“Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord refresh my heart
in Christ. Having confidence in thine obedience I write unto thee,
knowing that thou wilt do even beyond what I say. But withal prepare
me a lodging: for I hope that through your prayers I shall be granted
unto you.
“Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, saluteth thee; and
so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, Luke, my fellow workers.
“The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.”—Philem.
20–25 (Rev. Ver.).
We have already had occasion to point out that
Paul’s pleading with Philemon, and the
motives which he adduces, are expressions, on a
lower level, of the greatest principles of Christian
ethics. If the closing salutations be left out of sight
for the moment, there are here three verses, each
containing a thought which needs only to be cast
into its most general form to show itself as a large
Christian truth.
I. Verse 20 gives the final moving form of the
Apostle’s request. Onesimus disappears, and the
final plea is based altogether on the fact that compliance
will pleasure and help Paul. There is but
the faintest gleam of a possible allusion to the
former in the use of the verb from which the name
Onesimus is derived—“Let me have help of thee”;
as if he had said, “Be you an Onesimus, a helpful
one to me, as I trust he is going to be to you.”
“Refresh my heart” points back to v. 7, “The hearts
of the saints have been refreshed by thee,” and
lightly suggests that Philemon should do for Paul
what he had done for many others. But the
Apostle does not merely ask help and refreshing;
he desires that they should be of a right Christian
sort. “In Christ” is very significant. If Philemon
receives his slave for Christ’s sake and in the
strength of that communion with Christ which fits
for all virtue, and so for this good deed—a deed
which is of too high and rare a strain of goodness
for his unaided nature,—then “in Christ” he will
be helpful to the Apostle. In that case the phrase
expresses the element or sphere in which the act is
done. But it may apply rather, or even also, to
Paul, and then it expresses the element or sphere in
which he is helped and refreshed. In communion
with Jesus, taught and inspired by Him, the Apostle
is brought to such true and tender sympathy with
the runaway that his heart is refreshed, as by a cup
of cold water, by kindness shown to him. Such
keen sympathy is as much beyond the reach of
nature as Philemon’s kindness would be. Both are
“in Christ.” Union with Him refines selfishness,
and makes men quick to feel another’s sorrows
and joys as theirs, after the pattern of Him who
makes the case of God’s fugitives His own. It
makes them easy to be entreated and ready to forgive.
So to be in Him is to be sympathetic like
Paul, and placable as He would have Onesimus.
“In Christ” carries in it the secret of all sweet
humanities and beneficence, is the spell which calls
out fairest charity, and is the only victorious antagonist
of harshness and selfishness.
The request for the sake of which the whole letter
is written is here put as a kindness to Paul himself,
and thus an entirely different motive is appealed
to. “Surely you would be glad to give me pleasure.
Then do this thing which I ask you.” It is permissible
to seek to draw to virtuous acts by such
a motive, and to reinforce higher reasons by the
desire to please dear ones, or to win the approbation
of the wise and good. It must be rigidly kept as
a subsidiary motive, and distinguished from the mere
love of applause. Most men have some one whose
opinion of their acts is a kind of embodied conscience,
and whose satisfaction is reward. But pleasing
the dearest and purest among men can never
be more than at most a crutch to help lameness
or a spur to stimulate.
If however this motive be lifted to the higher
level, and these words thought of as Paul’s echo of
Christ’s appeal to those who love Him, they beautifully
express the peculiar blessedness of Christian
ethics. The strongest motive, the very mainspring
and pulsing heart of Christian duty, is to please
Christ. His language to His followers is not, “Do
this because it is right,” but, “Do this because it
pleaseth Me.” They have a living Person to gratify,
not a mere law of duty to obey. The help which
is given to weakness by the hope of winning golden
opinions from, or giving pleasure to, those whom
men love is transferred in the Christian relation
to Jesus. So the cold thought of duty is warmed,
and the weight of obedience to a stony, impersonal
law is lightened, and a new power is enlisted on
the side of goodness, which sways more mightily
than all the abstractions of duty. The Christ
Himself makes His appeal to men in the same
tender fashion as Paul to Philemon. He will move
to holy obedience by the thought—wonderful as
it is—that it gladdens Him. Many a weak heart
has been braced and made capable of heroisms of
endurance and effort, and of angel deeds of mercy,
all beyond its own strength, by that great thought,
“We labour that, whether present or absent, we may
be well-pleasing to Him.”
II. Verse 21 exhibits love commanding, in the
confidence of love obeying. “Having confidence
in thine obedience I write unto thee, knowing that
thou wilt do even beyond what I say.” In v. 8
the Apostle had waived his right to enjoin, because
he had rather speak the speech of love, and request.
