One of the ground rules in writing my 'grandpa' stories was to keep
within the youngsters' range of comprehension and imagination, and
about living things, objects, activities and places to which their
imaginations could relate. In fantasy stories, when my grandchildren
were very young, for instance, I animated toys familiar to them, or
modified characters from their favorite books and sent them off on
adventures that did not frighten or cause them apprehension for the toy's
safety. At the story's conclusion, the toys and characters were back in a
familiar and comfortable setting.
Deliberate destructive behavior in stories and anecdotes for the very
young, I believe, serves no useful purpose. The young are already
exposed to far more negative forces in the general run of storybooks,
television shows, Internet games and the real world. Grandpas and
grandmas don't need to pile them on. To the contrary, grandparents can
influence a young mind toward reason and compassion. The tales they
tell can be stabilizing forces in the day-to-day bustle and high excitement
of the very young and, by the nature of a grandparent's role, suggest
channels for positive values.
First Letter to a Distant Grandchild
Don't let that blank sheet of paper intimidate you. Here's a model that
you can rework to suit your situation:
Grandma and Grandpa now live in a house that is very far from the town
in which you live. We'll still see each other as often as we can, but
sometimes the wait will be just a little bit longer.
One way for us to visit is by telephoning. Another is by our writing
letters to you that Mom or Dad will read aloud to you. I'll start my
writing to you by telling a little about Grandmas and Grandpas.
Grandmas and Grandpas are older than mothers and fathers. They
usually have gray hair or white hair. Sometimes, Grandpas have no hair
at all, but that's all right because Grandpas don't need to use a comb and
hair brush every morning.
Grandmas and Grandpas like to take grandchildren to the zoo to see the
elephants and the deer and the monkeys. They also like to take
grandchildren to the park to ride on the merry-go-round, and to the lake
to throw bread to the ducks and the geese and the swans.
On the way home from the zoo or the park, Grandmas and Grandpas
take grandchildren to the bakery. There, they stand at the counter and
smell the fresh bread, and buy cookies and cakes for desserts.
Grandmas and Grandpas like to play games with grandchildren, listen to
grandchildren tell what happened in the park and at school, and answer
questions. They especially like to read stories to grandchildren from big
books with lots of pictures.
Grandmas and Grandpas like to hold grandchildren in their laps and hug
them. Grandpas also like to shake hands, or pat grandchildren on their
heads. That is a little bit about Grandmas and Grandpas and
Grandchildren.
Too-Faraway Grandparent
During a talk I gave to a senior citizens group a woman in the audience
remarked, 'I'm a volunteer helper in a class of first graders at (naming a
nearby school.) I haven't given it much thought until now, but I've come
to realize that some youngsters see their grandparents regularly, others
rarely, and still others see their grandparents not at all. For a few,
grandparents live too far away, and others don't know where their
grandparents live or even if they have grandparents, but saddest of all are
the kids who don't know what grandparents are.'
Grandparents and grandchildren are natural allies, but when their homes
are too far apart, or other barriers intervene, their alliance weakens.
Everybody loses, including the youngsters' parents-the generation in the
middle.
How My Stories Began
I live in one city, my grandchildren in another almost a thousand miles
distant. During one of my visits I took my, then, three-year-old
granddaughter for a stroll. We paused to examine a spider's web
spanning a space between two shrubs. A rain shower had passed shortly
before and droplets festooned the web's strands and rainbow-sparkled in
the morning sunlight. Standing there, both of us bent forward peering
into the web, I wove a story that transformed the sparkling strands into a
carnival and the spider into an acrobat. Granddaughter's eyes widened
with wonder.
We continued on and stopped at a house to observe a cat on the porch
playing with a yellow ball. I wove another tale, this time of a cat and a
strange ball that bounced too high. Again, my granddaughter's
expression showed her pleasure in hearing grandpa's story. For the
remainder of my visit, and during subsequent visits, I told her, and when
he was old enough, my grandson, of the world around us and how we
hoped to, some day, live together on Planet Earth.
Visits, in either direction were infrequent. Adult-oriented telephone calls
usually left only brief moments for talking to grandchildren. Long
distance calls just didn't generate the right ambiance and enough time for
the relaxed talking and easy listening that goes naturally with a grandpa
story. Then, too, at the close of an adult telephone conversation the
youngsters are usually busy at other things, and sometimes grandpas
just don't do well as talkers.
In my situation, I filled the gap with hand-scribed and, later on, typed
stories. The letter-stories lengthened our telephone chats to plot the next
story, flesh-out characters, the environments of settings and scenes.
There are no better aids to a grandpa-grandchild telephone story
conference than our faithful friends Who, What, Where, When, Why
and How.
One letter-story followed another, often illustrated with pictures from
discarded magazines. When I couldn't find the right illustration, I
laboriously sketched an all-thumbs grandpa original. It was an
enjoyable experience for me, and feedback from the family showed it
was enjoyable for my grandchildren as well.
Family History Scroll
The extended family's history scroll is shipped from one relative to
another in a mailing tube. Each family adds a paragraph or so about
what happened to them since the previous go-round that might be of
interest to others. Generally, the messages are hand scribed, but may be
typed and snapshots pasted on or attached with plastic adhesive tape.
When a scroll becomes too large for easy handling it may be retired and
stored with one of the family members and a note added to the next
scroll stating where the preceding scroll is stored.
What's In It for You?
Long-term studies of large communities offer evidence that individuals
with strong family and social ties tend to be healthier than who live in
isolation.
A conference of doctors and social scientists proposed a theory that
altruism, particularly when the helper observes its benefits, can reduce
feelings of helplessness and depression and thus enhance health. Also,
persons who came in direct contact with those that they aided reported a
strong and lasting sense of satisfaction, even exhilaration, an increased
sense of self-worth, less depression, and fewer aches and pains.
Relating the theory to the theme of these notes, what a grandparent gets
back often depends to the value he or she places on, and the efforts he or
she makes toward building positive intergenerational relationships. If
family has significance, then interacting with a grandchild, near or
faraway, manifests that significance and the returns it generates.
'Returns' imply 'investments.' As grandparents age, their 'investment' is
transformed into a 'return.' The 'return' contributes vitality, vibrancy and
enrichment to a grandparent's latter years.
Picture Postcards
During a discussion among older adults, one of them said he was having
trouble coming up with what to write on a picture postcard that he
wanted to mail to his faraway grandchild. He said he'd been a salesman
but, in this situation, he was at a loss for words.
I asked him what he had done earlier that day. He mentioned several
ordinary activities and added, as an afterthought, that he had strolled
along a nearby beach.
'What did you see during your walk?'
'Seals and pelicans on the rocks offshore. Big waves rolling in. One of
the seals slid off the rock and into the water. The tide was out, and I
explored a tide pool. I saw a….'
He stared at me for a moment, grinned, took his pen from his shirt
pocket and made notes on a slip of paper.
Grandparent's Role
Grandparents generally accept and enjoy the many roles into which they
have been cast. One of the many is that they are the grandparents of all
their grandchildren, not just of one whom they chose to be their favorite.
Favoritism invites disaster.
A young mother of two posed the following dilemma to an Internet
discussion group devoted to family relations and child behavior. I
altered the text slightly, primarily to protect the writer's privacy. She
wrote:
'Since the birth of our second child our family has received lots of warm
wishes. Yet, often, in offering congratulations, well wishers remarked
along the lines 'You must be happy to have a boy now.' This confused
our older child, a four-year-old girl.
'Of course, she is a much loved and cherished child and we could not
love her any more if she were a boy. And we are very happy to have our
new son, but would have loved a second daughter just as much. But the
casual remarks about having a son are secondary to my concern about
my parents' relationship with our children.
'My parents reside within easy driving distance and we are a close-knit
family. Rarely a week passes that we and my parents don't do
something together. They are my daughter's primary baby-sitters and
are very generous toward her.
'However, I am starting to see that there will be a difference, based solely
on gender, in my parents' treatment of both children. When my son was
barely a week old, my father said that he was looking forward to taking
him fishing. When I remarked that my daughter had a fishing pole and,
due to the age difference between her and her brother, would be a more
appropriate companion, still no invitation was forthcoming.
'When my father invited my husband fishing the following week, my
father grumbled at the suggestion that they take my daughter along.
'My son is now two and a half months old, and my father is looking
forward to participating with him in Little League, soccer, etc. Again,
both my husband and I chimed in that the same activities are also
available for girls. Silence.
'What really disturbs me is that after these rebuffs my daughter
sometimes quietly says to me, 'Mama, I am proud we both are girls.' I
don't know where she gets this from, but she'll often repeat it several
times and in more of a forlorn tone than an enthusiastic one.'
Grandpa Too Far
You telephone your son or daughter who lives in a distant city. He or
she now has her own children. You chat with your son or daughter in
the usual fashion. Closing, you ask to talk to your grandchild. The
youngster comes on line:
'Hi,' Grandchild says.
'Hi, there! Know who this is?'
'Grandpa.'
'Right, Grandpa. How are you, dear?'
'Fine.'
'Good. What are you doing?'
'Playing with my toys.'
'What did you do yesterday?'
'Went to the park.'
'…have a good time there?'
'Yes.'
'That's nice. Well, I'm sure glad we had this little chat. Aren't you?'
'Yes.'
'Bye.'
'Bye.'
The following morning at day school the children talk about what
happened over the weekend. It's Grandchild's turn.
'Oh, I played with my toys and went to the park and I talked to my
grandpa on the telephone.'
'What did you and grandpa talk about?'
Long pause.
'Oh…nothin'.'
Think a Story
If you can think a story, and if you can write a letter or express your
thoughts orally or visually, then you can combine them into a message to
a grandchild. The more often you do it, the easier it becomes. If the
mechanics of writing or drawing is the problem, then audiotape. The
point is to interact and communicate with a grandchild so that the
youngster knows of your caring, and that caring is normal. Grandchild
will readily grasp that Grandma or Grandpa wants to share, and that
sharing is fine.
The type of communication most desired by my grandchildren until their
fifth or sixth years, and under the circumstances of the distance between
us, was the letter-story. The written stories evolved out of our infrequent
family get-togethers. Occasionally, an idea for a story called for follow-
up negotiations over the telephone to clarify plots, scenes, and characters.
My grandchildren liked the stories, and both they and I enjoyed the
discussions that preceded the writing. The give-and-take stimulated our
imaginations and creativity, and often provided me with opportunities to
pass along family history.
Today's youngsters know more about the world than children of
previous generations, one of the many benefits of our expanding
telecommunication capabilities and greater education and travel
opportunities. Youngsters get their view of the world from what they
see, hear, and learn from and about their families.
Letter stories, anecdotes and lore give grandchildren a better view of their
grandparents, and about what older adults believe. The process, if
positive oriented, contributes toward the grandchild's maturity, and offers
them encouragement, values, models, and incentives.
There are tens of thousands of homes across the land where treasured
possessions, tangible and otherwise, were created or acquired by the
occupants or their forebears. You have them in your home as I do in
mine. In time, those possessions: properties and artifacts, along with
their histories, will move along to your children and grandchildren. In
every culture, 'grandpa and grandma stories', along with 'mom and dad
stories,' are part of that inheritance.
When youngsters know that Grandpa or Grandma wrote a story
expressly for them, that more than qualifies the story for the special
collection of treasures to be shared with close friends, presented at
school as a show-and-tell, and eventually absorbed into the treasured
memorabilia of childhood.
Story Openers
Are you groping for words to open a story? Here are a few starters:
- My future might have been prophesied from these events…
- Let me tell you about.É
- Here, get under the shawl with me and listen to this hair-raising story.
It was a wild and woolly.É
- During my early years.É
- Long ago and far away.É (still an all-time favorite)
- Once upon a time.É (another treasure)
- I am uncertain about what my memory truly recalls of these events but
there I was.É
- I was about 8 years old when this happened. One morning.É
- My older brother/sister had a tendency to.É and this once caused.É
-As children, we often.É
-I am reminded of the time.É
-There was a particular kind of.É
-If only I could have.É
-One day I was watching.É
-It was in the Fall of 19xx.É
-I particularly recall.É
-The toys I remember.É
-Sometimes, in the dark of night, when the wind howls through the eaves,
I think back to the time when.É
—'Twas a dark and stormy night.É (another Old Faithful)
Grandchild and grandparent know they enjoy being together, and
storytelling is part of the fun; also, grandchildren know that grandmas
and grandpas usually have fascinating memories of their childhood and
about what happened to the family over the years. Grandchildren want
to enter this little bit of grandma and grandpa's world. Perceptive
grandparents see the world through a grandchild's imagination. Using
the anticipation generated by a familiar opening phrase or sentence to set
the stage works well for both storyteller and listener.
Grandparent-grandchild interaction is more than a custom; it is a deep
and powerful bond. By its very nature, the alliance is biological and
cultural, and molded by trial-and-error through the hazards of millennia.
It is an alliance not to be treated casually; it demands nourishment, and
storytelling by a family's elders is an essential ingredient.
Grandparent-Grandchild Interview
A fun way to open lines of communications while visiting grandchildren,
be they nearby or far away, is the audiotaped interview. Living nearby,
the grandchild knows grandma and grandpa, they're part of everyday life.
Far away is different, geography causes gaps. The one-on-one interview
builds self-esteem and confidence in a youngster. It's an excellent
learning experience, and creates a record of lasting memories for the
family's archives.
An interview structures a conversation. Men are often as reticent as
women are eloquent: women are much more socially oriented than men
and communicate easier. However, the interview technique can be a
starter to work through Grandpa's reserve. It quickly engages the
participants in a dialogue and is as much fun for one as for the other.
Vague questions by adults should be avoided; they're confusing.
Let's set up an interview.
Grandma and Grandpa plan to visit Son or Daughter and the
Grandchildren. The visit will include Grandpa or Grandma being
interviewed by Grandchild.
In arranging the visit, Grandma or Grandpa discusses with Son or
Daughter what they have in mind. A tape recorder or camcorder, in good
working order, is available or will be brought along. It's fine with
Son/Daughter and they agree to prepare Grandchild, including a set of
preliminary questions. It's a fun experience, but don't insist having an
audience that will make anyone present self-conscious or uncomfortable.
When all concerned are ready (recorder checked and set up, the date,
time, place, names, occasion, and whatever else considered prefatory has
been recorded in advance) Grandchild opens with the first question. In
this example, Grandpa is being interviewed.
In responding, Grandpa avoids the simple 'yes' or 'no' answer even when
such might suffice. Sure, Grandpa could respond with 'Yes' or 'No' to
'Grandpa, is your first name 'Tom'.' But wouldn't it be more fun if
Grandpa transformed his reply into family lore with 'Yes, it is, and let me
tell you how I got that name. The Sunday after I was born, my Dad
hooked ol' Dobbin to the sleigh to take us all to….' and he's away into
another bit of Lore Americana.
Unless agreed to in advance, questions and answers are serious.
Knowing what a young grandchild likes to talk about is important and
can focus the interview.
Youngsters, though, have minds of their own and might well pop an
unexpected question. Using 'we' or 'us' and encouraging inputs from
Grandchild keeps the interview from becoming one-sided.
Grandchildren pile up their experiences and feelings for an anticipated
interaction, and an interview will provide opportunities to talk about them
and themselves.
Grandpa creates opportunities. For instance, in answering a question, he
closes with: 'That's how it worked out for us; now, how about you? Did
you ever.É?' and the switch is made.
The interview can go in one direction then the other for as long as both
want it to. In the give-and-take Grandchild learns a lot about Grandma
and Grandpa, and everyone involved in the game broadens their
awareness, and renew and revitalize family traditions and values.
Expect spontaneity and deep probing by youngsters when they are the
interviewers. They are interested in the origins of people and things;
depending on their ages, of course, be ready for such questions as:
What are stars in the sky? What keeps them up when everything else
falls? Why is the sun? The moon? Who made them? Why? Where
do eggs come from? Did I come from an egg? Well, then, where did I
come from? Is that where you came from? Where is a baby before it's
born? Why did (Grandpa/Grandma) die? Where is (he/she) now?
Create an Heirloom Catalogue
Family treasures are passed along from generation to generation. In
time, they acquire the venerable aura of heirlooms. The passage of years
transforms them into antiques that are honored in the family's lore and
traditions.
You have several, you say? Heirlooms? Where? And antiques too?
Squirreled away, at the moment, in your cellar, attic, or garage, or proudly
displayed in your den or sewing room, the ancient objects eventual
departure for elsewhere is inevitable. They have survived one house
cleaning after another and denied candidacy for garage sales and flea
markets. Some are treasures from previous generations, or the product
of your own hands and, without doubt, they belong to posterity. OK, so
this or that artifact doesn't have museum value; it could still be of
enduring interest to your family and to the progeny of your progeny's
progeny, even unto the xth generation. Who's to say?
The heirloom, or heirloom-to-be, might be a brooch or wedding dress
great-grandma wore, or a long ago foot-pedaling or hand-turning sewing
machine. It might be a delicate tea set, a venerable book of sheet music
your grandpa's great-grandma brought with her from the old country, a
1920s typewriter on its original stand, a set of ancient but still usable
wood carving tools, a widget that the inventor (your Grandpa!) was
certain would be a technological breakthrough, or, you name it.
And that may be the problem. You might be able to name it but how
much do you know about it. If you made it, usually no problem, but if
it's from a past generation, it may not be that simple. Generally, our
forebears gave little thought, if any, to an intergenerational
communication that would accompany one of their possessions into the
future. To the original owner, the Thing might have been for everyday
use around the house, barn, shop, wherever. Nevertheless, such Things
do acquire uniqueness over time, and even if no longer of practical use,
they represent an individual's, a family's, or a community's history and
perhaps, grandeur.
Cataloging an heirloom rediscovers and records the past and, through the
memories of you and others, builds another bridge from the past to the
present. Family history and tradition are enhanced by facts that emerge
in what you can recall from way back when.
Elements to consider in cataloging an heirloom:
The Thing: What it is, and what it's made of. Look at and feel the
watchamacallit if it lets you. Record what you see, feel, smell, hear, taste
(watch that last one), and otherwise sense. If possible, sketch or
photograph the Thing.
Its History: Where and when it was made; where it's been; anecdotes,
legends, evidence of significant events in which it was used or 'was right
there in the middle of that mess,' and the family and community
personalities who were and are associated with it, and in what way.
Its Use and Care: How the original and successive owners used it;
suggested uses for now. (Oldness is not necessarily equated with
uselessness. Right? Right!) Conditioning or preservation: oil it, polish it,
display it away from direct sunlight, put it to work, coddle it, take it for a
walk, just leave it be right where it is, etc.
Many heirlooms eventually find their way into museums, historic
societies, and community archives. Even if they do not, preservation and
conservation are important. To slow an heirloom's deterioration, store or
display them carefully away from harsh artificial lights, sunlight, heat,
and dampness; inspect and restore as required, use acid-free wrapping
paper, and just keep them out of harms way. Visit museums and
historical societies for ideas on how to protect and display your
heirlooms.
