In planning for anniversaries there are many and unique
ways in which they may be carried out. Everything that
accompanies the anniversary being celebrated should be
used. Always use a decided color and try to carry out
the color scheme in the refreshments, the decorations, and
the costumes. There are many suitable suggestions in the
book from which to choose, in the way of both decoration
and entertainment, besides the following.
First Anniversary—Cotton Wedding
The invitations for the cotton wedding may be written
in ink on well-starched cotton cloth. Cut the pieces to
fit regular-sized envelopes. You may request the guests
to wear cotton costumes, if you wish, to add to the effect.
Decorate the rooms with cheese-cloth of several colors
gracefully festooned about the walls, and with the Southern
cotton-balls if you can get them. The married couple
may stand under a canopy made of wire covered with
cotton wadding to represent snow, and wear cotton
costumes, and the wife may carry a bouquet of cotton
flowers. Artificial flowers made of cotton may be used,
too, for decoration. Cover the refreshment table with
cheese-cloth, and have place-cards written on prettily
decorated pieces of starched muslin. You could have a
Spider Hunt for an appropriate entertainment. For this,
as you probably know, you provide balls of cotton twine,
and wind the twine all over the house. The guests have to
untangle their respective balls, and wind them up until
they come to the end of the string, where a gift is discovered.
The gifts should be pretty conceits made of
cotton—shoe-bags or work bags of pretty cretonne for the
women, and picture frames of cretonne for the men, etc.
Second Anniversary—Paper Wedding
The second year is celebrated as a paper wedding.
There are many ways a house can be decorated with
paper. Pretty colored paper shades can be made for all
the gas jets (or lamp chimneys), flower-pots can be trimmed
with fancy crepe paper, butterflies can be made from stiff
colored paper, doilies can be designed from fancy paper,
and paper napkins can be used in many ways. Whatever
is used for refreshments paper napkins can be placed on
each dish under the food; tumblers can be wrapped
around with paper and tied with a dainty little ribbon.
Plenty of paper flowers can be used for decoration. The
tablecloth may be of paper, edged with paper lace, the
centrepiece of paper roses, the candle-shades composed
of their petals, while the ices may be served in boxes held
in the hearts of paper roses. For entertainment, large
mottoes containing paper caps may be distributed. These
should be put on, and with their assumption a character
impersonated by each wearer appropriate to the headgear.
The guesses are recorded in paper booklets and the person
most successful may receive a prize—a book or any paper
trifle.
Fourth Anniversary—Leather Wedding
The fourth year is observed as a leather wedding. Invitations
sent out for this anniversary can have a small
piece of leather enclosed in envelope. A unique idea is
to have a leather saddle hung in the centre of the room,
with a leather whip and riding gloves. As souvenirs small
pieces of leather with the date of the wedding, also the
date of the anniversary, stamped or written upon them,
and tied with white baby ribbon, may be distributed.
Small leather calendars can be made, also heart-shaped
leather pen-wipers with small paintings on them. Appropriate
presents for the married couple would be leather
purses, hand-bags, shoes, satchels, pocketbooks, lunch
boxes, traveling cases, etc., and do not forget a leather
smoking case for the host.
A burnt-leather box or basket filled with yellow flowers
or growing ferns would not be ill-adapted for a centrepiece
for the refreshment table, and leatherette receptacles, if
made in sections tied together with ribbons matching the
flowers, would be pretty for the bonbons, cakes and salted
nuts.
The place-cards may be of leather with the names in
heavy gilt lettering.
A game or contest is usually enjoyed, and the award of
a trifling prize to the victor makes a pleasant climax to the
evening's fun. In this case the article should, of course,
be of leather.
Fifth Anniversary—Wooden Wedding
A description is given of an actual wooden wedding
anniversary celebrated recently. The invitations were
printed on paper that looked like wood. In fact
it looked so much like it that it could hardly
be told from wood. For decorations as much real
wood was utilized as possible. In one large archway
were hung twelve wooden plates, each with a painting
on, and joined with white ribbon. Twelve young ladies
served on the reception committee and the twelve plates
were given them as souvenirs before they departed. In
another archway there was a toothpick curtain which attracted
much attention. This was made on silk cord with
the toothpicks tied about two inches apart, crossways, with
a small loop in the cord. They were draped back and tied
with a bunch of silk cord. In the small doorways were
clothes-pin curtains. A large wire bell, covered with shavings
and goldenrod, hung from a canopy of the same, under
which the bride and groom stood to receive their
guests.