But here, with the slightest possible touch, he just
lets the note of authority sound for a single moment,
and then passes into the old music of affection and
trust. He but names the word “obedience,” and
that in such a way as to present it as the child
of love, and the privilege of his friend. He trusts
Philemon’s obedience, because he knows his love,
and is sure that it is love of such a sort as will
not stand on the exact measure, but will delight
in giving it “pressed down and running over.”
What could he mean by “do more than I say”?
Was he hinting at emancipation, which he would
rather have to come from Philemon’s own sense of
what was due to the slave who was now a brother,
than be granted, perhaps hesitatingly, in deference to
his request? Possibly, but more probably he had
no definite thing in his mind, but only desired to
express his loving confidence in his friend’s willingness
to please him. Commands given in such a
tone, where authority audibly trusts the subordinate,
are far more likely to be obeyed than if they were
shouted with the hoarse voice of a drill-sergeant.
Men will do much to fulfil generous expectations.
Even debased natures will respond to such appeal;
and if they see that good is expected from them,
that will go far to evoke it. Some masters have
always good servants, and part of the secret is that
they trust them to obey. “England expects”
fulfilled itself. When love enjoins there should be
trust in its tones. It will act like a magnet to draw
reluctant feet into the path of duty. A will which
mere authority could not bend, like iron when cold,
may be made flexible when warmed by this gentle
heat. If parents oftener let their children feel that
they had confidence in their obedience, they would
seldomer have to complain of their disobedience.
Christ’s commands follow, or rather set, this pattern.
He trusts His servants, and speaks to them
in a voice softened and confiding. He tells them
His wish, and commits Himself and His cause to
His disciples’ love.
Obedience beyond the strict limits of command
will always be given by love. It is a poor, grudging
service which weighs obedience as a chemist does
some precious medicine, and is careful that not the
hundredth part of a grain more than the prescribed
amount shall be doled out. A hired workman will
fling down his lifted trowel full of mortar at the first
stroke of the clock, though it would be easier to lay
it on the bricks; but where affection moves the
hand, it is delight to add something over and above
to bare duty. The artist who loves his work will
put many a touch on it beyond the minimum which
will fulfil his contract. Those who adequately feel
the power of Christian motives will not be anxious
to find the least that they durst, but the most that
they can do. If obvious duty requires them to go
a mile, they will rather go two, than be scrupulous
to stop as soon as they see the milestone. A child
who is always trying to find out how little would
satisfy his father cannot have much love. Obedience
to Christ is joy, peace, love. The grudging
servants are limiting their possession of these, by
limiting their active surrender of themselves. They
seem to be afraid of having too much of these
blessings. A heart truly touched by the love of
Jesus Christ will not seek to know the lowest limit
of duty, but the highest possibility of service.
“Give all thou canst; high heaven rejects the lore
Of nicely calculated less or more.”
III. Verse 22 may be summed up as the language
of love, hoping for reunion. “Withal prepare
me a lodging: for I hope that through your prayers
I shall be granted unto you.” We do not know
whether the Apostle’s expectation was fulfilled. Believing
that he was set free from his first imprisonment,
and that his second was separated from it
by a considerable interval, during which he visited
Macedonia and Asia Minor, we have yet nothing
to show whether or not he reached Colossæ; but
whether fulfilled or not, the expectation of meeting
would tend to secure compliance with his request,
and would be all the more likely to do so, for the
very delicacy with which it is stated, so as not to
seem to be mentioned for the sake of adding force
to his intercession.
The limits of Paul’s expectation as to the power
of his brethren’s prayers for temporal blessings are
worth noting. He does believe that these good
people in Colossæ could help him by prayer for his
liberation, but he does not believe that their prayer
will certainly be heard. In some circles much is
said now about “the prayer of faith”—a phrase
which, singularly enough, is in such cases almost
confined to prayers for external blessings,—and
about its power to bring money for work which the
person praying believes to be desirable, or to send
away diseases. But surely there can be no “faith”
without a definite Divine word to lay hold of. Faith
and God’s promise are correlative; and unless a
man has God’s plain promise that A. B. will be cured
by his prayer, the belief that he will is not faith, but
something deserving a much less noble name. The
prayer of faith is not forcing our wills on God, but
bending our wills to God’s. The prayer which Christ
has taught in regard to all outward things is, “Not
my will but Thine be done,” and, “May Thy will
become mine.” That is the prayer of faith, which
is always answered. The Church prayed for Peter,
and he was delivered; the Church, no doubt, prayed
for Stephen, and he was stoned. Was then the
prayer for him refused? Not so, but if it were
prayer at all, the inmost meaning of it was “be it
as Thou wilt”; and that was accepted and answered.
Petitions for outward blessings, whether for
the petitioner or for others, are to be presented with
submission; and the highest confidence which can
be entertained concerning them is that which Paul
here expresses: “I hope that through your prayers
I shall be set free.”