What you get in return is personal pleasure, and a store of anecdotes,
history, lore and traditions for grandkids, nieces, nephews, and nearby
and distant family whatever their ages. Photos and sketches, along with
verbal descriptions and commentaries are constituents of tradition and
values-and the finest kind of intergenerational communications.
Values and Traditions
Many older adults have interests other than family. They work, play golf
and other sports, have active social lives and hobbies, and so on. So,
indeed, what's in grandparenting for them?
It depends on how much value a grandparent-and a parent places on
family ties and the need for and the flow of intergenerational
communications. Where family has meaning, interacting with a far away
grandchild adds substance to a 'value'. Then, as the grandparent ages,
communicating with the distant grandchild retains its strength as a
positive force, and enriches the remaining years. It reduces loneliness,
and is an antidote for apathy and depression. Entering grandparenting
with tolerance, constancy, and sincerity adds pleasures to a person's life.
In storytelling, grandparenting invites a call from a distant grandchild to
'Send me another story,' or better yet, 'I've got an idea for a story. Let me
tell you about it.'
The grandchild chose the grandparent over television and the many other
forms of professionally polished commercial entertainment that thrusts
forward for his or her attention. In so choosing, the youngster notifies
the grandparents through his/her appeal that they, the grandparents, are
wanted and needed. It's Grandchild reaching out and inviting Grandma
and Grandpa into his or her world-with affection.
In single-parent families and in families in which both parents work
away from home, there might not be as many opportunities to pass along
traditions, awareness, and values. Be that as it may, throughout history
the family and tribal elders passed their knowledge and codes of conduct
on to those who, as part of the natural process, carry the torches into the
future. This responsibility to family and community is in the substance
of existence.
Living History
For many of us, our lives are keyed to significant events, transitions,
locales, or something that has importance to ourselves or to our families.
For me, the important events and episodes happened to be on a time-line
by location: the places where my family resided over the years. I spent
the first twenty-five years of my life in the city where I was born and
raised. Afterward, a few years in a distant city, then on to another and
still another, each invariably distant and different than before.
After I retired, I took the time to make notes on as many important events
that I could recall, and keyed each to a geographic location. I gave each
episode a title or sketched a brief outline that would stimulate my
memory to the place and help me to talk about it. My list began with city
A: my preschool and school years (with several sub-headings because
those times had been chaotic); the Great Depression, the first job, etc.
City B: why I was there; the job; etc. I continued on to the next and the
next.
When I finished my initial list of 'cities' or 'countries' and numbered
them I found that I had more than two hundred events, episodes or time
periods. I arranged them so that one followed the other as they had
occurred or were otherwise linked. That became my outline.
I took the list along when I visited my grandchildren (my daughter had
briefed the family beforehand about Grandpa's list.) Evenings, relaxed at
the table after dinner, Grandson or Granddaughter would call out, for
example, 'Grandpa! Number 67!' I made a big deal out of hauling the
list from my back pocket, carefully unfolding it, locating the number and
reading the title aloud. Then, on to chin-rubbing, head scratching, ceiling
staring, and after enough 'C'mon, grandpa! Get with it!' from all
directions I went into my act, narrating in words, tone, gestures, and body
language the events of oft-told 'Number 67', or whatever number they
had chosen.
They would listen, spellbound and cut in with comments and questions.
To them, it was their family history and often, drama, and they really
want to know. Invariably, the story was followed with reminiscences by
their Mom and Dad who added variations, details, interpretations from
their memories, and spin off comparable events in their lives, often long
into the wee hours.
Autobiography became living history-the occasion of the telling, itself, is
now an event not to be forgotten-and the finest kind of intergenerational
communication.
Folk Tales
An old, old man lived in the home of his son. The son had a wife and a
young son of his own. At meal times the old man sat at the kitchen
table. His eyes were dim and he barely saw; his ears were dull and he
barely heard, and his hands trembled. He had difficulty holding his
spoon as he tried to feed himself broth from a bowl. Now and then a
few drops fell from his spoon on to the tablecloth, or the bowl tipped too
far, spilling.
His son and his son's wife were disgusted at the sight of him. Finally,
one day, after the old man's trembling hand caused the bowl to fall to the
floor and break, they gave him an old wooden bowl, and made him sit
with it out of sight behind the stove. At mealtimes, they put food into the
wooden bowl and left the old man alone to manage as best he could.
One evening, after dinner, they were all in the sitting room. The old
man's son noticed that his own young son had gathered few pieces of
wood and stored them in a corner among his playthings.
'What have you there?' The youngster's father pointed to the wood.
The child looked up. 'I am making wooden bowls,' he answered quietly,
'for you and for Mommy to eat out of when I am grown, and you are
both very old.'
***
I received a letter from a woman of Japanese ancestry who read the
preceding story. She wrote that her father, who had passed along to his
children much of the lore and tales of old Japan, had another version:
In many villages of old Japan, the townsfolk suffered deeply and often
the extremes of hunger and cold. It was vital to the survival of the able-
bodied that those who were in their final hours of life be taken to the
nearby foothills and left there to die. This sorrowful task belonged to
the senior son.
So it was, indeed, that a dutiful senior son, at the appropriate time
imposed by illness and tradition, wrapped his dying mother in the family
blanket reserved for such sad occasions. He lifted her gently, cradled
her in his arms, and made his way to a sheltered place among the nearby
foothills' rocks and underbrush.
Lowering his mother to the ground, he kneeled beside her and tenderly
made his final good-bye. She listened silently, breathing shallow, eyes
closed. Finally, he stood, bowed deeply and, tears in his eyes, turned to
leave.
'Wait, my son.' Her voice was barely a whisper. 'Do not forget the
blanket. The day will come when it will be needed for another and, in
time, for you.'
Turn-the-page Stories
A grandmother told me how she sometimes became part of a story to her
very young and distant grandchild. She wrote:
I audiotape the story and mail the book to him along with the cassette,'
she wrote, 'but there's more to it than that. In recording, when I get to the
end of a page, I talk about the illustrations on that page, and then say
'turn the page'. He loves this part and tells his Mom that he wants to
listen to Grandma's 'turn the page' book. When children are too young
to read by themselves, they can follow along independently when you tell
them-on the tape-when it's time to 'turn the page.'
Record Your Albums
Inquiries I've received from too-faraway grandparents include audio
taping stories, family lore and anecdotes, especially family history.
Several commented that talking was easier for them than writing.
In my responses I told about the time and circumstances that I had taped
a commentary to our family's photo and document album, and how I
went about it.
For almost 40 years my wife and I, and before they left for college, our
children, moved about the United States and the world, working and
living our lives. We had accumulated a fair number of photos and
documents over the years; they were important parts of our family
history.
During those active years, family archives were low priority. During
periods of relative quiet we reminded ourselves to organize our records,
add notes on the reverse sides of photos and important documents, and
file them away in albums. As with most families, my wife had all the
names, dates, places, and the why and how details catalogued and stored
in her mind. We thought we had plenty of time. We did not.
Months after the tragedy, when I was able to focus my thoughts again,
one of my many tasks was to gather the cartons, shoeboxes and
envelopes of photos and documents. I spread them across every
available clear space and tried to make sense of the lot. Many, from past
generations, were scenes from the early part of the twentieth century and
before. I separated the collection into two groups: Group One:
preceding our meeting and marriage, and Group Two: our life together
and those who became a part of it.
Group One went into albums as Part A: my wife before we met and her
side of the family, and Part B: the same for me and mine. I arranged
Group Two (our married life) into collections according to the places
where we had resided. The result had many sections.
Organizing the material in each section chronologically, I inserted them
into the albums and numbered each photo, document and page. I
identified each album sequentially on its spine with a gold foil letter from
a packet purchased at a supermarket.
Setting up my tape recorder, I opened the first album. Contemplating the
first two facing pages, I recorded what I was going to do in a general
introduction, then waded into the narration: photographs, documents, and
the flooding memories. Nothing fancy, low key, free association.
The first volumes dealt with people of whom I knew little, so my
comments were brief and sketchy. When I reached familiar ground, my
remarks were detailed: 'Picture 4 on Page 12 was taken in August of '52
when we lived in beautiful downtown XYZ. Our house is on the right; in
the foreground is A, B and C, and coming down the walk is the D
family: H, I and J. Soon after the photo was taken, by K, we all drove to
AA, visited the city of BB, and had lunch at CC. It was that afternoon
that the ZZ incident occurred, and about which I've often talked. For
those of you who haven't heard the story, here's what happened….'
And so, far into the night and for days and nights afterward. The task is
done, and the archives are ready to pass along to the next generation.
Whenever the subject comes up with others, or when I speak to groups, I
urge against putting off this task. We all share in the two great
mysteries: mortality and uncertainty. Among the treasures we leave
behind are our memories, especially those of family and happy times.
No Answers
Occasionally, among the letters I received, was one that reflected deep
disappointment and anguish. The writer had tried to contact a
grandchild-or a grandparent-who was too faraway geographically or
beyond a barrier of circumstance. There were no answers.
***
A man in his eighties wrote that he had a couple of dozen grandchildren
and great-grandchildren scattered around the world. Not one had written
to him or telephoned, either on their own or in response to his letters and
gifts. He was a widower, lived alone, and was the only remaining
grandparent. He wanted his grandchildren to know that he was still
alive. He had much to offer them, he said, about the family's history and
traditions.
'Should I just give up?' he asked.
I suggested that he, as the only living grandparent, persevere and to not
accept defeat. Whatever the past might have been, his advanced years
called for him to be nonjudgmental, empathic, and healing. I suggested
that his grandchildren have or will have families of their own and, in time,
will also be grandparents. As elders, they will reflect on their lives and,
with a perspective vastly different from their youth and middle years,
recall that Grandpa, in his advanced years, had tried to reach out to them
as a grandparent in deed as well as in name.
In remembering, they would better understand their own roles as
grandparents and their needs as elderly. Through their remembering he
will become the 'grandpa' he had sought, long before, to be. Persistence,
I reminded him-not giving up-was vital to his well being if not to his life.
To stop trying would be to accept defeat. The elderly do not take defeats
lightly; at some point the added weight accelerates their downward spiral.
What he was doing for his grandchildren, I wrote, might have profound
effects long after he was gone. Grandparenting is both here and now
and for the long haul, and it influences grandchildren across their entire
life span, not merely for the few years that grandparents were right there
to offer guidance and hold them close.
Grandchildren rarely realize it when they're kids-very often not even well
into in their middle years-but the grandparents in their lives are forever.
Most adults finally figure it out in their latter years. In time, grandkids
figure it out-in their turn.
***
A woman wrote to me about her pre-teenage daughter's repeated but
futile attempts to communicate with her grandfather. He was in his
eighth decade and resided in a distant state; the youngster was his only
grandchild. Intelligent and caring, she had written to him regularly, sent
holiday cards and gifts, and baked and mailed cookies. He did not
acknowledge.
When Grandpa did telephone-not often-he spoke briefly with the
youngster's parents but avoided talking to her. He had not visited for a
long time, lived alone, and was a loner with few friends. The mother's
letter did not mention a Grandma, and appealed for a 'suggestion.'
I responded that the parent review grandfather's wellness and what his
self-image might be in the light of his past. Had he always been as
withdrawn as he now appeared to be? How had he related emotionally to
his family when his children were young? Had the family been close, or
had Dad been distant even then toward his children and their mother? If
he had been a close and caring father, when did changes occur that were
significantly different, as currently displayed toward his only
grandchild?
What might have brought the changes on? Advancing age can be an
important factor: changes that occur during a person's eighth decade and
beyond can be ravaging, especially if health had seriously deteriorated or
a great personal loss experienced. If such was the case, Grandpa might
feel strongly not to impose his difficult problems on to Grandchild?
'I don't know if Grandfather can be changed,' I wrote. 'I do believe that
Grandfather needs your understanding and your compassion, and the
same from your spouse or partner. Equally, but perhaps not aware of it,
he needs the understanding and compassion of his Granddaughter. She
keeps reaching out to him; I conclude her sense of compassion is strong.
Compassion will not be a burden to her; to the contrary, reaching out
strengthens her sensitivity and her developing maturity.
In closing, 'I address to Granddaughter the 'suggestion' you asked for:
'Granddaughter, keep trying. Grandpa might not respond, but he hears
you. Do not default; do not ever, ever give up.''
Recapture the Spark
The following article, Joint Day Care for Young and Old, appeared on
the op-ed page of The Wall Street Journal, issue dated December 31,
1986. It is as relevant today as when it was first published.
The author, Tara McLaughlin, was a former day-care administrator in
Washington, D.C. and, at the time of the publication, a research
associate with the Urban Ethnic Research Program at Arizona State
University, Tempe, Arizona. I was preparing my first edition of grandpa
stories and Ms McLaughlin kindly gave me permission to include her
article.
I believe the article deserves wide dissemination to care centers for all
age groups, schools, senior centers, retirement residential communities,
health care institutions, and other places, especially to where young and
old gather or reside.
***
Joint Day Care for Young and Old
(With the author's permission.)
One evening after work, my husband and I picked up our three children
from their day-care center, and we all went to get her great-grandmother
at hers. As we entered the adult center, we were struck by the immediate
outpouring of love from the elderly to our children.
The day-care adults spontaneously asked questions, and our children,
delighted with having an audience, embraced and talked with their
newfound friends. As any parent will attest, children and grandparents
are allies, because the elderly have the perspective to realize that when a
five-year old girl says she wants to be a ballerina, it does not necessarily
preclude the possibility that she will become a nuclear physicist. The
great expectations of exuberant and excited kids need to be encouraged
by attentive adults. A child's special plans or ideas don't always keep on
hold until after dinner. And, too, our raucous eight-year old son is never
more attentive and loving than when he is with his great-grandmother.
She, in turn, cherishes the time with him as she would a special gift.
Because over 50% of mothers work and many grandparents cannot
remain at home all day without assistance, the time for wouldn't-it-be-
nice-if kind of talk has clearly passed. Broader social issues are really
the roots here. Why are we segregating these two groups in the first
place? Our elderly are feeling they are being shuffled off to homes, and
young people are growing up without the benefit of elderly role models.
This is a society where most mothers work and most children don't live
close to grandparents. Dual day-care is a simple, loving solution to this
separation of the generations.
A Musty Room
As a former day-care administrator I have seen 30 children mobbing a
teacher and clamoring for attention-praise for a project, a kiss for a hurt
or applause for their ability to count all the way to 10. At the other end
of the spectrum, one of my most haunting childhood memories is of
making a Christmas visit with my Girl Scout troop to a nursing home,
eager to 'brighten a day.' Instead I remember walking into a musty room
and helping her to write a letter to her family. The quizzical look she
gave me as she asked 'What shall I write about?' and my own awkward
groping for an answer are a vision I carry with me today.
Day-care children don't have a lack of playtime; they have a lack of one-
to-one attention. And the day-care elderly don't have a lack of time on
their hands; they have a lack of someone to share and laugh with and
glean excitement and energy from. Combined, dual day care, built on
these needs, probably would cost no more and would disturb no one,
and, in fact, it just might be the perfect solution.
Learning that a particular bird is called a sparrow or that a particular tree
is called a pine is very special to children who cannot read and who have
an active curiosity about the unknown elements of their world. Older
adults can read and tell children about this existing world of ours, and
what's more they have the time to share with the children. While the
elderly would not have the special training of the early-childhood
teachers, they would be a supplement to, not a substitute for, staff.
Parents and grandparents, after all, don't need diplomas. Conversely,
some day-care adults might have ambulatory problems that call out to
children who have an intrinsic energy and desire to help. None is
prouder than the child who has helped do something for someone else.
Voluntary Participation
Walk through a model dual day-care center for a moment. Most
facilities for children wouldn't need to be modified, and adult centers
would need only slight modifications. One room for adults, one for
children, and a shared recreation room, eating room and yard. Simple.
Now, how popular could the idea become? Given half a chance, most
elderly in day-care centers would enthusiastically welcome the idea.
With voluntary participation, concern about temperament compatibility
need not be a problem. But how would working mothers respond to
this? How could they be convinced?
To promote the idea, working mothers could be offered half-price
subsidies as an experiment, providing the initial incentive. The elderly
could be bused to the children's day-care centers just as they are now
being driven to their own. Schedules could be coordinated so that public
school buses are used at times when they are not needed for
schoolchildren. Each child would be paired with a designated
grandparent.
'Adored Attention'
Preventing staff burnout has long been the problem of both adult and
child day-care centers. Dual day care would take some of the pressure
off. The two age-segregated groups can come together-kids will grow
intellectually, gaining the knowledge of age and experience; the adults
will recapture the spark of life from the kids; and both will gain the
special gift of 'adored attention.'
Cost-effectiveness needs to be given a true test, perhaps by the
government at its day-care centers for welfare recipients. This would
free government funds for other people in the community. Of course,
dual day care would be especially effective for families with both day-
care needs.
As a mother, I see that the minute-to-minute problems, vital to kids, don't
keep well and just can't wait until later. As an adult, I am not looking
forward to my own future in adult day care, looking blankly at a piece of
stationary because I have nothing new to write about.
Grandparents in the Virtual Classroom
The following exchanges illustrate e-mail interaction and communication
between elementary school students in one community and older adults
residing either nearby or in various locations throughout the country. To
ensure privacy of the children involved, I use first names only. Many
older adults participated in this program, however, quoting from their
letters, except where the remarks are most general, might be
inappropriate, and so are not included. The manager of the school
project is the teacher.
>From the teacher:
I am a teacher in Southern California (land of many lost families) who is
very desirous of establishing an intergenerational link (or many links)
for my class.
I think a large part of the problem our children and our society face is a
sense of 'rootlessness'. I plan to devote a considerable part of my
curriculum for this school year to developing a sense of self, family,
community, national identity and global citizenship. I want my students
to start knowing who they are, why they are that way and that they can
influence the conditions they experience.
I plan to use telecommunications as much as our school's limited
resources will allow. I would like to communicate with other classes all
over the U.S., especially from areas where ethnicity, cultural values and
religion are known to vary from the majority. I would also like to
involve as many age groups as I can. I will be interacting with college
students, high school and middle school students as well as with all
levels of my K-5 school.
>From an older adult:
I would be pleased to work with your students. I have been quite close to
(a high school) intergenerational project and believe that this sort of
thing could help a lot of kids.
…another adult wrote:
I will be honored to interact with your youngsters. Being an old
newspaper reporter I write in short sentences. Being a little not-yet-
grown-up myself I understand and speak their language. My
grandmother gave me a vivid recounting of her trip from Missouri to
Colorado in a wagon train. And her first trip back in a Model T and
many other stories. I'll be glad to share. I love young, open, inquisitive
minds.