A large wooden flower-stand was placed in the reception
hall and it was banked with goldenrod and cut flowers,
with a large palm on top shelf. Several wooden bowls and
baskets of goldenrod and cut flowers were scattered about
the house. On the mantels, stands, table, sideboard, and
piano, were large palms and goldenrod. All the chairs
had been moved out of the house, except in the dining-room,
where they were arranged around the wall. In the
centre of the room was the polished table, with neat doilies,
and for a centrepiece was a large yellow cake with the
figure "5" in wood. This cake stood on a high cake-stand
and around the edge of the stand were a row of
clothes-pins, the kind with a spring, and a row of toothpicks
sticking all around the edge of the cake. On two
corners of the table were little wooden shoes filled with cut
flowers, and on the two diagonally opposite corners were
large apples stuck full of toothpicks. The guests were
seated in the dining-room for refreshments and as soon as
it was filled, the reception committee closed it with a large
rope of goldenrod across the doorway. For refreshments
ice cream and cake were served on wooden plates with
wooden spoons. The ice cream was made to look like
wood, the caterer using a mixture of vanilla, chocolate,
bisque and lemon flavors. The different kinds of cake
were also made to look like different kinds of wood, such
as walnut, oak, cherry, and so forth. The souvenirs were
large wooden butter moulds on which were printed the year
of marriage and the year of celebration. An orchestra of
eight pieces played all through the evening, under a canopy
of white cloth on the porch, the porch being carpeted
and curtained like a room.
Seventh Anniversary—Woolen Wedding
The woolen wedding comes with the seventh anniversary.
The material is not effective, but the invitations may
be worked in crewels on perforated Bristol-board.
The "cobweb party" might be revived, using colored
yarns instead of cords, and placing a "fortune" as well as
a favor at the end of each. Some unfortunate swain
might, perhaps, find a huge worsted mitten, guided in his
choice of yarn by one in the secret to insure its selection
by a man.
On the refreshment table a large wedding-cake crowned
by a "Bo-peep" doll with her flock of toy sheep would
suggest the "woolly" idea.
Tenth Anniversary—Tin Wedding
These wedding invitations can be written or printed,
and sent out ten days beforehand, either enclosing a piece
of tin, or wrapped in tin foil.
The bride and groom should receive their guests, the
bride carrying her bouquet in a tin funnel. The groom
can wear a small tin horn in his buttonhole with a small
bouquet. The author intends to celebrate her tin wedding
this fall, and this is what she intends to have.
For refreshments, will serve coffee in tin cups, with tin
spoons, and dainty sandwiches on tin plates; will pass water
in a tin pail, using a tin dipper. All refreshments will be
passed in tin pans, the waiters will use tin coffee pots to refill
the coffee cups. For a centrepiece for the table, will
use a large tin cake pan, with an opening in the centre, in
which a small fish horn can be placed, the cake pan and
fish horn both being filled with flowers. Shall decorate
the rooms with tin as far as possible. In one archway shall
use tin plates tied together with ribbon, a small hole being
punched in the plates for the purpose. This will form a
curtain for one archway. In another archway shall use tin
cups for the same purpose. Tin candlesticks can be used,
if one is fortunate enough to have them. Wire toasters
tied with ribbon can be hung on the walls to hold photographs.
Small tin spoons tied with ribbons can be given
as souvenirs, being passed around by the waiters, in a tin
dust pan.
Potted plants can be set in tin pails, and tin cans can be
used for bouquets. A tin wash basin can be passed for a
finger bowl. Tin foil can also be used with which to decorate.
Twelfth Anniversary—Linen Wedding
The invitations are written on squares of linen in indelible
ink, and the name cards are also of linen. Linen is
used freely about the rooms, linen lace working into decorative
schemes most effectively. The flax flower is, of
course, conspicuous whenever it can be obtained. The
artificial flower may be used in many places, as well as the
natural blossoms. The centrepiece, doilies, etc., used on
the table should be embroidered with flax flowers in natural
colors.
