at the Betrothal Ceremony.[829] Amongst the
Kurnai also "the name is given by the paternal grandfather
or grandmother, or in default by the mother's parents."[830]
A series of interesting instances is told by Fraser. He says,
"Their natural affections are keen; in proof of this I need
only refer to their grief over a dead relative, even though it
be a very young child; they utter loud lamentations and cut
and burn the flesh of their bodies in grief. This expression
of grief is not all artificial or professional like the hired
'ululatus' of the Romans or the 'keening' of the Irish.
That it is genuine on the part of the near relatives of the
deceased I can prove by examples. Jackey, the 'king' of
the Gresford blacks, died and was buried; his mother could
not be induced to leave the spot; she sat there night and
day, refusing food, until one morning she was found dead on
his grave. She was buried beside her son."[831]—"A woman of
the Dungog tribule had a child which was hunch-backed and
otherwise deformed; she carried it on her back for eighteen or
nineteen years; it seemed always no bigger than a child of
six or seven years. Her husband also carried about, for two
or three years, a son whose feet from the ankles had been
destroyed by frostbite."[832]—"At Durham Downs (Queensland),
'king' Brady had a little boy, two years old, who became
[271]
helpless from disease; the mother carried him about with
her for many years."[833]—"Then again, the transport of delight
with which Buckley was received by a woman of a local tribe
who believed that this white man was her deceased son come
to life again, is a proof of the strength of natural affection
among them."[834]
To this last might be added several other instances where
white people were received with the greatest love and affection
by their "black parents," who believed them to be their dead
children. As we mentioned these examples above (p. 222)
in another connection we merely refer the reader to that
place.
Salvado says: "Reprenant la suite de mon récit, je dirai
que les fils adultes payent de retour l'affection de leurs parents.
S'ils sont vieux, ils réservent pour eux les meilleures pièces de
gibier, ou de tout autre mets, et se chargent de venger leurs
offenses. Enfin ils leurs témoignent leur amour au delà de la
tombe, en tuant un ou deux sauvages quand leur père vient
à mourir."[835]
In the description of mourning and burial it appears in
several places that the "immediate relations," probably in
the first place their own parents and children, have special
duties and obligations. "In the Tongaranka tribe, when a
death occurs, the immediate relations smear themselves with
Kopai (gypsum)."[836]
"When one of the ... Wiim-baio tribe died ... the relations
used to lie with their heads on the body, and even
stretched at length on the corpse."[837] In the same tribe
after a man's death "his immediate relations cut off their
hair and applied to their heads a paste."[838]
In the Chepara tribe "the relations of a dead person for
several months after wore emu feathers, dyed red." "The
mother of the deceased had her nose and all her body painted
with stripes of white pipeclay, and wore red feathers over the
whole of her head. A sister had also her head covered with
red feathers, but was not painted white. After a few weeks
the painting was changed to red, and then was worn by
father, mother and sisters for a long time."[839]
At Port Stephens "an old couple had an only daughter of
whom they were very fond. She died, and her parents built
their hut over her grave close to the shore of the harbour,
and lived there many months, crying for her every evening
at sunset."[840]
[272]
In the description of mourning ceremonies given by Spencer
and Gillen it appears plainly that the rôle of the individual
mother was quite singular and the most important. "The
actual mother of the deceased was painted deeply all over
with pipeclay."[841] "On the way to the grave the actual
mother often threw herself heavily on the ground and attempted
to cut her head with a digging stick."[842]
Also the blood brother plays, apparently, a part different
from that of the tribal ones. "After going a short distance
they were met by a man who was a blood brother of the dead
woman, and was accompanied by a number of his tribal
brothers."[843]
All this evidence, although relatively scanty, shows
clearly that the individual relations between parents and
children continued to be strong and intimate. This fact
also throws light on the character of these relations during
early childhood. In this period the bonds were formed,
and they must have been formed in a very strong and
thorough manner indeed if they lasted so long. This
conclusion is of such a general and fundamental character,
and the evidence is so scanty, that it would be futile to
attempt tracing any geographical distinctions between
the different tribes. Like the other general conclusions
arrived at in this chapter, it has features common to all
the aboriginal tribes of Australia.
We have extremely scanty information concerning
the relation between brothers and sisters; and the few
hints we possess are very contradictory. Thus Gason
says that a brother and sister "would sacrifice their lives
for one another if called upon."[844] And Fraser informs us
that when a man is sick it is his brother's duty to tend
him and carry him about. And the author gives an
example in support of this statement.[845] And again we
read in Oldfield that a girl, if her mother is dead, "is
bound to supply them (her brothers) with food for a
certain period; indeed, brothers in general retain the
privilege of maltreating their sisters long after these
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latter became the property of another."[846] On the other
hand, Grey states that no "common bond of union" exists
between brothers and sisters of the same father.[847] And
according to Spencer and Gillen a man may never speak
from a near to his younger sister, although he may speak
freely to his older one.[848] Among the natives of Yorke's
Peninsula brothers and sisters were not allowed to
converse.[849] In some West Australian tribes the boy was
never allowed to speak to his sisters after the initiation
ceremony. He had to say farewell to his sisters before
he went to the initiation. The "own" brothers and
sisters keep apart from each other. And even boys or
girls of the same class cannot speak or play together.[850]
The first three statements appear to indicate a close
individual relationship between brother and sister; the
four following seem to deny it again. Recalling to mind
what we learned about the relation in question in other
connections, we hardly get much help therefrom. The
exchange of sisters would point to some ties; but, it is
too uncertain a hint. The facts that children are suckled
for a long time, and that owing to that and to the practice
of infanticide connected with it, the children succeed
each other at long intervals, reduce the possibility of
close ties between the children of the same parents;
especially as they so soon leave the parental camp, and
as probably afterwards the intercourse between the
sisters and brothers is interrupted (compare statements of
Curr and Spencer and Gillen). On the whole we know
very little about the relation in question; and we may
only conjecture, although with a high degree of probability,
that the tie is not a very strong one and does not
play an important part in family life; if it were otherwise
we probably would know more about it.