To which the teacher replied:
You are wonderful! Thank you so much for being willing to interact
with my students. I think your perspectives and insights will really
enrich their understanding of the world and of life. I will do most
anything to help my students expand their thinking and I really
appreciate your willingness to help me!
One more adult…
I am fascinated with your project; it sounds and feels just right. I am a
seventy year old retired physician who is enjoying his retirement. I
believe we are all witnesses to our time; we are all making history which
succeeding generations will read about in their texts. Real immortality, I
believe, is in the passing of ideas from one generation to the next, in
holding out our hands to help or to be helped-the gestures are much the
same.
Shortly afterward, from the teacher
Ready or not, HERE THEY COME! Thanks for your patience. I hope
you enjoy their introductory letters.
>From 'Jessie'
Hi my name is Jessie. I am in the fifth grade. I am a girl. My teacher
is Mrs.—- . By the way, she is the best teacher there ever was and she's
great at making it fun to learn!
My favorite color is purple. What's yours? Do you have any pets? I
have two dogs. I like to read about the past and the future. My cousin
wants to be a Doctor. I want to be a Lawyer and yell at people. Allen
says I'm good at that!
>From Daniel
I'm ten years old. My name is Daniel. I love to draw and play football.
I really love football. What do you like? Do you like to draw? I do.
Maybe I can draw you a picture. I have a turtle and a dog and a snake
for a pet. Do you have any pets? Write back please….
>From Joey
How do you do? My name is Joey. Please tell me more about yourself
and the newspaper business. My favorite sport is basketball. I like to
play Nintendo.
>From Aubrey
Hi. My name is Aubrey, and Amanda and I are sharing you. This is so
exciting talking to you online. I'd like to know about you and your great
grandparents. Oh! and thank you so much for the postcard, too. I know
we are going to have so much fun online. Thanks.
The teacher added: That's all for now! The children look forward to
hearing from you all.
>From an older adult
Dear Jessie,
Thank you for writing your very nice little note to me. I think it was very
well done and makes me want to write more. Mrs. ——- sounds like a
neat teacher; I'm sure she is proud of you. My favorite colors are violet
and purple-my wife likes those colors, too. We have a dog and a
cockatoo that is getting old. All he does is scratch. He is hard of hearing,
which makes for interesting times.
I'm glad you like to read. The past gives you some idea about how other
people did things, and gives you a clue of what to do in the future. The
present is where we are now. We all make our own futures, which
quickly, too quickly, become our pasts.
Actually, (as a lawyer) yelling will lose you more cases than you will
win. Lawyers have to be able to argue, that is, discuss the pros and cons
of a case. It takes reasoning ability and a calmness of spirit and a love
for justice. I'm sure you are good at a lot of things. You sound full of
vim and vigor and enthusiasm. That's great!
Please write to me what you are doing, about what you like to study and
whatever else you would like. I will try to be more prompt in answering
you. These last few days were hectic for me.
Dear Jessica,
It's nice to meet you this way. I'm glad to hear that Mrs. —— is your
teacher. She sounds great. I'm in good health, thank you for asking. I
have three grown boys, but no grandchildren yet. We have an old dog
that thinks he is our boss. We really like cats better, but our dog is too
old and set in his ways to tolerate any cats.
My youngest son and his girl friend have four cats between them. I like
being a retired physician. I don't have to attend emergencies and I can
get all the rest I want. When I go to the hospital it is to get medicines.
I like your goals, they are very nice. If you change your mind as you get
to look at different professions, that's OK. Whatever you decide, go for
the best. A neo-natal nurse is a very good kind of person to be. I think I
will be proud of you.
Thank you for writing to me. I will look forward to your reply.
AnotherÉ.
Hello Daniel.
It was a pleasant time I had reading your letter to me. Thank you very
much. Football and drawing are favorites of yours. I like football also.
In fact, I did play football in high school and college. I was a fullback,
but never got to handle the ball. In those days the fullback was like a
guard or a tackle. All he did was block for guys who carried the ball.
As for drawing, I'm not very good. In fact I'm terrible. Freehand
drawing, that is. What I do instead of drawing is use my computer to do
graphics and illustrations.
As you work with computers during your school career I'll bet you'll
love some of the creative things you can do with computer drawing
programs. My favorite drawing software is called 'Arts & Letters'. It
has a lot of pre-drawn illustrations. These are called 'clip art'. I can, for
instance, call up an illustration of an airplane. Then I can do all sorts of
interesting things to change how the airplane looks. It's a lot of fun.
As for collecting things, I like funky menus. The funkier the better.
Last month I was in a place in Wyoming where the menu was printed
inside an old newspaper. The newspaper had stories that actually were
in newspapers from the late 1890s, when trappers and explorers were
just pushing into Wyoming territory. I got so interested in reading all
those stories the waitperson had to come by twice to get me to order.
The menu was in the middle of the foldout old paper. So if you ever run
across a funky menu, send it my way. Thank you for your
thoughtfulness.
Thanks, and let's keep exchanging information. I enjoy hearing all about
you, your school and your friends. And what you like and don't like.
Turtles? Snakes? My goodness! I'll pass on both of those. I live in an
apartment and no pets are allowed. But for several years, until he died, I
had a cat, properly named BearCat. Bear hated to ride in the car. It was
an annual battle of wills between Bear and me to get him his shots at the
vet. I miss Bear.
***
>From the teacher, addressed to all who wrote to her students
Dear friends,
My students have so enjoyed the exchanges we have had so far. I hope
you will continue to write to us!
My students are afraid you will forget about them and asked me to
remind you that we are here and we love your messages. If we owe you
letters, please forgive us; we will remedy that as quickly as we can! If
you 'owe' us letters, please write.
I leave you with this somewhat apt quote from LIVE AND LEARN
AND PASS IT ON (a lovely little book given to me by a former
student):
'I've learned that young people need old people's love, respect, and
knowledge of life, and that old people need the love, respect and strength
of young people.' (The writer was 85 years old.)
An elderly person wrote and asked, 'How do we get to write to children?'
To which the teacher replied:
Writing to the children is easy! Just jump right in and do it! They are
really 'into' this now and will snap up your request. I would like to start
having them each (29 of them) choose a particular friend here so I still
need a larger pool of adult writers.
What others have done is simply write and post a brief letter telling
about themselves, some idea where they live, their interests, anecdotal
family history that children might relate to, work background, etc.
Thanks for your interest. We hope to hear from you soon!
Show-and-Tell Expert
An elder, whether he or she is a biological grandparent or not, can be an
excellent show-and-tell for a youngster. If you haven't tried it, give it
thought, the experience is one of the best antidotes for the 'blahs.' The
experiences range from the hilarious to the poignant, and deserve being
shared.
During a visit to my distant grandchildren they invited me to accompany
them to school to tell a few stories. On the appointed day, waiting in line
with my granddaughter to enter her classroom, she glanced around to see
if I was still there. Seeing me, she waggled her thumb at me over her
shoulder and loudly proclaimed for all to hear, 'That's my Grandpa. He's
my show-and-tell today!'
Acknowledging students' stares and giggles with dignified bows to left
and right, I trailed along into the classroom, was graciously received, told
stories, responded to questions about how the stories came to be, and
asked questions in return. I then repeated my performance in my
grandson's class. Both sessions went well.
During the storytelling and the discussions that followed, the youngsters
were fascinated: they were sharing their thoughts with someone who
really wrote stories and, equally important, they were talking with an
elder and a grandpa (grandpa-surrogate?) who had come to visit with
them from beyond their everyday routines. I was reminded once more
that grandparents were nearby for relatively few children, the reasons
include circumstances as well as geography. For most, grandparents
were distant, deceased, or unknown.
***
Some time previously, a friend invited me to accompany him to a
children's day care center in his city. He, along with several other elders,
visited the center occasionally to interact with the youngsters.
Conforming to the center's schedule, we arrived about half an hour
before lunch. The children, about 25 three-to-four year olds, were still in
the play yard. With permission from the play yard supervisor, we
circulated from one group to another and participated in their activities
where we could safely do so.
After a while, the attendant assembled the children to return indoors, and
we followed. Inside, the youngsters and elders took seats in a circle, the
elders spacing themselves about equidistant from each other. To my
surprise, it was story time, and we elders were to be the storytellers.
The first storyteller told of a voyage she had taken as a child with her
parents, and the second described a winter sleigh ride along a country
lane. My friend, a retired aeronautical engineer, spoke of airplanes and
spaceships and stars in the skies. Throughout, the youngsters
concentrated on the speaker, asked questions, voiced opinions, and, in
many ways expressed their wonder and interest. The adults were getting
as much from the telling as the children.
I had been engrossed in observing the reaction of the children to the
stories being told and I was unprepared for my part. Suddenly, it was
my turn. What could I say that would have meaning to these young
children? Searching my memory, I recalled that, when my children were
young, I had often baked bread for our family. My story would be
about baking braided bread, and I would pantomime the process and
have all present join in.
The children, and the adults as well, quickly entered the spirit of the
story. When, with elaborate motions, I drew forth baking pans and
supplies from an imaginary cupboard and placed them on a phantom
work table, they did. When I cracked pretend-eggs into an enormous
bowl that wasn't really there, they did. Together, we vigorously mixed
the invisible ingredients, dumped, floured, and kneaded the phantom
mess, centered it on the ghostly table, and raised our arms grandly above
our heads and touched fingertips high up to match the height to which
our magic dough had risen. Solemnly, we pounded the non-existent
lump flat, cut it into unseen chunks, and rolled each chunk into an
invisible branch. Watching closely as I solemnly went about it, each
child braided their three symbolic branches into their personal loaf,
placed it in the shadow oven, and drew it out a moment later, sniffing the
fragrance of freshly baked bread.
Faces reflecting their deep concentration, the children were involved.
Elders and youngsters had shared an experience, and it had been good.
Having worked up our appetites, we were also ready for lunch.
***
I've told this story on several other occasions. Preparing for one telling,
I rolled three packages of play dough of contrasting colors into eighteen-
inch sticks, wrapped each in the clear plastic used for food storage, and
secured the plastic with adhesive tape. At the proper moment in the
telling, and in elaborate pantomime, I withdrew each colored length, one
at a time, from a mysterious-looking case beside me. Youngsters
crowded forward, eyes wide and riveted. I held each colored wrap aloft
for all to see, and continued with the game. The contrasting colors made
the braiding process clearly visible and more understandable.
***
I was invited by the Resource Teacher of a local elementary school to
participate in their Authors and Illustrators Invitational. Each appearance
would be a one man or woman show: a visiting writer or artist and an
audience of children. Arrangements fell into place and each of the five
sessions I conducted found me in the school library, seated in an ancient
wooden grandpa-style rocking chair, with twenty-five to thirty second- to
fourth-graders spread out before me in a half circle with their listeners
on and tuned in.
To each group I told a story or two, and encouraged questions about
how my stories came to be. Planet Jupiter was the setting for one story
(told here in another chapter), and I mentioned that the plot and
characters had been created by working out details with my
grandchildren. Discussing collaboration in writing a story got us into
long distance interaction between grandkids and grandparents. With
another, middle school group, I dragged out one of my book-length
manuscripts and explained the why and how of manuscript preparation
and independent publishing and what might happen if (the big IF) the
manuscript was accepted by a trade publisher. Questions, lots of
questions, no two sessions alike.
***
During a visit to my distant grandchildren, then nine-year old Joshua
invited me to read a story to his class of about fifteen students during the
lunch period. I would have about half an hour, following which the class
would break for the schoolyard. Most of the youngsters knew me, as I'd
read or told stories to them during previous visits. I was greeted with
'Hi' smiles and hand waves.
The tables had been arranged in a U with me at the open end. Except for
the few who hadn't seen me before, they knew I had difficulty hearing.
As a reminder I pointed to my two hearing aids and asked the students to
speak up when offering opinions or asking questions. This immediately
brought comments from several that their grandmothers or grandfathers
also wore hearing aids and they knew what was expected of them. To a
few, my hearing device was something new. I removed the aid from my
ear, opened the battery clip, and walked along the inside of the U to point
out up close its major parts and their purpose, then demonstrated how
the aid was installed and removed. I activated the acoustic feedback
whistle by cupping the device in my palm and rendering a 'shave-and-a-
haircut' whistle and this brought several laughs as well as questions. I
was off to a good start.
Rather than read or tell a story, I moved on to talk about the United
States programs for exploring space, plans for a permanent space station
and, in time, a base on the Moon and unmanned and manned flights to
Mars. We speculated about the origin of the planets in the light of their
relative sizes and orbits along the solar plane. I sketched a rough
diagram on the blackboard. The students reeled off the planets' names,
and recalled what they knew about this or that planetary satellite. One
youngster wanted to be certain that the class was aware that Pluto's orbit
was unusual in that it cut across the solar plane inside Neptune's orbit
and back out into interstellar space. They knew a lot about the solar
system and were proud and pleased to share their knowledge. It was a
'high tech' discussion.
The last item on my agenda was to read several single-page stories, each
closing with a dilemma confronting the lead character. The author's
answers to the puzzles were included in the text, but before disclosing it I
invited the class to suggest their own. They didn't hesitate, and
supported their ideas with logic.
As in our previous sessions which, for some students, were as far back
as preschool, they felt that they were exchanging views with an elderly
adult who had arrived from outside, who wrote stories as well as being a
storyteller, and someone who was grandpa to a fellow student. The half-
hour passed much too soon.
Talks and readings I've attended over the years gave ample evidence of
their value to speakers and listeners. Whether a show-and-tell visitor to
a class presents a story, a memoir, an artifact, a skill, or an art form,
almost all have something worth sharing with children. The problem is
often in bringing the two distant age groups into each other's presence so
that the dynamics of their interaction and mutuality can take place.
Preparations, as well as the main event, add zest to the experience. A
show-and-tell takes many forms, however they occur, one constant
prevails: each youngster, while you and I are with him or her, is 'the
grandchild.'
Introducing yourself to a distant grandchild as a teller of stories or of
family, cultural, or other anecdotes, or as someone who cares about him
or her, calls for some initial groundwork. For instance, does your
grandchild know you or only of you?
With increased life expectancy and life experience, grandparents of this
era have more to offer youngsters than ever before. As life expectancy
increases, our children and grandchildren, in their turn, will have more to
offer their succeeding generations.
Grandchildren need easy access to grandparents. Casting the elderly
into physically remote and psychologically passive roles works against
the interests of grandchildren and their parents, as well as their
grandparents.
For grandparent-grandchild interaction to flourish, if it is to exist at all,
grandparents, themselves, need to take initiatives to reach out. This could
call for unusual assertiveness to open lines of communication where
there are none, and at keeping them open for a two-way flow.
Don't Just Ride Off into the Sunset
Recalling that far more assertive and influential time in their lives, the
elderly insist on their right to age gracefully, usefully, and so far as they
possibly can, their way. Rather than merely riding off into the sunset,
older adults choose to brighten the horizons of their minds and lives
through continued involvement in family, schools, work place, and
community. Most elderly reject the diminution of their abilities and
interests, although as they age into the seventh and eighth decades they
may be compelled to restrict their direct involvement somewhat. Their
capabilities, reduced by time and the tides, are nevertheless firmly based
on direct on-the-job experience in managing households, family affairs,
and professional and technical careers. With such knowledge and
experience the elderly will remain a vital resource.
(From Surviving The Future, by Arnold Toynbee, Oxford University
Press, 1971)
Man is a social being, and therefore, among all the objects for his love
that there are in the universe and beyond it, he ought, I suppose, love his
fellow human beings first and foremost. But he should also love all
non-human living creatures, animals, and plants as well because they are
all akin to man; they too are branches of the great tree of life. This tree
has a common root; we do not know where the root comes from, but we
do know that we all spring from it. Man should also love inanimate
nature, because this, too, is part of the universe which is man's habitat.
(Our grandchildren) are not responsible for the existing state of the
world. The reality is that the middle-aged generation (the parents of the
rising generation) brought them into the world and is educating or
miseducating them, or just ignoring their educational needs. If the
middle-years or older generations are indignant at the rising generation,
who is really at fault? Who shirked their responsibilities to their
children and grandchildren? And with whom lies the initiative to resolve
these inadequacies? In effect, it is up to the older generation to take the
initiative to bring about reconciliation between itself and the generations
that are to follow them.
Stories for three to five year old children are best told within their range
of comprehension and imagination; stories that tell of things, activities
and places to which the age group can readily relate. In fantasies, for
example, I might animate familiar toys or modify characters from the
youngster's favorite books and send them off on adventures that do not
raise apprehension for the toy's or child's safety. Invariably, the stories
close with the characters back in a secure and familiar setting.
Beyond the immediate pleasure of a grandma or grandpa story itself, the
shared grandparent-grandchild experience transforms over time into
recollections of enjoyable times in one's early childhood. The process
helps to lay a foundation for a positive relationship between the
generations and opens doors to future confidences and dialogues as the
grandchild matures.
Stories from distant grandparents have a special aura. Young children
remember the warm glow of family readings where Mom and Dad add
their own versions of the story.
***
Grandpa Takes a Walk
Here's a simple letter-story that I mailed to my grandchild. Change it to
one of your routine activities that you would like to share with
Grandchild when next he or she visits. Add a bit of whimsy. When
your story is read aloud to him or her at home, before the visit, it adds to
the youngster's anticipation.
It is morning. I look out my window. The sun is shining. It's a good
time to take a walk. I put on my sweater, leave the house and close the
door behind me. Off I go on my walk, up one street and down another.
I come to a park. All about me are trees and shrubs and open fields. I
start across the grass. A kite is high in the sky. The kite has red and
white stripes, and looks like a bird with a wide tail.
'Who is flying this enormous kite?' I wonder.
I look about to see who is holding the string that stretches from the kite
to the ground. What a surprise! It's a black and white spotted kitten.
The kitten scampers back and forth with the kite's string gripped in its
mouth.
After watching the kitten for a while, I go along on my walk. I reach the
other side of the park and see a row of houses. One house has a
window shade raised and a flowerpot on the windowsill. The pot has a
plant with a single yellow flower growing straight up.
A boy and a girl are on the lawn in front of the house. The boy is
pushing a wheelbarrow with a yellow shovel in it. The girl is holding a
pink parasol, folded closed.
'What will you put in your wheelbarrow?' I ask the boy.
He lowers the wheelbarrow and points to a pile of sand in the driveway.
'I'm helping my Dad move that pile of sand to the back yard,' he says.
'We're filling our sandbox.'
I turn to the girl.
'What will you do with your parasol?'
'When the sun is high,' she says, 'I will open my parasol. It will shade
me.'
I nod, wave good-bye to the boy and girl, and continue walking. I come
to a hill and climb to the top. In the sky is a small white cloud. In the
distance is a rainbow.
I start for home. I pass the house with the boy and girl. The boy is
pushing the wheelbarrow. It is filled with sand. He pushes it toward a
walk leading to the back yard. His sister has her parasol open. It is
shading her. She waves at me. I wave back.