While the guests are at supper an old-fashioned spinning
wheel should be brought into the parlors in readiness for a
spinning contest, which may be conducted as described in
the entertainment, "A Spinning Party."
Fifteenth Anniversary—Crystal Wedding
The invitations may be decorated with drawings of
small hand-mirrors, tumblers, etc., and for the ornamentation
of the house every conceivable kind of glass vessel
and mirror may be used. In the table decorations cut or
pressed glass should be prominent. In the centre of the
table a small mirror might be placed, with a large glass
bowl upon it filled with flowers. Red carnations with red
candle-shades make a very effective color scheme for the
crystal background. Little cakes with red icing, red bonbons,
and red place cards may also be used. The refreshments
should be served on glass dishes, the waiters
using glass trays if possible. Tiny glass bottles each containing
a red carnation and a sprig of smilax make very
appropriate souvenirs. Should the bride desire an appropriate
gown for the occasion, it may be trimmed with
quantities of glass beads or the glass drops from a chandelier.
Those who assist in receiving might also be similarly
garbed.
Twentieth Anniversary—China Wedding
A good idea for a china wedding would be to have a
course dinner and display all one's china. Use china
wherever it can be used instead of silver, glass, or other
dishes. Have plants and flowers displayed in china. A
unique idea would be to give each guest a tiny china cup
and saucer as a souvenir.
Any of the parlor entertainments or contests described
in this volume may be used to pass the time pleasantly
either before or after the dinner.
Twenty-Fifth Anniversary—Silver Wedding
The invitations to a silver wedding should be headed by
the two eventful dates printed in silver.
For the decorations, use any flowers which may be in
season, surrounding the mirrors and pictures as far as possible
with a framework of green spangled with silver.
Cover all the lamps and gas shades with white crepe paper
flecked here and there with silver, and suspend balls covered
with silver paper from the chandeliers.
Let the daughters in the family, and the granddaughters
if there be any, wear gowns of simplest white, with draperies
of silver tinsel. If there happen to be any grandchildren
it would be well to have them distribute the favors,
which may be bouquets of flowers tied with white ribbons.
The refreshments should be served shortly after the
guests arrive. A suitable way to announce that supper is
served will be to have the wedding march played, when
the bride and groom of the evening may be requested to
lead the way to the dining-room.
The supper-table should be lighted with white candles in
silver candelabra, and the snowy tablecloth be crossed
diagonally with white satin ribbon edged with silver.
Upon a pretty centrepiece of silver-spangled tulle may be
placed a silver or glass bowl containing twenty-five white
roses. Dishes of white cakes and candies, and old-fashioned
mottoes covered with silver paper may be scattered
plentifully about the table. The large cake should be
decorated in white and silver, and placed upon a silver
dish in front of the bride of twenty-five years ago, who
alone should be permitted to cut it.
There is no limit to the presents which may be sent in
honor of a silver wedding, but no guest need be deterred
from appearing because of her inability to send a present;
her good wishes will please the host and hostess quite as
well as an elaborate gift.
Pretty souvenirs of a silver wedding are bookmarks of
white satin ribbon, upon each one of which is printed in
silver the name of the guest and the dates of the anniversary
he or she has been helping to celebrate.
Fiftieth Anniversary—Golden Wedding
Invitations to a golden wedding should be written or
printed on golden hued cards. Let the bride wear a dress
of golden hue, or, if she dislikes such bright colors, let her
use plenty of yellow flowers in her hair and on her dress.
The groom should also wear yellow flowers. Two armchairs
decorated with straw might be used for the seats of
honor. Have the home decorated with goldenrod if in
season, if not, any yellow flower can be used; if the season
for sunflowers, they are very pretty for decoration.
Let those who help serve wear yellow dresses or plenty of
yellow flowers. A large yellow cake could be used for a
centrepiece, banked with yellow flowers; use brass candlesticks
with yellow candles. Plenty of flowers or yellow
paper should be used for the gas jets, lamp shades and
picture frames. Refreshments might consist of yellow
cake, lemonade, and yellow candy. Pretty souvenirs
would be a yellow carnation for each guest.