The prospect of meeting enhances the force of
the Apostle’s wish; nor are Christians without an
analogous motive to give weight to their obligations
to their Lord. Just as Paul quickened Philemon’s
loving wish to serve him by the thought that he
might have the gladness of seeing him before long,
so Christ quickens His servant’s diligence by the
thought that before very many days He will come,
or they will go—at any rate, they will be with
Him,—and He will see what they have been doing
in His absence. Such a prospect should increase
diligence, and should not inspire terror. It is a
mark of true Christians that they “love His appearing.”
Their hearts should glow at the hope of
meeting. That hope should make work happier
and lighter. When a husband has been away at sea,
the prospect of his return makes the wife sing at
her work, and take more pains or rather pleasure
with it, because his eye is to see it. So should it be
with the bride in the prospect of her bridegroom’s
return. The Church should not be driven to unwelcome
duties by the fear of a strict judgment,
but drawn to large, cheerful service, by the hope
of spreading her work before her returning Lord.
Thus, on the whole, in this letter, the central
springs of Christian service are touched, and the
motives used to sway Philemon are the echo of the
motives which Christ uses to sway men. The keynote
of all is love. Love beseeches when it might
command. To love we owe our own selves beside.
Love will do nothing without the glad consent of
him to whom it speaks, and cares for no service
which is of necessity. Its finest wine is not made
from juice which is pressed out of the grapes, but
from that which flows from them for very ripeness.
Love identifies itself with those who need its help,
and treats kindnesses to them as done to itself.
Love finds joy and heart solace in willing, though
it be imperfect, service. Love expects more than
it asks. Love hopes for reunion, and by the hope
makes its wish more weighty. These are the points
of Paul’s pleading with Philemon. Are they not
the elements of Christ’s pleading with His friends?
He too prefers the tone of friendship to that of
authority. To Him His servants owe themselves,
and remain for ever in His debt, after all payment
of reverence and thankful self-surrender. He does
not count constrained service as service at all, and
has only volunteers in His army. He makes Himself
one with the needy, and counts kindness to the
least as done to Him. He binds Himself to repay
and overpay all sacrifice in His service. He finds
delight in His people’s work. He asks them to
prepare an abode for Him in their own hearts, and
in souls opened by their agency for His entrance.
He has gone to prepare a mansion for them, and
He comes to receive account of their obedience
and to crown their poor deeds. It is impossible to
suppose that Paul’s pleading for Philemon failed.
How much less powerful is Christ’s, even with those
who love Him best?
IV. The parting greetings may be very briefly
considered, for much that would have naturally been
said about them has already presented itself in
dealing with the similar salutations in the epistle
to Colossæ. The same people send messages here
as there; only Jesus called Justus being omitted,
probably for no other reason than because he was
not at hand at the moment. Epaphras is naturally
mentioned singly, as being a Colossian, and therefore
more closely connected with Philemon than
were the others. After him come the two Jews and
the two Gentiles, as in Colossians.
The parting benediction ends the letter. At the
beginning of the epistle Paul invoked grace upon the
household “from God our Father and the Lord
Jesus Christ.” Now he conceives of it as Christ’s
gift. In him all the stooping, bestowing love of
God is gathered, that from Him it may be poured
on the world. That grace is not diffused like
stellar light, through some nebulous heaven, but
concentrated in the Sun of Righteousness, who is the
light of men. That fire is piled on a hearth that,
from it, warmth may ray out to all that are in the
house.
That grace has man’s spirit for the field of its
highest operation. Thither it can enter, and there
it can abide, in union more close and communion
more real and blessed than aught else can attain.
The spirit which has the grace of Christ with it can
never be utterly solitary or desolate.
The grace of Christ is the best bond of family
life. Here it is prayed for on behalf of all the
group, the husband, wife, child, and the friends in
their home Church. Like grains of sweet incense
cast on an altar flame, and making fragrant what
was already holy, that grace sprinkled on the household
fire will give it an odour of a sweet smell,
grateful to men and acceptable to God.
That wish is the purest expression of Christian
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will be all the nobler and happier, if
pervaded by such a tone. Such words as these
closing ones would be a sad contrast to much of the
intercourse of professedly Christian men. But every
Christian ought by his life to be, as it were, floating
the grace of God to others sinking for want of it to
lay hold of, and all his speech should be of a piece
with this benediction.
A Christian’s life should be “an epistle of
Christ” written with His own hand, wherein dim
eyes might read the transcript of His own gracious
love, and through all his words and deeds
should shine the image of his Master, even as it
does through the delicate tendernesses and gracious
pleadings of this pure pearl of a letter, which the
slave, become a brother, bore to the responsive hearts
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