The yellow flower on the windowsill makes the house look cheerful.
I come to the park. The black and white spotted kitten is still flying the
kite. I stop to watch. It is a strange sight.
I keep walking. In a little while I am back home. I had a nice walk.
When you visit us, you and I will take a walk along those streets and
across that same park. On the far side of the park we will look for the
house with the flowerpot in the window, and for the boy and his
wheelbarrow and the girl holding her parasol. We will climb the hill and
look for a rainbow in the sky. If we are lucky, we might be surprised by
a black and white spotted kitten-flying a kite.
Dooby and Katrinka Have an Idea
A popular story theme portrays friendly animals at play in a familiar
setting. The story may be enhanced by the animals cooperating to
overcome a problem to which the youngster can relate.
Dooby, the dog, has red fur, a droopy tail, and sad eyes. His friend,
Katrinka, the cat, has striped gray and black fur, and a tail that usually
sticks straight back with a little kink at the tip.
Sometimes, Katrinka makes her tail stiff and points it straight up like a
telephone pole. That doesn't happen very often. Katrinka always has a
cheerful smile.
Dooby wears a dog collar. Katrinka wears a ribbon around her neck. A
tiny bell is attached to the ribbon. They live in a green house beside a
road that disappears over a hill on one side and into a grove of trees on
the other.
Dooby and Katrinka are great friends, and they love to play together.
They chase a ball in the back yard, roll in the grass, or chase each other
around tree trunks. Almost every day they sit side by side and watch the
sun set. Dooby and Katrinka like to take walks and explore.
As we look in on Dooby and Katrinka this morning, we see Dooby
dashing past Katrinka. Dooby barks as he runs, 'Katrinka, let's race
along the road and have an adventure.'
That is all Katrinka needs to get her to tumble out of her comfortable
bed, stretch along the carpet, and dash out of the house after Dooby.
Dooby is well on his way down the road. Katrinka runs fast and catches
up. They race each other toward the hill, and then up one side and down
the other.
They pass a shopping center and an office building, and are soon at a
park with tall trees and wide playing fields. In they go.
Along one side of the park is a lake with rowboats, geese, ducks and
swans. Dooby and Katrinka pay no attention to the rowboats, geese,
ducks or swans.
They have something else in mind: the children's playground. There it
is, up ahead. Along one side of the playground are a climbing maze,
swings, and a seesaw. On the other is an large sandbox where children
can play and build sandcastles. The sand can also be shaped into hills
with roads winding along their sides, and long twisty rivers that run from
one end of the sandbox to the other.
Dooby and Katrinka jump into the sandbox and chase each other from
one end to the ether. They stop now and then to turn over pebbles and
acorns with their noses or paws. They dig holes into which they push
and bury the pebbles and the acorns.
Suddenly Katrinka stops playing and looks around.
'That's strange,' she says. 'Whenever we come to this park it's full of
children. I usually see them with their mothers and fathers in rowboats
on the lake, or along the shore feeding the ducks, geese and swans. I
also see lots of children here on the swings and seesaws, or playing here
in the sandbox. I don't see them now.'
Dooby stops digging, walks to the edge of the sandbox and looks
around.
'You're right,' he says, and his tail droops.
A drop of water strikes Dooby on his nose. It goes splat. Dooby
squints down his nose at the water trickling from its tip. His eyes widen
with surprise. Another drop strikes him, this time on the top of his head.
Still another, on his ear.
Three drops of water spatter Katrinka; two on her back and one on her
tail. They both look up. The sky is full of gray, racing clouds. It's
starting to rain.
'That's why there are no children here,' says Dooby. 'Their mothers are
keeping them indoors because of this rain.'
Dooby and Katrinka continue their romping in the sandbox, but the sand
is getting wet and harder to dig. They leave the sandbox and slip under a
picnic table to get away from the rain. They shake the wet from their
coats.
'Being caught in the park during a rain is a sort of adventure, I suppose,'
says Katrinka, 'but I like to be where it's dry.'
They watch the rain falling. The raindrops are now larger and heavier.
'I'd like to start for home,' says Katrinka, 'but I don't want to get my fur
coat any wetter.'
'I don't mind getting wet,' says Dooby.
He thinks about how to keep Katrinka dry on the way home.
'I know,' he says. 'Here's what we'll do.'
Dooby explains his idea to Katrinka. She chuckles. Dooby also
chuckles. They look at each other and their chuckles change to laughter.
They laugh and they laugh.
Dooby stands up. Katrinka, who is much smaller than Dooby, comes
alongside and then slips in underneath him so that Dolby's body acts as
an umbrella.
They walk all the way home, heads high, looking very proud and pleased
with themselves.
It's still raining when they get home, but Katrinka didn't get more than a
few drops of rain on her fur coat. She moves out of the way as Dooby
shakes himself real hard, spraying water droplets in all directions.
Dooby and Katrinka have a late breakfast and head for their corners to
take naps.
Circus Adventure
A favorite setting for a children's story is the circus, and following an
alligator that sneaks about the grounds searching for an adventure offers
the listener a sense of involvement.
The circus is in town. All the boys and girls and their mothers and
fathers are excited by the posters and the circus parades along Main
Street.
Abercrombie, the alligator, wants to visit the circus. The morning the
circus opens, Abercrombie rises from his nest in the riverbank mud,
climbs on to his bicycle, and sets off for town. He has lots of friends at
the circus, and they like to have him visit with them.
Abercrombie also has a secret plan, but we won't talk about that yet.
First we'll introduce a few of Abercrombie's friends.
One of Abercrombie's close friends at the circus is JoJo, the juggler.
JoJo juggles three plates or, sometimes, three bottles.
Then there is Jingo, the jester, who struts along the circus Midway,
looking important. He's OK, though.
Abercrombie also has friends among the clowns who do somersaults
and fancy rolls, and play violins as they do their tricks. He knows the
elephants that ride around the ring on huge, funny looking bicycles and
the jugglers and clowns and elephants that enjoy making children laugh.
Finally, there is Bumble, the Bee. Bumble is the Circus Ringmaster. He
buzzes from one place to another in the circus rink, telling people what to
do and when to do it. He's bossy, but he's OK, too.
Let's return to Abercrombie. He has been planning his secret adventure
for a long time.
We see him close to the circus tent with colored flags flying from the
top. He sniffs the air and smells the popcorn, and he hears the booming
of the drums and the blaring of the trumpets. Crowds of children and
their parents are heading for the circus tents. Some of them stop to
watch JoJo, the juggler and they laugh at JoJo jumping up and down,
and twirling plates and bottles, catching them on their way up or down.
It's lots of fun to watch.
Abercrombie walks up to JoJo and whispers in his ear. Then
Abercrombie leaves JoJo; he's in a hurry to begin his adventure-his
secret adventure.
Flattening down to the ground on his stumpy legs and arms,
Abercrombie slithers into the big tent. All the boys and girls and their
mothers and fathers and grandmas and grandpas fill the seats around the
circular rink. They are concentrating on the clowns rolling and tumbling
and standing on the heads and shoulders of other clowns. They are also
watching the elephants ride their huge bicycles.
No one notices Abercrombie, and that is the way Abercrombie wants it.
He doesn't want to be noticed until he is ready.
Carefully, Abercrombie works his way around a circus wagon, looking
back over his shoulder to be sure he is not seen. Quickly, he climbs over
a large red and white striped box, slips around a corner and, fast as an
alligator can, he wiggles up, over the side and into an orange-colored
barrel.
He waits inside the barrel. He peeks out through a bunghole in its side.
He does not see or hear anyone close by, so he knows he has not been
noticed. He grins, chuckles, and gleefully rubs his palms.
Abercrombie takes another peek through the peephole. The way is clear.
Taking a deep breath, he tightens his muscles, and leaps out of the barrel.
Rearing up on to his hind legs, his heavy tail straight out behind him
Abercrombie dashes into and across the circus rink. His stumpy arms
wave furiously, and his head is high and wags from side to side for
balance. His legs pump and pound so fast they look blurry, like bicycle
spokes when the wheels turn fast.
Bumble, the Bee, Ringmaster of the circus, sees Abercrombie racing
across the ring and the direction in which he is heading.
'Stop, stop,' he shouts.
Abercrombie pays no attention. He reaches a ladder attached to a red
and white pole on the side of the center ring. The top of the pole is close
to the tent's peak, and that's really high. A ladder is fastened to the pole
all the way to the top.
Abercrombie wraps his stumpy arms around the pole and begins to
climb the ladder. He climbs and he climbs. Finally, he is at the very top
and stands on a tiny platform. Abercrombie leans out and twists his head
to look at the crowd far below.
The crowd is silent. They stare up, watching Abercrombie high up on
the tiny perch. Bumble, the Ringmaster, stands at the bottom of the pole
and shakes his fist up at him.
Abercrombie's secret ambition is that ever since he first attending a
circus he wanted to swing from a trapeze-a circus trapeze. The tiny
platform to which he climbed has a trapeze fastened to its railing. The
trapeze is now a few inches from where Abercrombie is standing.
No one can stop him now.
Abercrombie unties the trapeze, grasps the bar with both hands and takes
a deep breath. He looks down at the crowd once more and gripping the
trapeze tight, leaps from the platform. Away he G O E S!
Oh, what an adventure! What AN ADVENTURE! Back and forth, back
and forth from one side of the huge tent to the other.
First, Abercrombie holds on with both hands, then he holds on with one
hand and waves to the crowd below with the other. He twists and he
turns, then holds to the bar with only his teeth and waggles both arms
and stumpy hind legs. To cap that, he does somersaults and back flips,
and then twists himself so that he catches the bar with his hands, his feet,
and his teeth. Once, even with his tail!
The boys and the girls and the mothers and the fathers and the grandmas
and the grandpas watch Abercrombie from far below. They shout and
laugh and clap their hands. They're having a wonderful time, too.
Well, as you can imagine, after a while Abercrombie gets tired. It's time
to rest. He takes a few more swings, does a somersault and a back flip,
and catches the rail on the tiny platform where he started. He ties the
trapeze back to the railing, and climbs down.
When he steps away from the ladder at the bottom, the crowd welcomes
him with smiles, shouts, and clapping hands. Even Bumble, the
Ringmaster, is happy to see him and they shake hands.
Abercrombie waves to the crowd and makes his way to where he left his
bicycle. He heads for home.
Arriving home, he enjoys his supper and, as he is very tired, he puts on
his red pajamas and slips into his nest on the riverbank.
As he closes his eyes he says, 'I sure had a fine adventure today.'
Dinosaur's Nest
The introduction to this next story is about an experience I had ten or so
years ago at the Portland Museum of Science and Industry. My
daughter was a volunteer at the museum at the time and, often, when I
visited she invited me along to help at the museum too, which, of course,
I did.
A popular exhibit at museums everywhere is one that displays models of
the large reptiles that roamed the Earth millions of years ago. During
one of my visits to my grandchildren in Portland, Oregon, the local
museum had such an exhibit. There were so many different reptiles in
the exhibit that, for my convenience in stories I hoped to write, I assigned
each a popular and easily pronounced-and remembered-name. The
names appear in this story: there was Albert the Apatosaurus, Pete the
Pentaceratops, Palmer the Parasaurolophus, Sally the Stegosaurus, and
Alice the Ankylosaurus. The exhibit also included a Petrushka the
Pterodactyl and a Tallyrand the Tyranosaurus.
The museum's Albert the Apatosaurus had a baby daughter, Alexandra,
and she slept in a doughnut-shaped nest after the museum closed for the
night. As you can imagine, a doughnut-shaped nest, for even a toddler
apatosaurus, is not the size of the bakery doughnuts with which you and
I are familiar. Alexandra's doughnut-shaped nest was about ten feet
across. The model had eighteen-inch diameter inflated tubes that
enclosed a soft brown plastic floor.
When children touring the museum saw Alexandra's nest they rushed to
climb the tube, jump down inside, and land hard on the soft plastic floor.
With hundreds of jumping children each day, four or five at a time, the
soft plastic soon scuffed and frequently needed repair. Alexandra didn't
care to see her nest abused like that, and I felt sympathy for her.
Fortunately, I was able to help; my job was to be the museum's official
Fixer of the Apatosaurus Nest's Floor. My tools and supplies were a
large roll of aluminum-colored adhesive tape, a tape measure and shears.
Twice each day I inspected and repaired Alexandra's nest.
'Stand back for one moment, please.' I would say as I approached and
identified myself to the jumpers. 'It is time to inspect the dinosaur's nest.'
The youngsters gathered round as I removed my shoes, stepped across
the inflated tube into the nest, lowered to my knees, bent, and carefully
inspected the nest's floor. With elaborate gestures I inspected all
surfaces and seams, measured the damaged areas with my ruler, cut the
proper length strip from my large roll of duct tape, and pressed it into
place.
Children and mothers and fathers and grandparents came from nearby
exhibits to observe the Apatosaurus Nest Floor Fixer at work. When the
repairs were done I rose, stepped back over the side and out of the nest
and waved to the jumpers, saying, 'OK, have at it!' And they did.
My grandchildren were proud to see grandpa at work repairing a baby
Apatosaurus's nest so that it would remain a safe and comfortable place
to sleep after the museum closed for the day.
Several times, as I made my way back from the nest to the shop in the
basement below the museum I happened to glance up at Alexandra's dad,
Albert. I think I saw him wink at me, as if to say, 'Thanks for fixing
Alexandra's nest.'
***
Dinosaurs? Having a Birthday Party?
Albert, the Apatosaurus, lives with his mother and father in a huge forest
at the edge of a swampy lake. Every morning, soon after the sun is up,
Albert awakens, crawls out of his nest, and shakes himself to get the
sleepy out of his eyes. Awake and stretched, Albert waddles down to the
lake to munch the sweet grasses that grow along its shore. He has
reached an age that he doesn't need to be constantly watched over by an
older Apatosaurus.
This morning, when Albert awakens, he looks around to see if his
friends, Pete, the Pentaceratops, Palmer, the Parasaurolophus, Sally, the
Stegosaurus and Alice, the Ankylosaurus are also awake. They are, so
Albert visits with them for a while. They chase each other around the
trees of the forest, and then head for the lake to seek their breakfast.
At the lake, they nibble at the tall grasses that grow along the shore, or in
the shallow water. Now and then, the leaves of a bush or a tree look
appetizing and become part of breakfast.
Finished, Albert waves good-bye to his friends and heads off deeper into
the forest. Albert likes to explore. He is also looking for another
Apatosaurus like himself. He wants very much to find one about his
age.
It's a cool and pleasant morning. Albert comes to a meadow, crosses to
the trees on the other side and continues on. Finally, he arrives at a lake
that is almost as long and as wide as the lake where he had breakfast.
The lake's shore is quiet and Albert looks about for a snack. He waddles
into the water and lowers his long neck. He yanks up a mouthful of
grasses and water plants and chews.
Suddenly, he hears a splashing sound behind him. Turning his head he
sees another, smaller Apatosaurus. Albert quickly finishes chewing,
swallows, and smiles.
'I'm Albert,' he says. 'What's your name?'
'Alexandra,' replies the smaller Apatosaurus. 'Where are you from,
Albert?'
'I live near the lake on the other side of the forest.' Albert waves his long
tail in the direction of his home. 'I was out exploring and came here to
see if any neighbors moved in recently. I haven't seen you before. Are
you new here?'
'Yes, I am,' Alexandra replies. 'My Mommy and Daddy and I just moved
here and we think we'll stay. It's quiet in this forest, and the lake's
shoreline has plenty of the food we like. I hope that we'll remain here
for a long time.'
Albert tells Alexandra about Peter, Palmer, Alice and Sally.
'Oh, I want very much to meet them.' Alexandra is excited at the thought
of making new friends.
'I'm sure they want to meet you, too.' Albert wiggles his tail as he speaks.
'Do Apatosaurus children play coconut ball where you came from?'
'Sure do,' Alexandra says.
Albert stretches his long neck and plucks a large coconut from the top of
a nearby palm tree. He flips the coconut over his shoulder and as is falls
he bats it toward Alexandra with his tail.
Alexandra, who has studied ballet, is well balanced. She catches the ball
easily in her mouth. Tossing it high with a graceful twist of her body
she bats it with her tail in a high arc back to Albert. He dashes toward
the coconut and, with a tail flip, returns it for another round.
Albert and Alexandra play with the coconut ball for a while. They stop
for lunch along the shore, and then rest and chat.
When the day moves into afternoon, Albert says good-bye to Alexandra
and promises to return soon. They are friends.
'My birthday is coming soon and my mother and father are giving me a
party,' Alexandra says as Albert turns to leave. 'Will you come to my
party and will you bring along Pete, Palmer, Alice and Sally?'
'Of course I'll come,' Albert says as he waves at her over his shoulder,
'and I'll tell my friends about you. I'm sure they'll want to come to your
party.'
Albert heads for his home near the lake on the other side of the forest.
Alexandra rushes home. She tells her parents about Albert, and they're
pleased that Alexandra has found a friend.
Alexandra has her supper and plays with her toys. Then, feeling tired,
she climbs into the nest her father had just lined with fresh twigs and
leaves, and is soon asleep.
When Albert arrives home he tells his friends about Alexandra. They
are excited to hear that another dinosaur family has moved into their
neighborhood, and that a birthday party was coming soon.
Of course they accept Alexandra's invitation.
On the day of the party Albert, Pete, Palmer, Sally and Alice race each
other to Alexandra's home on the far side of the forest.
Colored streamers, bunting, balloons and 'Happy Birthday' signs stretch
between trees. Cookies and candies for Alexandra's friends are in dishes
on tables and gifts are stacked everywhere.
Children from different reptile families play games among the trees, sing
songs, and swing on an enormous rubber tire hanging from a tree
branch. Near the tables, other reptile children laugh and eat cookies,
candies and ice cream, and drink sodas or milk.
Albert invites Alexandra to meet his friends. Alexandra's father snaps
their picture with his camera. The camera is the kind that makes instant
pictures, so he passes them to the guests as soon as they are dry.
'These are very interesting pictures,' says Albert. 'Please take some more
and let us have them to show to our parents?'
'Of course,' says Alexandra's Daddy. He takes many snapshots of
Albert and the others and gives a few to each to take home.
After the children have played for a while Alexandra's mother slaps her
long tail on the ground to get their attention.
'Let's all gather around at the table,' she calls to the children.
As everyone moves toward the table Alexandra's father carries out a
huge, three-layered chocolate cake with whipped cream all over the top
and sides. The cake has four candles on it for Alexandra's fourth
birthday.
When the cake is on the table Alexandra stretches her neck forward
slightly, takes a deep breath, and with a single whoosh blows out all four
candles.
Everyone shouts 'Happy Birthday, Alexandra!' and they waddle-dance
around the table. Alexandra is very happy. Her daddy plays on his
fiddle.
It's time for Alexandra to open the many gifts that her friends and
parents piled on the table.
Alexandra unwraps a special Apatosaurus doll that goes 'beep' when she
squeezes it, a dinosaur doll's nest lined with tiny leaves and twigs, and a
blackboard on a tripod with different colored chalk sticks. There are
many other gifts, too. Alexandra holds her gifts up so that everyone can
see them. Then, with a big smile, she hugs her mother and father and
thanks her guests for their gifts and for coming to her party.
All too soon, the party is over. Time to start for home. The children
wave good-bye to Alexandra as they leave. Sally and Alice hug
Alexandra.
'We must see each other again,' says Alexandra.
'Yes, real soon,' says Sally.
Sally and Alice nod.
Albert is sorry the party is over. He waits until the very end, when all the
others have left.
'Thank you for inviting us,' he says to Alexandra. 'I'll come again soon
and we'll play coconut ball. Would you like that?'
'Oh, yes,' she replies. 'I'd like that very much.'
With a wave of his tail Albert turns toward home. He catches up to Pete
and Palmer, who are waiting for him. They all run ahead and, with Sally
and Alice, reach their side of the forest by late afternoon. They wave
good-bye to each other as they separate to go to their family nests.
When Albert reaches his nest he tells his mother and father about the
good time he had at Alexandra's Birthday Party. He shows them the
pictures Alexandra's Daddy gave him.
Then Albert moves to his part of the nest, curls his tail around to cover
his toes, and falls asleep.
The sun sinks behind a low hill and night settles on the forest.
Leah and the Family Meeting
In their early years, many children create a relationship to an imaginary
friends with whom they play. Without getting into child psychology,
these friends are often partners in adventures as well as conversations.
Think back to when your children, now parents, were very young and
romped in the back yard with their personal frontiersman, pardner or
'friend' who was steadfast and always alongside. They climbed trees
together, sat side by side in the swing, or shifted the furniture about in
the dollhouse.
Inevitably, the time arrived to replace a companion of imagination with
the reality of growing up. The 'friends' or 'pardners' become memories,
but do not fade away entirely?
This story reflects reminiscence by an older person and, in that respect, it
serves as a model through which to welcome back pleasant memories
from childhood. The memories may be expanded and transformed into
a story to share with grandchildren. The grandchildren, in their turn,
might take it along with them into adulthood and share it with their
progeny.
***
All the woodchucks in Woodchuckaton crawled deep into their burrows.
The chipmunks crept under piles of chips. Even the beavers, over on the
other side of town in Beaverton, stayed home.
It was raining. It had been raining all day, and here it was now, late
afternoon. It was time for the rain to move along somewhere else.
Leah rested her elbows on the sill of the big picture window and cupped
her face in her hands. Shifting about on the big red cushion, she stared
out through the misty pane. Sheets of water billowed along the street,
one following close behind the other like a parade.
Leah heard her mother humming in the kitchen preparing the evening
meal. The evening meal was special. Daddy left home for work early
each day, before anyone else was awake. The evening meal was when
they all came together for the first time each day as a family.
Mother hummed or sang often as she went about the house. Leah loved
to listen, and, staring out the window, she sang the words. Their voices
blended and finished the song together.
The sounds of pots and pans and mixers also meant that Daddy would
be arriving soon. When Daddy showed up, David would wake from his
afternoon nap, and then Daddy, David, and she would play, roll about on
the rug, and talk until it was time for her to help Mother set the table.
Meanwhile, Leah was restless. She felt her left foot falling asleep so she
left the window and jumped up and down to get rid of the tingling pins
and needles. The tingling gone, she ran to the patio screen door in the
dining room and peered into the back yard. She knew it would be
raining there too, but at least the scenery was different.
There was another reason.
Twisting so that she could see into the far right corner of the yard, Leah
imagined the little house under the oak tree where Sarah had her stall.
Sarah was her personal flying unicorn. Leah waved and, in her mind,
Sarah answered by tossing her mane and scraping at the ground with a
front hoof. It was time for another pretend adventure.
Sarah poked her white horn through the doorway of her little house and
shook her head from side to side. When Sarah-a flying unicorn-
waggled her long white horn like that, it carried only one message: Sarah
wanted to fly. Leah sat on the floor, next to the doorway, and missed
being with Sarah.
Leah glanced up at the sky again. The rain had changed to a fine misty
drizzle and the clouds to light gray with patches of blue peeping through.
A shaft of sunlight cut through the clouds and the patches of blue
widened.
Suddenly, the rain stopped. Off in the distance a rainbow formed an
arch across the sky. Leah dashed to the kitchen.
'Mommy, mommy,' she said excitedly, tugging at her mother's apron.
'The rain is over. Sarah wants to play and so do I. May I go out to play
with her?'
Mother knew, of course, that when Leah and her pretend friend, Sarah,
played together, Sarah would often nuzzle Leah. That would be Sarah's
invitation to Leah to climb up on to her back and twist her hands into
Sarah's white mane. Once that happened, Mother was certain, Sarah
would spread her feathered wings and, in Leah's imagination, they would
leap to the skies.
Smiling to herself, Mother looked out through the kitchen window at the
sky. The clouds were breaking up, but the grass was still wet, the
ground soggy, and the trees dripped.
'Daddy will be home soon, Leah,' she said, 'and he'll be looking for big
hugs from David and you. Then we'll need to prepare the table for
dinner. I'll need your help. You know you have a job to do, don't you?'
'Oh, yes.' Leah's curls bounced as she nodded. 'But I won't be long.
Sarah and I have been cooped up all day. The rain has stopped. I want
to skip and jump.'
'… and fly.' Mother's eyes twinkled as she stooped, laughed, and
smoothed Leah's ruffled hair.
'Well, maybe.' Leah grinned as she hugged her mother.
'I suppose you and Sarah do need some fresh air,' Mother sighed as she
rose and looked out the window again. 'Wear your rain boots and red
raincoat, and don't go beyond Daniel's back yard, next door. When
Daddy comes home he'll call you in.'
'OK.'
Leah rushed to the hall closet and rummaged about among the shoes and
boxes on the floor. In the far corner, a round red boot toe stuck out
from under a large paper bag. That was one found. Pulling it out, Leah
searched nearby for the other. There it was, behind the umbrella.
Waving them high, she jump-skipped to the big cushion beneath the
picture window, sat, and pulled them on. Mother came in with the red
raincoat and helped Leah into it.
Ready.
Dashing to the back yard doorway, Leah jumped the short step to the
patio.
'Sarah, Sarah,' she shouted, 'come on. Let's go.'
That was all Sarah needed. She came frisking and prancing out of her
little house, raising first one hoof and then the other as she came close.
She nuzzled Leah's shoulder, and then unfolded and stretched her wings
so they would be out of the way for climbing aboard. That was the
invitation Leah was waiting for.
Taking a tight hold on Sarah's mane, Leah swung her leg across the
unicorn's back and she was on. Twisting both her hands into the long
silky hair Leah pulled herself forward until she was well out of the way
of Sarah's wings.
'All set,' Leah shouted. 'Away we go!'
Sarah trotted to the far end of the yard until she was close to the fence.
She faced about and began to run, faster and faster. Suddenly her wings
spread wide and with a leap they were in the air.
Up. Up. They spiraled around the old oak tree, rising higher with each
loop. From far out, they dipped into a long glide and swooped down
under the tree's branches, around and around the swing that grandpa had
made for David and her, and up and around again. They flew along the
top of the back fence, lifted, and cut across the roof of their house from
one end to the other. Twisting about, Sarah hovered above the front
yard.
Along the horizon, Leah saw the city of Portland hidden in rain curtains
and mists.
Leaning forward, Leah spoke into Sarah's ear. 'Let's fly over to Daniel's
back yard and see if he and Herbie the Lion are at home.'
Sarah snorted her understanding. She could talk, but did that only when
it was absolutely necessary. She had a soft gentle snort and would
rather speak her thoughts that way. It was a lot simpler, and Leah
understood.
Curving around toward Daniel's yard, Sarah cleared the top of the fence,
swooped, and held steady just above Herbie the Lion's house.
'Herbie,' Leah called out. 'It's Sarah and Leah. We're just flying by
today and stopped to say 'hi' to Daniel and you. Come on out.'
Herbie the Lion stuck his shaggy head out of his house, blinked, and
opened his jaws in an enormous drowsy yawn. Looking up, he grinned
and said, 'Hi, there. Where are you off to?'
'Oh,' replied Leah, 'we're keeping close to home today. Rain, y'know.
Also, Daddy will be home soon and I want to be with David to welcome
him and roll on the rug and talk. I'll also be helping my mother get
ready for dinner.'
'Quite right. Quite right,' Herbie said, shaking his head wisely, 'that is as
it should be.'
'Where's Daniel?' Leah asked.
'Daniel and his mother are at the library,' Herbie answered. 'Daniel's
books were due to be returned today.'
'I see. Well, Herbie, we must be off. Please tell Daniel we stopped by to
say 'hi' and that we'll see him another time.'
'Will do.' Herbie the Lion yawned again and pulled his shaggy head
back in.
Sarah's wings fluttered and they rose higher and higher. A moment later
they were looking down on Daniel and Leah's homes and all the other
houses on their street. Leah saw the glowing signs of the shopping
center a few blocks away. The mists and rain curtains still hid the tall
buildings of Portland in the distance.
Looking toward the end of their street Leah saw Daddy's car turn the
corner.
'Daddy's home. Daddy's home,' Leah shouted. 'Time to head back,
Sarah.'
Sarah snorted and dipped into her landing approach. Circling, she lost
altitude each time around. Finally, coming in over the fence, Sarah
arranged her wings for landing and bent her legs slightly to soften
contact with the ground. Leah tightened her grip.
Close to the soft earth near the patio, Sarah's wings beat the air. She
hovered for an instant, then lowered until all four hooves touched down.
A four-point landing. The flight was over.
Leah slipped off Sarah's smooth back, wrapped her arms around her
neck and gave her a tight hug. Sarah's hoof scraped the ground and she
gave another of her soft, gentle snorts.
Daddy stuck his head out through the patio doorway.
'Hi, there,' he laughed, 'what's happening.'
'Out and about, Dad, been flying, don'tcha know?' Leah answered.
'Sarah and I just got in from a short flight around the yard and over to
Daniel's place.'
'I see,' Daddy said. 'Well, I'm pleased you made it back in time for our
before-dinner get-together. David is up. Come on in and we'll roll on
the rug and talk for a minute before you help set the table.'
Daddy smiled down at her.
'Leah,' he said. 'Your mother, you and I are also going to have a talk this
evening. A meeting; very important. Coming in?'
'Yup, Daddy, just about ready.'
She turned back to Sarah and gently pretend-stroked the unicorn's nose.
Turning away, she crossed the patio and stopped at the short step to the
dining room. Daddy opened the screen door and bent down. Leah
wrapped her arms around his neck. Daddy rose, lifting Leah as he did,
and caught her rain boots as they slipped from her feet. He stood them
up outside, beside the doorway, to dry. Hugging each other, Daddy and
Leah turned back into the house.
Leah hesitated, and glanced back. In her imagination, she saw Sarah fold
her wings gracefully along her sides, lower her head and nibble at the
soft, green grass. It was also time for Sarah's dinner.
***
With dinner behind them, Leah joined Mother in clearing the table.
Nesting one plate into another and picking up a few utensils she carried
them to the kitchen counter near the dishwasher.
Daddy rose from his chair, went into the kitchen, and dampened a cloth.
On his way back to the dining room he winked at Leah as they passed.
Leah turned to watch.
Daddy tiptoed behind David's high chair. David, finished with his
eating, busily rolled leftover peas round and round his food dish.
Without warning, Daddy quickly reached around and with the damp
cloth wiped breadcrumbs, mashed peas and potatoes, and smears of
chocolate pudding from David's face and from behind his ears.
David howled and twisted away, but Daddy was ready for him. A
moment later, his face and hands cleared of food-well, as much as could
be expected with only a damp cloth-Daddy hoisted David from his chair
and lowered him to the floor.
Looking back over his shoulder as he scampered on hands and knees
into the living room, David tangled with a fire engine. He rolled over on
his back, looked up at Daddy, and laughed. The laugh stopped Daddy
from rushing forward; the tangle had not been hurtful.
Daddy stooped and pushed the fire engine toward David, then joined
him on the floor. They put their heads together, and as their hands
touched and explored the fire engine they explained to each other how
the different parts worked.
Leah, drawn from her work by the sounds of David's tumble, peered into
the living room. Seeing all was well, she smiled, and carried another
armful of dishes and tableware to the kitchen counter.
'Looks like our men are busy,' she said.
Mother nodded as she spooned leftovers into containers for the
refrigerator.
'It's always good to relax after dinner,' she said. 'When we're done here,
we'll join them. Then, in a little while, I'll bathe David and put him down.
You will take your bath, and then you, Daddy and I will have our
meeting.'
'Daddy did say something about a meeting when I came in from the
yard,' Leah said. 'What's up?'
'Let's just wait and see,' Mother smiled mysteriously as they loaded the
dishwasher.
***
Finished with her work, Leah skipped along the hallway that connected
her room to the living room. Little brother was down for the night.
Leah, bathed, hair washed, blow-dried and brushed, was squeaky clean in
her red nightgown.
She squeezed a space for herself on the couch between Mother and
Daddy and they eased aside to make room. Daddy put his newspaper
aside and Mother placed a card in her book to mark her place.
Glancing up at one, then the other, Leah put on her serious business
face.
'Meeting time?'
'Meeting time,' Daddy said.
'What's the problem?' Leah folded her arms across her chest,
straightened her legs, and fixed her eyes on the opposite wall to help her
concentration.
Family meetings were important. The meetings were still only for the
three of them. When David was old enough to share in the family
responsibilities, he would join the meetings.
'It's not really a problem,' Daddy said, 'but we're going to have a change
in the way we live.'
'A change?' Leah frowned. 'Everything is going fine. I'm satisfied with
the way we're living now. Why change?'
Leah turned to stare at Daddy, then shifted about to look at Mother, who
smiled at her. Daddy put his arms around Leah and pulled her close.
Mother reached over and straightened a wisp of her hair.
'Leah,' Daddy said, 'you may be a child, but you're no longer a baby.
You're growing up. Before long, you'll be a young woman. Young
women and young men need to learn about the world in which they live.
Mothers and fathers, and grandmas and grandpas teach children much
about the world and about what is right and what is wrong. That's fine,
but knowledge about the world around you also can be given to you
from somewhere else. Do you know of another place where a youngster
learns about the world?'
'School?' Leah's voice rose.
'School.' Daddy nodded slowly.
'School.' Mother's soft voice repeated.
'I'm going to go to school?' Leah wriggled from Daddy's embrace, slid
off the couch, and hop-skipped to the middle of the living room.
Whirling to face her grinning parents, Leah bounced with excitement.
Daddy motioned Leah back to her place on the couch.
'Our meeting is not finished,' he said. 'We have more to talk about.'
Leah immediately stopped her bouncing. Meetings, she knew, were not
to be interrupted by rude behavior. Climbing back onto the couch, she
leaned back, folded her legs under her, and folded her arms again. Only
now her eyes were sparkling with excitement. Pressing her lips together
tightly, she forced the no-nonsense business look back to her face.
'OK,' she said, I'm listening.'
'We'll tell you what to expect, Leah,' Mother said, 'and, afterward, you
may ask questions.'
Leah nodded.
'Not far from where we live here in Woodchuckaton,' Mother began, 'is
the city of Portland.'
'Right,' Leah cut in. 'We've been to the city lots of times on shopping
trips and for sightseeing and for visiting parks and….'
'Leah,' Mother put her hand on Leah's arm. 'Concentrate on what we
say. OK?'
Leah looked sideways at her mother and her eyes twinkled. 'You mean
no more interruptions. Right?'
'Right.'
'OK, I'm switched to my listener.'
'In Portland, and in all the cities and towns around it, are schools where
children go to learn about the world. You're going to be a student in one
of those schools. You will attend every day except weekends and
holidays. Is that clear to you?'
'Yep.'
'At the school are worktables, books with lots of pictures, playgrounds,
games, and many things to do that are fun. Children who are the same
age as you will be there too. A grown-up will be in the room with you
and the other children to teach and help you to understand all the new
things you will do and see.'
Leah was having a problem being a listener.
'I think Leah either wants to say something or ask a question.' Daddy
grinned. 'Shall we give her the floor for a moment?'
'Very well,' Mother said.
The questions tumbled out of Leah. 'When will I start? What will I
learn about? What's the teacher's name? Will I get new clothes for
school? What about….?'
'Wait a minute. Wait a minute.' Daddy laughed. 'Let's take them one at
a time. We can answer a few of your questions, and the teacher of your
class will answer others.'
Mother turned Leah to face her.
'You start school in three days,' she said. 'They know you are coming,
just as they know of the others who will be with you. What you learn
will depend on your teachers and on you.'
Suddenly Leah's face drooped.
'What about Sarah?' Her face clouded, and her voice changed to a
whisper.
Mother and Daddy glanced at each other. Daddy picked Leah up, placed
her on his lap so that they faced each other. Their eyes met.
'Tell me, Leah,' Daddy said as he drew her close and gave her a full all-
round hug, 'When we have a change in our lives in which you will be at
school every day, where do you think Sarah will be while you are gone?'
'Sarah will always be my friend,' Leah's voice was a whisper as she
leaned her head on her Daddy's chest. 'She'll be with me always,
wherever I go. Maybe we won't go flying as often as we did before, but
I'll always feel her close to me.' Leah raised her head, grinned, and added
with a laugh, 'and that will always make me feel good.'
Leah and her Mother and Daddy sat on the couch, talking about the
changes that would come with school. There would be a new time to get
up in the morning, dressing to go out, packing a school lunch and having
a comb and brush kit, and things like that.
Leah listened, and voiced opinions which Mommy and Daddy
considered very carefully. The meeting was a sharing.
After a while, Daddy and Leah went to the dining room table and Mother
brought cookies and milk. They sat around the table, munched the
cookies, sipped the milk, and talked some more.
Leah yawned.
Daddy rose, came around the table where Leah sat, and picked her up.
Mother kissed Leah's cheek as her head rested on Daddy's arm.
Daddy carried Leah down the long hallway, passed David's room, and
opened the door into her softly lit bedroom. Daddy lowered drowsy
Leah to her bed, tucked her in, and kissed her good night.
Realizing that Grandpa does well with stories, Grandchild wants to share
in the process. One way for Grandpa to get the youngster involved is to
have him or her suggest settings and names for characters.
Often, negotiations for story and character development, in themselves,
become family stories and anecdotes; e.g., how a story came to be, and
why and how it developed in this or that fashion. Injecting such
background as introduction to a series gives a sense of involvement to
the immediate and extended family, and to future generations that might
come across a copy in an old trunk or tucked away in an obscure corner.
As the grandpa-grandchild discussions move along, and characters,
settings and scenes take on substance, Grandpa or Grandma, whichever
is the storyteller, may be transformed into a character in the story. I
found a way to handle this, and remain inconspicuous, is to assume the
role in the story as listener or recorder of adventures narrated by the
leading characters.
In this series, Grandpa and Grandchild set the stage for the storytelling.
That being done, Grandpa steps back and takes on the role of listener,
rarely injecting himself into the narration. Throughout, Grandchild is
aware that Grandpa in close by.
Put Palm Trees in Your Stories
'Grandpa, where are you, Grandpa.'
The call reached me from down the long hallway. The sounds of
scuffling slippers grew louder and, a moment later, Granddaughter's
curly head peeked around the edge of the kitchen doorway.
'What are you doing, Grandpa?' she asked.
'Coffee,' I replied, peering in her direction over the rim of my glasses.
'Mornin' coffee.'
'Oh,' she said, standing in the doorway.
Her eyes focused on the scene beyond the kitchen window. The broad
fronds of palm trees close by outside waved about furiously in the brisk
November wind. There are no palm trees in the city where
Granddaughter lives, and having arrived late the previous evening she
had not seen the ones near our home.
Granddaughter stared. Dashing past me to the window, she placed her
hands on the sill, and jumped to see out.
'When you visit us next year,' I said, 'you will be taller, and see over the
sill without jumping.'
'I want to see now,' she demanded, reaching up. 'Pick me up, Grandpa.'
With Granddaughter seated on my forearm and her arms wrapped
around my neck, we stared through the window. The palm nearest the
window bent before a gust and straightened. The fronds of two palms
across the driveway thrashed atop long, graceful trunks that leaned,
straightened, and yielded again to the boisterous wind.
'Grandpa,' Granddaughter said, turning to look at me, 'tell me a story that
has palm trees in it.'
Her eyes gleamed mischievously as she reached up to stroke my liberal
expanse of bare dome. She knew I couldn't resist that gesture.
'We've got a busy morning ahead of us, young lady,' I said. 'Here's what
I'll do. I'll write a letter to you with a story in it about palm trees. Then
Mother or Dad will read it to you and Grandson. OK?'
Granddaughter stared at the three palm trees and their gyrating tops.
'I want more than one story,' she smiled as her hand patted and stroked.
'Hm,' I grandpa-growled, 'you're a hard bargainer, my dear.'
'Gampa, Gampa,' an impatient shout burst down the hallway.
Pajama-clad Grandson tore into the dining room like a tornado and
climbed chairs. Too small to notice what was happening outside, he
pounded a seat with tiny fists. His mind was on something far more
important.
'French Toast, French Toast,' he demanded. 'I want French Toast.
Now!'
Granddaughter twisted from my arms, further talk about stories replaced
by this much higher priority.
'Me, too!' she shouted, joining the pounding.
Pots and pans rattled, dishes and bowls clattered, refrigerator doors
slammed, and utensils baton-waved in all directions. Grandpa had
launched into his traditional and celebrated French Toast Extravaganza
that began early each Thanksgiving Day morning.
***
Thanksgiving is past. The grandchildren are back home in a distant city.
Grandpa has a promise to keep.
Creating a Setting
"Where will the story take place?
'Where there are palm trees, of course.'
'What kind of palm trees? For example, there are coconut palms, and
there are date palms, and there are also banana palms.'
'Grandpa,' impatiently, 'I want them all!'
That's one decision.
'Should I put the palm trees on a steeple on top of a tall skyscraper?'
'Just a minute now, Grandpa, who ever heard of palm trees growing on a
steeple on top of a skyscraper? That would be silly. Forget it.'
'How about in the middle of a freeway?'
'C'mon, Grandpa, be serious. A palm tree wouldn't last long in the
middle of a freeway. Cars would bump into it all day long. Nope,
freeways are out, too.'
'By the sea? By the sea? By the beautiful sea?
'Hm, that's a possibility.' Long pause. 'OK, let's go with it.'
'Check. Keep in touch. Over and out.'
'Grandpa?'
'Yes?'
'You and Grandma. Love ya.'
A picture began to form. Three palm trees close to each other on a
beach. They have thick trunks and huge fronds. One palm tree is a
coconut palm, another is a date palm, and the third is a banana palm.
Little waves tumble over each other to the shore, and some distance
behind them are rolling waves and a white, churning surf. Beyond the
surf is the endless sea. A summer breeze is blowing, raising whitecaps.
Two small islands are far out where the sea meets the sky. Add soft,
fleecy clouds. The sky, even with the clouds, is empty. Skies and birds
go well together. There! Three gulls, flying in from the left, low,
skimming the waves.
What's missing? Aha, children! A boy and a girl, about your age. What
are their names? That's your job, Granddaughter. Ask Mother which
letters to draw on a sheet of paper to spell them out. Put the paper into
an envelope, and ask Mother to address the envelope to Grandpa. Don't
forget the postage stamp.
The names arrived in this morning's mail. 'Suzanne' and 'Roger' fit our
characters well. I see you've named their adventures 'The Palm Tree
Stories.' Fine, that's when we'll call them.
Along the Ridge of the Dunes
One adventure is to explore the beach to search for seashells; another is
to build sandcastles. Still another is to watch the sea gulls and pelicans
dive and fish for food.
Suzanne and Roger enjoy watching the pelicans. They often watch the
large, clumsy-looking birds fly low above the water until they see a fish
beneath the surface. The pelican slips into a dive, folds its wings to cut
the water cleanly to reduce the shock of hitting, disappears in the spray
and rises with the fish in its beak pouch. The bird flies off with the fish
to eat it, or to feed it to the baby pelicans. That's a little adventure for
Suzanne and Roger.
There are also big adventures. Those happen when Suzanne and Roger
and their mom and dad go sailing. Sailing often takes them far out to
where the islands meet the sea. There they hike and explore the hills,
and at night, sleep in a tent ashore or in bunks on the sailboat. Those
are real adventures and we'll be talking about them soon.
***
I was thinking of Suzanne and Roger this morning and wondered what
they were doing. I pictured them on the beach in the bright sunlight,
walking toward where sand dunes had been built up by the wind and
waves.
The dunes slope down to the beach, and tall reeds grow on the sides and
along its ridges. When the wind blows, the reeds lean far over and
rustle.
Birds build nests among the reeds. Sometimes, small animals rush up
or down the dunes and through the reeds on their way from here to
there, or from there to here. The dunes are among Suzanne's and
Roger's favorite places for exploring.
I walked to the beach. Suzanne and Roger were waiting at Three Palms.
They had a story for me. Suzanne told the story just as if it was
happening right then.
Suzanne's story:
When we get to the beach, we climb to the ridge of a dune. The wind is
a gentle breeze and the reeds make a soft, sushing sound.
I see a movement in the reeds.
'Roger, Roger,' I shout. 'Come quick. We have company.'
Roger dashes over. I'm on my knees, separating the reeds with my
hands to see better. Roger helps and we see a baby jackrabbit.
We stare at the jackrabbit and don't move. We don't want to frighten
the baby jackrabbit and, of course, the baby jackrabbit doesn't want to
frighten us.
A rustling sound comes from behind a clump of reeds off to the side,
and out jumps a fully grown jackrabbit. It's as big as a cat, but has long,
flapping ears and a cotton-ball tail, which cats don't have.
The grown jackrabbit rushes to the baby and, with its mouth, grips the
back of the baby's neck and lifts it up. This must be the baby's mother,
because that is the way most parent animals carry their young. It
doesn't hurt the baby, and the mother does feel better knowing exactly
where her baby is.
The adult jackrabbit looks up at us. All this time we are very still. I
don't think the jackrabbit is frightened of us, but I suppose she has
other things to do and can't just stand around visiting.
After looking us over for a moment or two, the jackrabbit wriggles her
ears, turns away, twitches her cotton-ball tail and jackrabbit-jumps into
the reeds. She and her baby are on their way from one place to the
another. I guess only the jackrabbit really knows where and why.
'I hope they find their way to where they want to go,' Roger says, 'and I
hope the baby stays close to it's mother. A baby can get lost among
these reeds.'
'The mother jackrabbit knew where to find the baby,' I said. 'She must
be pretty smart. Don't you think so?'
'Yes,' Roger agreed, 'she's smart, all right.'
We walked back to the palms and, from there, home.
Gone Sailing
I strolled down to Three Palms and looked about. Suzanne and Roger
weren't there.
Maybe they're at the sand dunes looking for the floppy-eared baby
jackrabbit and its mother. I walked to the dunes to look for them. They
weren't there, either.
Climbing to the top of a sand dune, I looked around. Two big, white
clouds drifted across the deep blue sky, pushed by the wind. The wind
rustled the high reeds along the ridge, and they sounded like whispers.
A black and white gull flew low above the water, swooped, rose with a
fish in its beak, and flapped up and away.
I looked out toward the horizon and saw a sailboat dipping across the
waves. It was outward bound toward the islands. It looked like the
sailboat that belonged to Suzanne's and Roger's parents. Suzanne and
Roger must have decided to go sailing that day, and took their Mom and
Dad along for company.
I looked for them each morning for the rest of the week, but they hadn't
returned. I supposed they were having a long vacation.
Finally, this morning, when I arrived at Three Palms, Suzanne and Roger
were there, waiting for me.
'Hello, Suzanne. Hello, Roger,' I said. 'It's good to see you back. I
missed you.'
'Oh, we' re glad to be back at Three Palms,' said Suzanne.
'We sure are,' Roger added. 'We had a real fine time sailing and visiting
on the island. We hiked in the hills and did other things.'
'Did you have any adventures?' I asked.
'Yes, we did,' said Suzanne. 'Would you like to hear about them?'
'I sure would.'
'We had many adventures,' Suzanne said, 'We couldn't possibly tell them
all today. How about my telling one today, and then Roger telling one
tomorrow, and then me again the next day, and so on?'
'Sounds reasonable,' I replied.
We sat on the sand under the date palm. I leaned back against the tree.
A date fell and bounced off the top of my head.
'I'm glad we didn't sit under the coconut palm,' I said, rubbing my head
where the date had struck. We all laughed.
'OK, Suzanne.' I shifted about to get myself comfortable. 'Let's hear
about the first adventure.'
'I'm going to tell our adventures just like they're happening right now,'
Suzanne said.
'That's fine with me,' I said.
These are the stories told to me by Suzanne and Roger. I'm writing them
down using the same words as Suzanne and Roger as we sat on the
beach at Three Palms.
Dolphins Alongside
It's a beautiful morning to go sailing, Suzanne began the telling. It' s
Dad's vacation and we're going to Snug Harbor.
We load Snow White-that's the name of our sailboat, you know-with
suitcases and boxes of food. We take our special toys and lots of other
things for a long stay. When we are all ready, we cast off.
When we're far enough away from the slip, Dad hoists the sail. The
breeze fills the sail and we head out to sea.
Roger and I sit with Dad at the helm to steer and Mother goes below to
make sandwiches. We all wear life jackets. That just makes good sense,
like wearing seat belts when you're riding in a car.
The sea is gentle and we're moving right along. Roger is looking out to
sea as Dad and I talk.
Suddenly Roger shouts and points.
'Look. Dad. Suzanne. Look.'
'Where?' I ask. 'What do you see?'
'There, there,' Roger shouts, and points again. 'Do you see them?'
'See what?' I'm excited, but I don't know what to look for. 'Tell me what
you're pointing at, Roger.'
'Dolphins. They're jumping out of the water and diving back in again.
There. He points off the bow.
I look again, real hard, and I see what Roger is pointing at. A school of
dolphins, leaping.
'Dolphins are mammals', Dad says, 'and different from fish. They're also
very intelligent and friendly. Wave at them. Maybe they'll come closer
and leap near the Snow White.'
So Roger and I wave at the dolphins and call out to them.
'Come on over,' we shout.
They must hear us because they change direction and jump and dive in
our direction. When they're close they turn and swim alongside.
Mother comes up and holds on to us as we lean against the rail and wave
and call out to them.
The dolphins stay with us most of the way to the island. About a mile
offshore they turn away. We're sorry to see them leave. I guess it's time
for them to head for home.
'That was our first adventure of the trip. Would you like to hear about
another one?'
'Sure would,' I said.
'OK,' said Roger. 'Let's meet here tomorrow, and I'll tell about our
sailing into the harbor.'
Snug Harbor
Today was Roger's turn, sailing into Snug Harbor.
Roger spread a map of the island to help follow the stories.
After the dolphins leave, we go forward to Snow White's bow. We
watch the shoreline slip by as we near the harbor entrance.
We're sailing east around Singalong Point. The sea is choppy as the
breeze picks up.
We go aft to the stern. We're helping Dad and Mother do all the things
that are important when a sailboat enters a harbor.
Dad gives Suzanne and me important jobs: the port and starboard watch.
Suzanne has the port side and I have starboard. In sailing talk the 'port'
side is on the left when you're facing the bow or forward, and 'starboard,'
is on the right, also when you're facing forward.
We're in the channel that leads into the harbor, and we'll soon need a
place to drop the boat's anchor. 'Dropping anchor' are more sailing
words. They mean about the same as setting a car's brakes when the car
stops in the driveway and the motor turned off.
Suzanne is watching to port, looking for drifting debris and logs, and to
make sure the boat doesn't cut too close to the island. I'm taking care of
starboard, watching for the same things, and for traffic heading our way
from the open sea.
Mother is standing by to lower the sail when Dad gets Snow White to
the mooring. Mooring, used this way is like a parking space. Dad is
steering the boat and trying to watch everything.
I see a speck on the horizon. It gets larger fast, coming in our direction.
'Dad,' I shout, 'motor boat. Big.'
'Where away?' Dad shouts back.
'Off the starboard bow,' I yell back and point. Dad and Mother look.
Suzanne looks, too, but for only half a second, then she goes right back
to her job, which is very important.
'Looks like she's really coming fast,' Mother warns.
'You're right,' Dad says, raising his binoculars to examine the motor boat.
'It' s a tour boat from the other islands,' Dad says, 'She'll tie up at Snug
Harbor pier. With all those extra people on board this place may get
crowded. We'd better get in as quickly as we can and find a good place
to pitch our tents.'
Dad tells Mother to keep the sail spread and the lines taut to take as
much wind as possible. Soon we're passing the Snug Harbor pier and
wave to a man who is fishing. He waves back.
After our boat passes the pier we're in the sheltered part of the harbor.
Mother lowers the sail, and we drop anchor near the shore next to the
flagpole. The tourist boat pulls in close behind us and ties up to the pier.
We load our camping supplies into our dinghy and row to the beach. As
soon as Suzanne and I step ashore we dash along the trail to the
campsites and pick a good site for our tents.
Mother and Dad follow us with the gear. Working together, we pitch the
tents, and get our food stored so it will be out of the way of animals.
Soon, we're settled for the first night of our vacation.
'Well,' I said when Roger finished. 'That sounds like an exciting start.
What happened afterward?'
'Let's meet here tomorrow,' Suzanne said, 'and we'll talk about it.'
Hike
Think back to the last story. Roger finished telling about Snow White's
arrival at Snug Harbor and the race to the campsite. They did locate a
real cozy campsite and settled in for the night. Now it's Suzanne's turn
to tell what happened afterward. Today's story will be in Suzanne's
words.
We pitch our tent in an open space just across the trail from where a girl
is flying a kite. It's late afternoon by the time we're settled, so Dad
makes a campfire and Mother cooks our dinner over the flames. We sit
around the campfire and balance our plates on our laps.
After we finish we help Mother and Dad clean our campsite, and get rid
of leftovers. The sky is still light, so we take a hike.
Dad leads the way single file along the trail, then Roger, me, and Mother
at the end. In that way Roger can watch Dad, just in case he needs help,
and I take care of Mother. Well, Dad and Mother do sort of look after
us, too. Anyhow, off we go.
Dad heads toward Mount Nokomis, a low hill a short distance from the
campsite. We push through tall grass and around bushes and rocks.
Soon we're climbing the slope of Mount Nokomis.
I hear a rustling sound behind a bush.
'What' s that noise?' I turn to Mother and whisper.
'I really don't know,' Mother says. We look to where the rustling is
coming from but can't see anything unusual. Meanwhile, Dad and
Roger stop and Mother and I catch up to them. We stand close, the four
of us, and look into the bushes.
There it is again. The rustling sound is like leaves and branches gently
shaking. We can tell from which clump of bushes the sounds are
coming. Dad steps between us and the bushes. Roger and I stand right
behind Dad to protect him. Mother is very close.
The rustling is louder. From out behind a bush steps a doe.
We relax. Whew!
The doe isn't very big and it's friendly but shy. It looks us over and
wiggles it's ears in our direction to hear any noises we might make. She
also lifts her head to smell the air. Deer have very sensitive noses for
smelling danger, and that's what the doe is doing. She's trying to decide
if we're also friendly. We stand quietly so as not to alarm her. After a
while the doe moves a little way toward us and smells the air again. I
guess it's satisfied because it comes close.
Slowly I reach out and touch the doe's fur. She doesn't seem to mind.
The fur feels firm and smooth.
After a short while the doe moves away. It really is getting late, you
know, and the setting sun changes the day into evening. The doe needs
to find a place to spend the night. Wiggling her ears and flipping her
tail, she moves off and disappears into the bushes.
We start back to the campsite and make our way along the trail down the
side of Mount Nokomis. Soon we're back at camp.
Dad lights a lantern and gets the campfire going. We put sweaters on,
sit on logs next to the fire and sing camping songs. The girl with the
guitar joins us, and so do other campers and everyone joins in the
singing. The moon and stars shine in the sky and it's very peaceful.
Suzanne and Roger rose, waved to me, and headed for home.
'Don't forget to be here tomorrow,' Roger shouted. 'We had another
interesting experience the next day.'
'I'll be here.' I waved back.
Visit with Two Seals
True to their word, Suzanne and Roger arrived at Three Palms the
following day. We sat under the banana palm, and Roger told the next
story.
This is the day for the hike to Point Nemo, on the other side of the
island. It will be an all day trip, so we start early.
Mother packs our knapsacks with sandwiches, cookies, and cans of juice
while Dad inspects our hiking gear, like for extra socks, sweaters, towels
and things like that. We're ready and off we go. Dad takes the point,
then, in line, Suzanne, me, and Mother.
Instead of the trail that winds up and around the top of the island, we
head straight across, passing other campsites. We say hello to people
camping along the trail.
We stop to listen to a woman strumming a guitar. She is singing 'On
top of Ol' Smokey….' We gather round and join in the singing. We
wave good-bye and move along.
We see a man with a camera; he is taking photographs of flowers. We
stop to watch. We leave him and return to the trail where it opens into a
field. We follow the trail across a hill to Point Nemo, and from there to
the Point Nemo Lighthouse.
At the lighthouse it's time for lunch. Dad spreads a big checkered cloth
on the ground and Mother takes the sandwiches and drinks from our
knapsacks. We have lunch, rest, and sing songs. It's time to explore.
Climbing down to the beach near the lighthouse we run to the water's
edge. Suzanne and I take our shoes off and race each other through
waves that tumble over themselves on their way in. After a while we stop
running so that our breath can catch up with us. Standing at the water's
edge we shield our eyes with our hands, and look toward Seal Rock.
Brown shapes swim in the sea. They wriggle out of the water on to the
narrow strip of sand below the rocks. They're seals. More seals wriggle
out of the water. They're brown and of all sizes.
They bark. Have you heard a seal bark? It sounds like they have
something stuck in their throats. They really don't, you know. That's
just their way of talking to each other.
'Look, Roger, look,' Suzanne calls and points.
A seal is heading toward the beach nearby. Reaching shallow water, the
seal raises its head, looks around and sees us. I think it knows we're
friendly because it comes up on to the beach. The seal is followed
closely by a much smaller seal. It's a mother seal and her cub.
Suzanne and I want to get closer to the two seals, but we know that if we
move we might frighten them away. We watch and don't move.
The cub goes to its mother and they play in the sand. Then the mother
seal cuddles and nurses the cub. In a little while they head back to the
water's edge. The two seals look back at us. I must have imagined it, but
for a moment I think I see the cub wave its flipper toward us. Anyhow, I
think they know we're their friends.
The seals slip into the water and swim off in the direction of Seal Rock.
Soon they disappear among the whitecaps. They've gone home.
Suzanne and I walk back to Mother and Dad sitting on the beach. They
were watching, too. Dad talks to us about seals and other animals of the
land, the sky, and the sea, and how they and we all fit together on Planet
Earth.
We start back to camp. By this time the sun is starting down. It's late
afternoon. There is still light when we arrive at our campsite. Dad lights
the campfire and Mother makes supper.
After we've eaten, and clear away the leftovers, we sit around the fire.
Dad tells more stories about sailing and long hikes. Then we sing
songs.
***
We stood, stretched, and walked toward the dunes.
'Any more stories?' I asked.
'Oh, yes,' Suzanne replied. 'The best is yet to come. Telling our
adventures is such fun we're going to make it last for a few more days.'
'Tomorrow?'
'Tomorrow.'
Noises in the Night
The next morning we're back under the palms. Suzanne takes up the
story.
This is about what happened late the same night we hiked to Point
Nemo. As with the other nights, we get into our pjs, brush our teeth and
wash our faces. We hug and kiss Mother and Dad and I pick up our
flashlight. The tent doesn't have electric lights, so we have an electric
lantern that we hang from a hook in one of the wooden rods that hold up
the tent.
We take our flashlight along to see by as we get ready for bed. As we
move the light around it makes shadows on the tent walls. The shadows
jump in all directions, stretch tall and shrink short, first on one wall, then
on the other.
Roger waves his arms, jiggles his fingers and twists his body, which
makes his shadow twist and shake, too. It's weird and very funny. We
laugh at the shadows.
After a while, we stop, crawl into our sleeping bags and zip them up. I
reach out and turn off the lantern. A faint glow comes in from under the
flaps. Everything is normal, just as it's been since we arrived at Snug
Harbor. I guess we fell asleep.
Suddenly, I'm wide-awake. I hear Roger sleep-breathing. That can't be
what wakened me. I listen hard. There it is again. The sound is like
someone shaking and rustling paper bags. Then another sound, like tin
cans rattling. I'm curious.
'This needs to be looked into,' I think.
I unzip my sleeping bag, reach over and tap Roger's sleeping bag.
'Uh,' Roger says sleepily. 'Is it morning already?'
'No, silly,' I whisper. 'Keep your voice down and listen.'
We lie quietly in our sleeping bags. There it is again, soft rustling and
scratching sounds and, now and then, rattling.
'What do think it is?' Roger asks, now fully awake.
'I don't know,' I reply. 'Shall we check it out?'
'Let's do it,' he answers.
Very quietly, we slip out of the sleeping bags and crawl to the tent
opening. Roger opens the flaps a crack and peeks out. I get above him
and look out over his head.
There's just enough moonlight to make out the trees and the nearby
tents. We can see Mother and Daddy's tent in front of ours. The
sounds are coming from off to one side.
I look down at Roger. His eyes are wide. So are mine, I guess.
'Are you game?' I ask him.
'OK,' Roger says.
I lift the lantern from its hook. I don't switch it on; there's enough
moonlight so that we can see well enough.
Opening the tent flap just enough, we slip out, stoop far over, and tiptoe
in the direction of the sounds. We're very quiet and don't even whisper.
Up ahead, among the trees, is where campers bring things they don't
want, like empty tin cans and dinner leftovers that can't be saved until the
next mealtime. The sounds are coming from that direction.
Soon we're among the trees and near the large plastic containers where
the trash is stored. We're close enough to a container to touch it, but of
course, we don't.
Roger and I hear loud rattling. We whirl in the direction from where it's
coming and I switch on the lantern. Ahead of us are three trash
containers, and they're overturned. Paper bags, tin cans, and bits of food
cover the ground in all directions. Nosing about among the trash are
dozens of small animals, picking at scraps. We make out squirrels,
chipmunks, porcupines, woodchucks, and even a rooster and a chicken.
They're bleating, yapping, squealing, chirping and clucking as they
nibble and peck away at the leftover food.
'It's like a zoo,' Roger laughs.
'It's good that our table scraps aren't wasted,' I say.
'Yes,' Roger adds, 'but it'll sure be a mess for someone to clean up in the
morning.'
The animals don't seem to mind our watching. They go right on
scrounging and eating.
'Let's go back to the tent,' Roger yawns.
'I suppose we'd better,' I say, 'or we'll be too tired for tomorrow's
adventure.'
'Right,' Roger yawns again, 'That's one I don't want to miss.'
Nor do I. I' m really looking forward to it.
Back in our tent, I hang the lantern back on its hook and switch it off.
We crawl back into our sleeping bags. Roger yawns again as he
snuggles into the softness.
I think of the little animals having a feast among the trees, and feel glad
they can get at the food. I slip down so that my head isn't cold, pull up
my knees and wrap my arms around myself. I feel cozy.
***
'What happened the next day?' I asked.
'Wait and see,' Roger grinned.
The Little Old Man's Strange Story
When Suzanne and Roger left after the last story they were mysterious
about the next one, except that they did tell me to bring along a
sandwich. The next morning, when we gathered at Three Palms, we each
had a bag with sandwiches, cookies, and a container of milk.
'I took you seriously yesterday,' I said, waving my bag.
'Good that you did,' Suzanne answered as she settled down on to the
sand. 'Are you ready?'
'Yes,' I said, 'I'm ready. Which of you will tell this one?'
'We're going to have to share this one.' Roger leaned back as he spoke.
'I'll start.'
***
The next morning, bright and early, Suzanne and I have our breakfast
and hurry to brush our teeth. We're dressed and anxious to be on our
way. When Mother and Dad are ready we head for the trail. We're are
on our way to visit the Little Old Man on the other side of the island.
This Little Old Man is not just an ordinary old man. He's special. He
lives in an old stone hut near the sea cliffs. The house is tiny; only the
Little Old Man can get into it, and he does that only to sleep or for
shelter on rainy days. The rest of the time he sits outside and children
come from all over to sit near him and listen to his stories. That's why
we're excited this morning. We want to hear one of the Little Old Man's
world-famous stories.
The trail across the island is wide and not too long. We get there in time
to join a crowd of children and parents who are walking around or sitting
on the ground in a half-circle, waiting.
In the clearing, leaning on a cane, is the Little Old Man. He waves us in
to join the others and points to an empty space nearby. We make our
way to where he points and take our places. Mother and Dad sit behind
us. I look at the Little Old Man and understand why he is called that.
He is a small man, and, stooping over his cane, he looks small indeed.
On his feet he wears leather sandals. His faded blue coveralls have
patches on the knees and seat. A wide-brimmed straw hat is tipped back
on his head.
He removes his hat to wipe his head with a red handkerchief. His long
white hair is tied in a ponytail, and his wrinkled face is tanned to nut
brown. Eyes twinkling, he smiles at the audience. I feel good just
watching him.
The people who came to hear his story shift about to get comfortable and
I do, too. The Little Old Man's voice is deep as he begins.
'When I was young,' he says, 'I was a sailor and traveled to lands in all
the far corners of the world. I have been to strange places, and I have
seen and talked to strange people. Listen to me about a strange place,
and a stranger adventure.'
He stops, stares out to sea, and rubs his chin, deep in thought. His eyes
open wide as he looks back at us as his head turns from one side of the
seated audience to the other.
'After you've heard my story you'll decide for yourselves what to believe.'
Putting his wide-brimmed hat back on his head, he lowers himself
slowly to a large flat rock. He places his cane on the ground beside him
and crosses his legs just as I often do when I watch television.
Everyone's eyes are on him; it's very quiet.
'Come with me to lon n n g ago and far away,' he begins in his
deep voice. 'We're on a gallant, full-rigged sailing ship crossing a wild
and stormy sea. After many weeks, we drop anchor in the cove of a
mist-shrouded shore where high waves break against gray rocks. The
rocks are huge, black, and jagged, and they line the shoreline as far as I
can see in either direction. Beyond the beach is a dark forest.
'We leave the ship in the care of my First Mate and swim ashore.
Climbing over the rocks, we dash across the beach into the forest. It is
not only a dark forest; it is a dense and drippy-wet forest.
'We cut our way through heavy underbrush for many hours and finally
come to a high mountain. Fierce winds roar down the mountain slopes,
and swirling mists twist and churn in streamers across the mountain's
slopes.
'We climb and we climb, until we reach a pass close to the peak. Now
we must lower ourselves by ropes along a steep cliff. The base of the
cliff is hidden by a blinding snowstorm. Reaching the bottom, we are in
a deep gorge. The snow and the winds disappear, but there are other
dangers ahead.
'We string a rope bridge across a wide, swift river. On the other side rise
dense and wet forests of twisted trees and dripping, slime-covered vines.
'Tree branches and sharp thorns brush against us from both sides as we
push our way through. They scratch our faces and arms. Above us the
leaves are packed so close together that we cannot see the sky. The mud
is soft and squishy under our feet.
'We're tired, but we can't stop to rest. We must reach our destination as
fast as we can. There is no time to lose.
'We must rescue our Princess from the Trolls!
'Now you know who we are. You and I are rescuers. We have sailed
across stormy seas, climbed steep mountains, crossed deep and swift
rivers, and now we are making our way through this strange forest for
one reason only: to free our Princess from Trolls.
'Our mission is to return our Princess to our King and Queen who are
our Princess's mother and father. They love her and miss her. The
Trolls were wrong to take the Princess away from the castle that is her
home, and they have no right to keep her.
'So here we are, slithering and stumbling through squishy mud in the
deep, thorny, drippy forest searching for the caves of the Trolls.
'From far off in the distance we hear heavy rumbling. We're close.
'Up ahead is an open space filled with huge boulders. We know that the
Trolls for whom we're searching make their homes in caves hidden
among such boulders.
'We move slowly and silently. We must not be caught. Luckily for us,
we arrive while it's still daylight. Had we arrived during darkness, the
Trolls would have been up and about. You see, these Trolls are awake at
night and sleep all day.
'We tiptoe around a huge boulder. Facing us is the darkened opening of
a cave. From inside we hear the sound of a Troll-snoring; that was the
rumbling. Did you ever hear a troll snore?
'The snoring of one troll-I mean just one troll-sounds like ten
locomotives, all working together, pulling long trains up a steep hill. Ga-
a-roar and chlupp, over and over, and then a real heavy phytt-phytt,
followed by a high whistling cha-leep.
'We're there, all right. We have reached the caves of the Trolls. Now we
must find the Princess.
'Crawling on our hands and knees, looking in all directions, we make our
way to the cave from which the snoring comes. Peering in, we see the
troll in the half-darkness of the far side, sound asleep. His lips flap as
he snores.
'The troll looks almost human, except for two horns that rise from his
shaggy head, bristly-wire whiskers, bumpy nose, long pointed ears and
no teeth. He looks interesting, but we didn't come all this way to stare at
Trolls. We have a job to do.
'We do not see the Princess. We move on. Quietly, not to waken the
Trolls, we slip among the boulders, peering into one cave after another.
The Trolls are all asleep-that's what we think.
N O S U C H L U C K!
'A pattering noise from behind us. It's different from a troll's snore.
Slowly we turn. We see no one. There it is again. Step by step, we
move toward the noise. It's coming from the other side of a pile of rocks
and boulders.
'Climbing close to the top of the rock pile, we peek through a space into
a clearing. There, right there, in the center of the clearing, is the Princess.
When we see her, and what she's doing, we know why the Trolls took
her away from the castle.
'The Princess is baking bread! That's right, BREAD! Surprised, aren't
you? Well, that's what she's doing, and there's no doubt about it. What
does that have to do with her being taken by the Trolls? Listen, and I
will tell you.
'Our Princess is famous, far and wide, for the delicious bread she bakes.
When she's at home and getting ready to bake, people come from
throughout the land to sit nearby and enjoy the sight of her at work and
the aroma of rising dough. They especially enjoy the smell that spreads
throughout the palace and across the fields when her bread and rolls are
in the oven. That's not all, there's another reason why people travel to the
palace at the Princess's baking time.
'Always, when the bread and rolls are baked, the Princess gives most of
them away to the people. The people love the Princess because she loves
them, and because she gives them bread and rolls.
'The Trolls must have heard about how well the Princess bakes. They,
too, love bread and rolls, but they do not know how to bake. What's
more, they're too lazy to even try to learn. The only way they can get
bread is to have someone else do the baking for them.
'They also have no teeth and can only eat soft, fresh bread. That's why
they took the Princess. They want her to bake soft bread and rolls for
them each and every day. That's why they have her and want to keep
her.
'And that's why we're here. We've come to this strange and distant land
to rescue our Princess from a tribe of bread-and-rolls-loving Trolls who
are so lazy they would not even bake the bread they need to feed
themselves.
'The Princess doesn't see us. She's working hard, mixing and kneading
dough, shaping loaves and braiding rolls, placing loaves and rolls on
huge trays, and then sliding the trays into an enormous baking oven.
She stops every few minutes to shovel coal into the furnace under the
oven to keep it hot, and doing all sorts of other baking jobs. She hasn't
time to look around.
'To add to our problem, a troll is watching the princess to make certain
that she works every minute and does not try to escape.
'We see the troll guard watching the Princess. He leans against a rock
and his back is toward us. The hair on his shaggy head sticks straight
up. A big club is beside him. He's our problem.
'Carefully and silently, we climb over one boulder after another until
we're above and behind the guard. All-round are sounds of Trolls
snoring, and the ga-a-roaring, phytting, chlupping and cha-leeping are so
loud that the noise we make climbing down to the ground is not noticed,
we hope.
'We're on the ground, sneaking up behind the troll. The Princess sees
us. She looks surprised, but knowing who we are and why we're there,
she acts as if she doesn't know and keeps working. The troll didn't
notice the sudden look of surprise on her face.
'We're only a short distance from the troll. I step on a twig. The twig
breaks with a loud 'snap'. The troll whirls around, sees us, and snatches
up his club. He screeches, spreading the alarm.
'He sounds like a donkey braying. 'Help! Help!' he screams, and it
comes out sounding to us like 'Hee haw! Hee haw!' It really doesn't
make any difference how it sounds, we're in trouble.
'There's not a second to lose. We attack; you from one side, I from the
other. The troll doesn't know which of us will strike at him first. He
turns first one way, then the other. He is confused.
'You dodge in. The troll faces you and lifts his club. I rush up behind
him, and as the club swings back over his shoulder I grab it and pull it
from his hands.
'Not having anything to hit us with, the troll backs away. We don't want
to hurt him, so we let him go.
'You dash to the Princess. She hugs you, then points to a space between
two boulders. 'I know a way,' she whispers. 'Follow me.'
'We squeeze between the boulders and see a narrow, twisty trail. 'This is
the way,' cries the Princess. 'We must follow the narrow, twisty trail. It
will take us past the boulders to the edge of the enchanted, tangled forest.
The Trolls are afraid of the enchanted, tangled forest, and we'll be safe
from them there.'
'We race along the narrow, twisty trail, around a boulder one way, then
around another boulder the other way. We wiggle, wriggle, wind, and
even zigzag. The trail is as twisty as a corkscrew. The Trolls know
where we're heading, and they try to head us off.
'We're almost out of breath. 'Only a little way to go now,' the Princess
gasps. Two more zigs, three zags, a twist and a wriggle and we're at the
edge of the enchanted, tangled forest. We look back. The Trolls have
stopped. They know they must not approach closer to the enchanted
forest.
'The Princess waves good-bye. 'It was wrong for you to take me away
from my mother and father,' she calls across to them. 'I want to go back
to them and to all my friends and neighbors. Now you must learn to
bake bread and rolls for yourselves.'
'The Trolls look very sad as they wave back. We turn and walk into the
enchanted, tangled forest.'
***
The Little Old Man picks up his cane, slowly stands, and smiles at us.
'Our perilous crossing of the enchanted, tangled forest is the next part of
the story,' he says. 'Everyone rise and stretch. Stamp your feet and
swing your arms.' He points to a drinking fountain. 'Have a drink of
water if you wish. Then, let's gather again in a little while and I'll tell
what happened to us along the narrow, twisty trail that cut through the
enchanted, tangled forest.'
The Same Tale: And then…
The first part ended with the Little Old Man telling us all to stand and
stretch. That's what we, at Three Palms, did too. As we ate half our
sandwich, Suzanne went on with the story.
***
The Little Old Man continues.
'Here we are now,' he says as his eyes move from one side of the half-
circle to the other. 'The Princess, you and I have just stepped across the
magic line into the enchanted, tangled forest. We have escaped from the
Trolls. We must find our way back to the cove where our ship is
anchored. From there we will sail across the stormy seas, heading for
home. Our Princess will be back with her mother and father who love
her and miss her very much.
'But first, we must make our way to the other side of this enchanted,
tangled forest.
''The Trolls tell strange tales about this forest,' the Princess whispers.
'She stares about at the thorny, dripping vines.
'The Trolls say there are THINGS in this forest. I hope we can get
through to the other side without seeing them.'
'We cannot delay; we must move on. Up ahead the trail twists among
the trees and disappears under thick vines. We start along the trail. I
lead the way, then the Princess, and you in the rear to guard us from
behind. We force our way through the heavy vines and underbrush.
'After walking for a long time we stop and listen. There are no noises in
the forest. No sounds of birds singing, or insects buzzing, or leaves
rustling, or breezes blowing; nothing but silence. It is the enchantment.
We try to walk fast, but we must be careful.
'The narrow, twisty trail leads us up one slope and down another. The
leaves on the trees are so wide and densely packed that we are in deep
shadow. The sharp thorns on the slimy vines that hang from tree
branches claw at us, but we push them aside.
'Up ahead is an enormous tree with heavy branches stretched across the
trail. It blocks our way. The trunk of the tree, off to the side, is very
thick, and its branches and roots spread in all directions.
'We must get through the tangle of the tree's branches or roots, and find
our way again on the other side. We search for a trail around the tree.
The closely packed branches, roots, and steep rocks on both sides of the
trail are too dense to push through.
'Standing next to a branch across the trail I reach out to climb across the
tangle. The Princess and you are close behind.
'As I touch the branch, it draws back and away from my hand.
'What is this? A tree branch that pulls back and away when it is
touched? Impossible! I reach for it again. It pulls away. The Princess,
you and I stare at it, astonished.
'An enchanted tree,' the Princess says. 'We must talk to it, and trust it to
understand.'
'OK.' I shrug and step back.
'The Princess turns to the tree. 'Tree,' she says softly, 'I am the Princess.'
'A rustling sound comes from the tree, and the sounds form into words.
'I am Omar the Oak,' the rustling words come slowly. 'What are you
doing in the enchanted, tangled forest? It is forbidden to ordinary
humans.'
'We are strangers in this enchanted, tangled forest,' says the Princess.
'My friends, here beside me, have just rescued me from the Trolls who
live in the caves, and now we are trying to get through to our ship in the
cove. My mother and father are waiting for me at home. They love me
and I love them, and we miss each other very much. Please let us pass?'
'The fallen tree is very still; not a branch stirs, not a twig twitches, not a
leaf flutters. Is the tree thinking?
'After a long while, slowly, very slowly, a leaf moves, a twig bends, and a
branch curves toward us. The branch stops near the Princess's hand.
She reaches out and gently touches it.
'More leaves move and soon thousands are fluttering. The branches
untangle and a way opens for us. Branches curve around to form a
ladder and we climb up and over the branches that are too thick to bend.
The branches on the other side bend and open to let us to pass. We
reach the ground near the trail.
'We turn back to Omar the Oak. The tree's leaves flutter, its twigs twitch,
and its branches wave slowly. We wave.
'Thank you, Omar,' says the Princess. 'Thank you for helping us across.
We will never forget your kindness.'
'The rustling of the leaves becomes louder, and form words. 'Good-bye,
good-bye,' says Omar the Oak. 'I wish you well. Be warned. You must
prove that you deserve to leave this enchanted, tangled forest. Be
warned! You must deserve!'
'How must I show that I deserve to leave this enchanted forest?' The
Princess asks Omar the Oak. 'To whom must I prove it? What must I
do to 'deserve'?'
'The rustling gets louder, and we hear again, 'You must deserve to make
your way out of this enchanted, tangled forest. Be ready.' The rustling
is very loud. 'Be ready,' the words repeat and fade away.
''What do you mean, Omar?' the Princess repeats her question, 'what has
'deserve' to do with our leaving the forest?'
'But the tree is silent. The leaves stop rustling, the twigs stop twitching,
and the branches no longer wave. Omar, the enchanted oak, will say no
more.
'We turn away from the friendly, but mysterious tree and move on along
the narrow, twisty trail.
'The trail gets narrower still, and the leaves in the trees pack so close we
hardly see our way. We trip over roots curling out from the squishy
ground, and our clothes are snagged by the sharp thorns of slimy vines
hanging from trees. The deep silence of the enchanted, tangled forest is
all about us.
'Ahead, the trail takes a steep drop into a hollow with huge gray rocks on
each side. The rocks are shiny with wet, green moss. We slip and slide
about as we try to make our way down and across to where the trail
curves up again to drier ground.
'But wait. We cannot make our way through this rocky hollow. The
trail is blocked. Yes, blocked, and I mean really blocked. There, in front
of us, completely across the narrow, twisty trail with its huge wet, slimy
rocks on each side, stretches a huge, glittering, lacy-braided, closely
woven spider's web.
'That isn't all. In the center of the huge web, waiting for us, is the Spider.
Oh, the size of that spider! Enormous! Its legs are long and bent, and
covered with jagged spikes at the ends of which are curved, red pincers.
The spider's eyes, big as dinner plates, glare at us.
''We must fight that spider,' I say, 'or we won't get through.'
''No,' the Princess says. 'This is an enchanted forest, and the creatures
that live in it are also enchanted. Let me try.'
'The Princess walks close to the web. She's so close that the spider can
reach out and grab her with its curved, sharply pointed pincers. If the
spider grabs her, it will not be a pleasant hug at all for our Princess.
'The spider doesn't move. The huge eyes glare at her.
'I am the Princess….' she starts to say.
'I am Cyril the Spider,' the spider interrupts and its voice is like a saw
cutting through wood. 'What are you doing in the enchanted, tangled
forest. Ordinary humans are not allowed here.'
'The Princess speaks; her tone is polite.
'Pointing to you and me, she says, 'these are my friends who came from
far away to rescue me from the Trolls who live in the boulder caves. We
must make our way through this enchanted, tangled forest to our ship in
the cove. From there we will sail across the stormy seas to my home
where my mother and father are waiting for me. They love me and I love
them, and we miss each other. I want very much to go home. Please let
us pass?'
'Cyril the Spider stares at the Princess, then at you and me. Cyril is
thinking.
'Very well,' Cyril says, his buzz softening. 'I will let you pass.'
'The huge spider stretches one of its long legs to the bottom of the web
and draws it up. The web's strands pull apart until there is just enough
room for us to pass in single file. The Princess goes first, you and I
follow. As I pass through the web, it closes behind me.
'The Princess turns back to the spider.
'Thank you, Cyril,' she says. 'You're very kind to let us through your
web. I will never forget your kindness.'
'Good-bye, good-bye.' Cyril's buzz has softened to a hum. 'I wish you
well.'
'Cyril's voice changes to a rasp. 'Be warned,' the Spider says, 'soon you
must prove that you deserve to leave this enchanted, tangled forest. You
must deserve!'
''There it is again,' the Princess says, her voice now exasperated. 'I'm
warned again about deserving to leave this enchanted, tangled forest, and
that I must be ready. What does that mean, Cyril?'
'But Cyril doesn't answer. He is watching the trail again. We're now
behind his web and Cyril will say no more.
'We turn away from Cyril and move on along the twisty trail. It leaves
the narrow space between the high rocks. Once again we are in the deep
shade of closely packed leaves, fighting our way through drippy, thorny
vines and thick underbrush.
'We walk for hours. Ahead, we see a steep hill. The trail zig zags up the
hill, and disappears into a dark tunnel.
'We stop. We must follow the trail through the dark tunnel if we want to
reach the cove where our gallant ship waits.'
The Little Old Man stops. He looks round at the waiting faces.
'Would you like to hear what happens when the Princess and her friends
enter the tunnel?'
'Yes, yes,' we all shout.
'Very well. It's time for another stretch so let's all rise and move about a
bit. When you're ready, take your place and I'll finish the story.'
Still the Same Story: What a Finish!
Suzanne and Roger raced toward where I waited under the date palm.
'How far did you run?' I asked.
'Dunes,' gasped Roger, leaning against the trunk of the banana palm.
'…and back,' added Suzanne, running in place as she spoke.
'Ready for the last part of the story?' Roger's gasping slowed to regular
breathing.
'Whenever you are,' I answered.
Suzanne stopped running in place and flopped down onto the sand next
to her brother.
'Your turn,' Suzanne pointed at Roger as she leaned against the tree. 'I'll
rest and listen.'
***
'OK, everyone,' the Little Old Man calls out. 'Jump up and down a few
more times and then gather round and take your places. The sun is
starting its downward journey into evening. We'll finish in time so you
can hike back to your campsites and have your dinners.
He sits slowly, and places his cane beside him. He looks around.
We're all in our places and quiet, waiting for him to go on with the story.
***
'We left the Princess, you and me in the enchanted, tangled forest.
We've passed through the web of Cyril the Spider and are now back on
the narrow, twisty trail. Up ahead is the steep hill. Near the top of the
hill the narrow, twisty trail disappears into a tunnel.
'We climb the slope to the tunnel's entrance. We look in, but can't see
beyond a few feet. It's really dark in there.
''We have no choice,' the Princess says. 'We must pass through the
tunnel to the other side so that we can get to our ship.'
'We search the ground under the trees for fallen branches. There are
many to choose from. We make clubs and torches. I light the tips of
the torches with my trusty fire-matches.
'Into the tunnel we go. It's wet and cold and damp. Under our feet the
mud is squishy. As we round a bend the light from the tunnel's opening
behind us disappears. It's dark ahead of us and dark behind us. We
step carefully, our torches lighting the way.
'We walk for more than an hour. The end of the tunnel is still not in
sight. Our torches are getting short. We didn't expect the tunnel would
be this long, and we're wondering if we'll ever make it to the other end.
'Up ahead is a dim glow. We walk faster. Maybe it's the end of the
tunnel.
'The light gets brighter. It's coming from around the next bend. We're
especially careful now, and as we come to the bend we lean over to peer
around and beyond.
'A piercing shriek cuts the air behind us.
''We gotcha!' a voice roars.
'We whirl around, staring into the darkness, ready to fight. We see
nothing at first. After a moment, we make out tiny gleams, in pairs and
close together. Eyes-many eyes-staring at us.
''Oh no, you haven't got us,' I shout. The Princess, you and I stand close.
'Come on,' I whisper, 'let's make a run for it.'
'We turn and dash around the bend. We stop in surprise.
'The tunnel ahead of us opens into an enormous cavern. Lighted torches
along the walls cast shadows in all directions. The center of the cavern is
taken up by a huge black box, and next to it, staring at us are-now, be
ready for this. Are you ready? Elves! Elves, I say! Yes, Elves!
''Oh, no,' cries the Princess, 'we escaped from Trolls, and now we're
among the Elves. Not again!'
'We whirl back to the narrow tunnel. We must escape. From the tunnel
rush more Elves. They're the ones who sneaked up on us and shrieked
'We gotcha.' My goodness, they sure gotcha'd us. We're surrounded!
'Standing back to back, we raise our clubs, ready to protect ourselves
against attack. I must say, though, Elves are not at all like Trolls. These
Elves don't look fierce, as Trolls do, nor do they look like they would
really want to fight with us, or with anyone.
'Out of the crowd near the black box steps an old, old Elf. Stooped over,
he leans on a cane. Slowly, he comes closer, peering at the Princess
through tiny eyeglasses perched on the tip of his nose. He points his
cane at her.
'Who are you?' he wheezes.
'I am the Princess,' replies the Princess and points to you and me. 'These
are my friends,' she says, 'who have come to take me back to the King
and the Queen who are my father and mother who love me very much
and whom I love very much. We miss each other and I want to return
home so I can be with them. The narrow, twisty trail to the cove where
our gallant ship is waiting led us into this tunnel. We have no choice but
to follow it. Please let us pass.'
'The ancient Elf has not taken his eyes from the Princess.
'Do you bake?' he wheezes.
'Do I bake?' cries the Princess. 'What do you mean by that? Are you
going to bake me?'
'The Princess, you and I raise our clubs. No one is going to bake our
Princess. No siree, not if we can stop it.
'There is a long silence. The ancient, stooped Elf stares at each of us.
We stare back at him. The crowd of Elves closes around us.
'The old, old Elf smiles.
'I don't mean, do YOU bake, but only do you bake? No, that doesn't
sound right, does it? Can you bake? Can you bake bread and rolls?
There, that's better.'
'Huh,' I say.
'Huh,' you say.
'The Princess looks puzzled. 'What do you mean? Can I bake bread
and rolls? Why do you ask?'
'Everything changes. Instead of being ready to fight for our lives, we're
talking about baking bread and rolls. I mean: baking stuff! Now really!
How about that, all you boys and girls sitting here round and about?
How about that, all you Moms and Dads and Grandparents sitting
alongside your children?
'Well, we are really astonished, and although we're relieved, we're still
very suspicious. We keep our clubs ready.
'The Princess looks at me. I look at her. She looks at you. You look at
her. You and I look at each other.
'The Princess's face breaks into a gentle smile as she says to us, 'I think
these Elves will not hurt us. I'll speak with this little old man and try get
his help.'
'We lower our clubs, but hold on to them, just in case we do need to
defend ourselves.
''Yes, I can bake bread and rolls,' the Princess says, turning back to the
little old man.
'Whispering sounds chase each other among the Elves crowding close.
'She says she can bake bread.'
'Do you think she really can?'
'Well, she says she can.'
'Éand rolls?'
'Yes, and rolls.'
'She can, really?'
'From someone in back, 'I'm willing to believe her. I'll say, yes, she can.'
'The Elves chant, 'She can. She can. Oh, yes, oh, yes, she can. The
Princess can bake bread and rolls. Oh, joy, oh joy! The lovely Princess
can bake bread and rolls. Beautiful bread and rolls. We are saved.'
'They dance. Round and round they go. Holding up colored cloths they
form first a line, and then a circle, then many smaller circles, and circles
inside of circles. They dance and they dance and they laugh and they
sing.
'The ancient Elf leans heavily on his cane. He looks very worn and tired.
'Please,' he says. 'Our baker is very, very old, just as I am, and now he is
also very sick. He is too weak to bake any longer or to tell us how to do
the baking ourselves. So we have neither bread nor rolls. Please bake
some bread and rolls. Then, lovely Princess, teach us how to bake. In
that way you will save us from hunger.'
'The ancient Elf points to the big black oven.
'We have a good oven, but we don't know how to prepare it for baking.
Show us how to heat the oven for baking. When we are no longer
hungry, we will help you. We will have the strength to guide you to the
cove, and to help you to get to your gallant ship. Then you will depart
across the stormy seas to the King and Queen, who are your father and
mother who love you and miss you very much.'
***
The Little Old Man stops talking. He pulls his big red checkered
handkerchief out of his pocket and wipes away a tear.
'Well, boys and girls and mothers and fathers,' he says, 'you can imagine
what happens after that. The Princess shows the Elves how to prepare
the oven, and she has them bring flour and water and yeast and salt. She
shows them how to mix and knead the dough.
'After the dough has risen, the Princess shows the Elves how to roll it out
and shape it into loaves and rolls. Everyone is busy. The Elves place the
loaves and rolls on baking trays and pans. They lift the trays and pans
over their heads and form a line from where they made the dough to the
oven's door.
'The Princess stands beside the oven as the Elves follow her instructions
and slide the trays and pans inside. The oven is enormous, and there is
room for all the trays and pans.
'We sit in a half-circle in front of the oven, waiting. Soon, the cavern fills
with the aroma of baking bread. Everyone, the Princess, all the Elves,
and you and I, breathe in the warm soft fragrance that always comes
from well-prepared bread and rolls baking in an oven.
'When the Princess thinks enough time has passed, she says, 'It is time
to take the trays and pans from the oven.'
'The Princess opens the oven door. A gasp and a shout rise from the
Elves standing on their toes and stretching to see. Before them are
dozens of loaves of bread and hundreds of rolls, all baked to a glorious
golden brown. It is a beautiful sight.
'Using long-handled scoops, the Elves draw the bread and rolls from the
oven and set them aside to cool. While the bread and rolls are cooling,
the Princess tells the Elves again how the dough should be prepared, and
how the oven made ready for baking.
'When the Princess is satisfied that her instructions are understood, she
says,
'Now, as all good people do, let us eat bread together.'
'We all stand silently, looking at the bread. The ancient Elf rises from
where he sits and, leaning on his cane, walks slowly to where the bread is
cooling. He places his hand on a loaf and looks at it for a long time,
speaking very softly.
'He pinches off a piece of bread from the loaf and from that piece
pinches off another. Leaning on his cane, he walks slowly to where the
Princess stands, watching him, and gives to her the pinch of bread.
'We were in need,' he says, 'and you helped us. By helping those in need
you have shown us that you, too, deserve to be helped.'
'You and I nod in understanding. The meaning behind the words of
Omar the Oak and Cyril the Spider are now clear.
'The ancient Elf points to a tunnel opening in the cavern's wall. 'From
here the tunnel has many branches, and many have turns that lead deeper
and deeper into the enchanted, tangled forest. By yourselves, you would
have lost your way. We will guide you through the tunnel to the cove
where your ship waits.'
'The Princess and the ancient Elf silently eat the bread they hold in their
hands.
'The other Elves crowd around and thank us for showing them how to
bake bread and rolls. They wish us well on our journey home.
'We wave good-bye, and with ten stalwart Elves carrying lighted torches
to lead the way, we walk along the tunnel. After many turns into branch
tunnels and an hour of climbing ladders and stairways we are out again
into daylight. We see the cove. A lively offshore breeze is blowing.
'The Elves drag a boat from among nearby reeds. We take seats in the
boat and our escorts row us out to our ship. We climb aboard, and wave
farewell.
'I turn away and shout to my crew, 'Hoist the sails.'
'The sails rise, catch the offshore breeze and fill out. Our gallant ship
turns gently and moves gracefully out of the cove. We are on our way
home.'
***
The Little Old Man slowly stands. He is stooped, and leans on his cane
with both hands. He looks tired and a little sad.
'That is the end of the story,' he says. 'I recall that the voyage across the
sea was stormy, but we did reach the other shore safely. The Princess
was happy to be back with her mother and father, whom she loved and
who loved her and they had indeed missed each other very much.
'For many years afterward the Princess enjoyed baking bread and rolls
for her father and mother and for friends who came to visit. In time, she
married, and baked for her family. Every day, before dinner, she and her
children carried baskets of bread and rolls and other foods from the
castle and gave them to her people. The people all loved the Princess as
much as she loved them.'
***
The Little Old Man slowly straightens and waves his cane at us. We all
stand.
'Good-bye, good-bye,' he says. 'The sun is low in the sky. It is time for
you to return to your campsites. I will see you all again another time,
and we'll all go on another voyage across stormy seas to strange lands
and strange people, and even stranger Things. Good-bye, good-bye. I
wish you well.'
The Little Old Man turns and, leaning heavily on his cane, goes into his
tiny hut and closes the door. The story of the Princess's escape from a
land of enchantment has ended.
***
We hike back to our campsite. It is late evening when we arrive. We
have a quick supper and slip into our sleeping bags.
'This was really a good vacation,' I say to Suzanne. 'Tomorrow morning
we'll sail back to our home at Three Palms. I'm glad we're going home,
because next week we start school.
Suzanne is sound asleep.
***
And so these stories of Suzanne and Roger at Three Palms are finished.
We stand and stretch. A gull swoops in from the sea, lands, and pecks
about among strands of seaweed that had washed on to the shore. It is
late afternoon.
Leaving the beach we head for our homes. At the top of a low rise we
stop to look back. There, against the background of blue ocean and
darkening sky the fronds of our three palms wave gently in a soft and
gentle breeze.